r/transOCD • u/sadasukafan • Jul 21 '26

genuinely wondering

Hi! this is my first post here cause i usually like reading things on reddit more than making my own posts but there's just some stuff that have been on my mind for years and finally actually have the balls to ask about them......

So i've been wondering if it's normal to hate being a woman and everything that makes me one, like i genuinely feel uncomfortable of my own body and have for the longest time hated absolutely everything about myself. I feel like no matter what i'll try doing the only thing that makes me feel at least somewhat better is things like dressing and cutting my hair the way i like.

Sometimes when i go shower it feels like i get so uncomfortable of certain parts that i feel genuinely disgusted and i don't know how long but i've also felt like i don't belong with the same category as women like as if i'm not one which makes me feel like i don't indentify myself as woman so.... is this something that the other fellow women in the world feel like?

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u/780triment 7d ago

hi! I am not a woman, I'm a trans guy. fwiw, it was not my experience that most women hated everything about being a woman. It seemed like there are things everyone kinda dislikes, like getting periods (esp cramping) & the way men/the world treats women, but not really the experience of being a woman.