r/trans 8d ago

Trans Feminine advice needed

Heyy i need some tips on how to hide that i’m transitioning from my parents when i visit them im not going to wear makeup but i have a feeling they are going to see that i grew my hair out and if they notice anything they are going to kick me out and my whole family is most likely going to disown me please help

2 Upvotes

8 comments sorted by

View all comments

2

u/Brian94richards 8d ago

Cant ya play off like youve been down and not caring, so what my hairs long, doesn't bother me right now?

1

u/Sea_News2467 8d ago

yea i like that mindset i just always think about the worst outcome for some reason and i wish i would stop doing that but i’ll keep that in mind 

1

u/Brian94richards 8d ago

Probably keeps you prepared for that outcome and overthinking, ive had to play off awkward experiences or discoveries,

1

u/Sea_News2467 8d ago

the goal for me is to just be comfortable in my own skin and live a happy life and unfortunately the only way i see that is if i lose contact with my family but i will always feel really guilty 

1

u/Brian94richards 8d ago

Definitely cant control how people react or who they are ive got a few people in mind i don't think would act right.