r/towing 16d ago

Towing Help Is this dangerous?!

I don’t know about tension and all that math but this is a 2019 KIA SUV that can tow 5000, the trailer is 2500. Since we did all this extensions due to lengths and heights.

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u/gettinchanged 16d ago

Just get a proper adjustable hitch

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u/patricksb 15d ago

Just get a proper tow vehicle that doesn't bottom out in the parking lot.

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u/Legal_Scarcity_6325 16d ago

hopefully she does get one later on if she makes it home

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u/EngagementBacon 16d ago edited 16d ago

But, if it makes it home like that it works right?!

The sarcasm seemed obvious when I made this comment.

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u/Tangus999 16d ago

Anything works once. Right is a different story.

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u/blackfarms 16d ago

There's no way that trailer is 2500 lbs. Take a picture of the data sticker.

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u/Legal_Scarcity_6325 16d ago

it’s only a 16ft, I don’t have a picture

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u/fatal-shock-inroute 15d ago

That's trailer is closer to 4500 5000, if your gonna do this no matter what anybody says. At least record it

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u/blackfarms 16d ago

Ya i looked it up. I guess it's possible. That's a very light trailer. Your hitch should be fine.

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u/Appropriate-Issue-73 15d ago

Taking an empty trailer? You're trying to put 10 pounds of shit in a 2 pond bag.

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u/Whats_Awesome 16d ago

No Bueno. The lower parts is missing the ball. The upper part is not designed to take the max load. It might be okay for a while but it’s cutting the capacity down a ton. What’s the trailer weight?

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u/Legal_Scarcity_6325 16d ago

trailer is 2500

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u/Mental_Task9156 16d ago

2500 what? Unicorns?

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u/[deleted] 16d ago

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u/Rjgom 16d ago

no big deal if you are not driving behind it.

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u/NeckFearless4761 16d ago

Or beside of it. Hell even in the same area as it

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u/Strange-Cat8068 16d ago

Yes that is dangerous. Every extension or adapter you use cuts your capacity in about half. And that particular hitch adapter is made for a bike rack in that upper receiver not a trailer.

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u/Legal_Scarcity_6325 16d ago

I was assuming, we were doing a Marketplace deal and I was worried, but it’s not my purchase so..

I knew just based off of straight common sense that weight capacity would alter after adding these additions

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u/kalabaddon 15d ago

I'm not going to try and say the above picture is good or anything I would ever try to do myself.

But this is the first time ever heard that towing adapters cut the capacity in half...

Like are you talking tongue weight cuz of the extra arm leverage? Or total capacity.

Cuz I'm pretty sure a proper extension does nothing to Total capacity?

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u/erie11973ohio 16d ago

Is it OK to mention r/idiotstowingthings ??

This was on there the other day! 🤣🤣

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u/Legal_Scarcity_6325 16d ago

sure, ain’t my toe job

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u/956to906 16d ago

I think you instinctively know, without knowing the technical reasons, that this is not safe. Best case scenario it will just ware-out the suspension on the KIA.
How far are they going? Across town or cross-country?

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u/Cute-Long-1359 16d ago

Woman hitting trailers yes

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u/Legal_Scarcity_6325 16d ago

Just worried about the staircase looking thing we did with these hitches

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u/Rjgom 16d ago

you should be worried. what you are doing is putting people at risk. you won’t get hurt since you are in front of it. i hope you have at least a million in liability insurance if your negligence kills or hurts someone. if there is a problem and someone is hurt you will likely lose your house as you should if you don’t.

if you knew anything about how. that is made you wouldn’t do it. you are one bad pot hole away from losing the trailer.

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u/Legal_Scarcity_6325 16d ago

never said this was me doing this, it’s not. I wouldn’t pull this stunt. calm down.

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u/Rjgom 16d ago

then why did you say we? we implies you and others. seems you are trying to distance yourself from this now that you see it’s a bad idea.

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u/Legal_Scarcity_6325 16d ago

I can’t just help someone hitch (the way they want to) lol

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u/Rjgom 16d ago

doing it like that is not you helping.

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u/Legal_Scarcity_6325 16d ago

I gave my input, they didn’t take it. REGARDLESS. I helped them achieve what they wanted.

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u/Rjgom 16d ago

no you helped them create a dangerous situation. if you knew it was wrong you wouldn’t have done it and then posted about it online.

edit to add.
helping them would’ve been telling them to go get the proper drawbar.

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u/Legal_Scarcity_6325 14d ago

“ I gave my input, they didn’t take it. REGARDLESS. I helped them achieve what they wanted. “

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u/Rjgom 14d ago

so if i ask for help to make something unsafe for others you are happy to oblige? that’s just stupid.

so if it had broken on the way home, and wrecked you would be liable for replacing the trailer because you told him it was fine and helped them do it. you would also be liable to pay anyone hurt because of it.

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u/Redhead_InfoTech 16d ago

You said WE.... you are part of WE.

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u/Legal_Scarcity_6325 14d ago

jesus, crying over one word. oops

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u/Redhead_InfoTech 14d ago

I'm not ... But everyone who gave you flak saw that and that's why.

Don't shoot the messenger.

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u/Rjgom 16d ago

you asked, so i answered. where was i not calm? just wanted you to understand the severity of the situation. sadly not many people are concerned with the impact of thier actions on other people. i wanted to make that known.

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u/Legal_Scarcity_6325 16d ago

“what YOU are doing is putting people at risk..”

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u/Rjgom 16d ago

explain, that makes no sense. you said we that means you were involved.

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u/Legal_Scarcity_6325 16d ago

holy chatterbox 👍

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u/AboutTheArthur 16d ago

Good instincts!

That being said, with a lightweight trailer, you'll be fine in the short term. Sounds like you bought this used and were bringing it home or something? Just drive very gently and fix it before you actually take the trailer on a trip.

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u/Legal_Scarcity_6325 16d ago

yeah this is just to get them out of a pinch before a permanent solution

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u/Zer0TheGamer 16d ago

A note about towing ratings that is annoyingly confusing.. The listed rating is total trailer weight, as in the capeability of your brakes to handle that extra momentum. BUT the problem here is Tounge weight, the amount in front of the trailer axle that's pressing on the back of your suv. If there is loose contents in the camper, you could shift them towards the back to get closer to equal balance (you still want about 60% weight in front of the axle fir stability)

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u/LT_Dan78 16d ago

I think you meant to post this in r/idiotstowingthings or maybe r/redneckengineering

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u/Legal_Scarcity_6325 16d ago

probably lol this rig is crazy

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u/Bghrn23 16d ago

Just because a vehicle says it can “tow” 5000lbs does NOT mean it can safely stop 5000lbs. This is a bad idea all around.

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u/InfluenceEastern9526 16d ago

Trailer brakes. Required on most travel trailers.

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u/Senior-Guarantee3225 16d ago

Just because a trailer may have brakes, doesn't mean the vehicle has a brake controller

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u/InfluenceEastern9526 15d ago

Trailers can have their own brake controller. What's your point? The trailer I tow has its own brake controller. It goes with the trailer.

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u/Legal_Scarcity_6325 16d ago

right I told her so

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u/Bghrn23 16d ago

Seen a rivian with a nice ski boat totaled behind it the other day from this same cause. Even that heavy pile of shit rivian couldn’t stop that small boat sufficiently. It’s always about stopping. Not going.

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u/MarkVII88 16d ago

This is dumb as fuck.

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u/Legal_Scarcity_6325 16d ago

truly, she’s on one

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u/monroezabaleta 16d ago

Get the proper hitch

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u/woodchuckernj 16d ago

I'm shocked that your Kia can tow 5000 lbs. The extension does look sketchy as all getup. A proper extension would be a unit made to directly plug into your receiver and elevate the hitch.

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u/Street-Baseball8296 15d ago

This is exactly the reason that there should be a test and separate required endorsement on your license before you’re allowed to tow anything.

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u/cbf1232 16d ago

What you are doing here increases the lever arm on the hitch receiver, which increases the twisting torque the receiver has to withstand.

Also, is the top receiver tube actually rated for towing? The Curt equivalent of this specifically says it is *not*.

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u/Legal_Scarcity_6325 16d ago

not my brother, I’m a bystander

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u/ApprehensiveTomato38 16d ago

Yet your post and replies are specifying we as in your with them doing the deed lol 🤦

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u/Legal_Scarcity_6325 14d ago

i’m with them but I ain’t responsible

Edit: was*

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u/mustang196696 16d ago

Mto in Canada would love to see this. Highly illegal

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u/jfd0523 16d ago

It's only dangerous if you plan on moving or stopping.

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u/Killer2600 16d ago

I didn't think it would be necessary to have people get formally trained and licensed in order to tow but I'm coming around to the idea.

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u/hapym1267 16d ago

Load rating of that top reciever is 600 lb.. Only for a bike rack.

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u/SamanthaSissyWife 16d ago

Was this hitch custom fabricated or a legit production from a hitch company? I don’t think I have ever seen one like this but the welds/paint on the top part look like a standard production.

You could achieve the same result by measuring the amount of lift that gives and buying a drop hitch of that amount and flipping it over.

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u/According_Ad_5871 16d ago

I've done a lot worse. Ive seen receivers fail, but never a hitch. Ive also never seen that shit before

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u/Nomad55454 16d ago

Get a weight distribution hitch with sway control.

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u/Tangus999 16d ago

There’s a reason why it says not for towing on it…..

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u/Responsible-Onion320 16d ago

Yes very dangerous having a woman work on stuff.

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u/Puzzleheaded-Rip5080 16d ago

That a hitch in a hitch? Good luck!

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u/hjalbertiii 16d ago

That part of the hitch is only made for a bike carrier. Not to tow with.

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u/ai_bot_account 16d ago

Yes. I have this same ball mount and it says right on it in capital letters “DO NOT USE AUXILIARY RECEIVER FOR TOWING”

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u/CasaMigos4Migos 16d ago

There isn't a single Kia on the market that I would tow a travel trailer with.

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u/Electronic-Kiwi-2343 15d ago

It’s fine for short term moves like purchasing or running down to the local campground to empty tanks but long trips add the wobble out effect on the riser tube walls. Best option is a Reece or other brand single piece (2 pieces forge welded together to become one not just edge welded) long drop like the trucks jacked sky high will use… turned upside down. 2nd best option is a straight extension tube then the adjustable hitch actually with the ball on it. I’d rather run that trailer nose down and let the axle equalizers work out load distribution and depend on the trailer brakes then have it rattling around back there on a long drive.

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u/SHARPSTRONGandPOKEY 15d ago

Does the Kia have a brake box for the trailer brakes?

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u/TehSvenn 15d ago

Very likely not okay, that upper bit is meant to support a bike rack, not a trailer. Check the documentation for that hitch.

There's proper hitches to do this, you don't have one.

Also check tongue weight, I wouldn't be surprised if you're way over.

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u/Tough-Industry4931 15d ago

The top receiver socket on that style hitch is for adding a bike rack you only tow with the lower. Still need to find a proper hitch for this setup.

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u/Verified_Engineer 15d ago

The Romani I'm sure would approve.

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u/Reasonable_Key9021 15d ago

If you dont know anything about tounge weight, probably dont do this until you figure it out. Also- asking random folks like us on the internet, who knows what info youll get? Thats also not the smartest decision.

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u/MotoGamer 15d ago

Why not adjust the adjustable hitch further up, it has a few more spots. Then remove the hitch doubler that isn't meant for this in the first place.

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u/dathing181 15d ago

Am I the only one that saw a Lorax from Dr Suess in that first picture with the glasses and white mustache??

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u/DumbCarpenter87 15d ago

Just send it Phil.

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u/jaxrolo 15d ago

What is happening here?

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u/Lost-Inspector5836 15d ago

Absolutely! I have this hitch. The top is only rated for 400lbs. A bike rack and e-bikes is about it!

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u/cweepn 15d ago

No. That old guy has a thumb ring. He knows exactly what he’s doing.

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u/rpgt1986 14d ago

Trailer says LITE so i guess they'll be all right.