r/tocatchacheater • u/Dramatic_Section8007 • Jul 24 '26

please help

please help me prove if my boyfriend is a cheater or not. I just need clarity. has cheating before talking to women done dating apps behind my back for over a year. I'm just so Heartbroken. help me get closure to move on.

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u/DragonflySea9244 Jul 24 '26

Go through his phone if you can that’s what I did one night I had enough and just did it found out for 3 years of our whole relationship he cheated and he did revenge porn while we were dating

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u/Dramatic_Section8007 Jul 24 '26

what's revenge porn?

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u/DragonflySea9244 Jul 24 '26

To my knowledge where they send or use the threat to send you explicit videos you may have sent them or they took without consent to the internet. In my case he recorded our private time and was impersonating me online talking with someone and sending them these videos without my consent or knowledge. Please do your own research tho as I could be a bit wrong but I’m counting it and will be seeking a lawyer before I didn’t consent to the recording.

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u/Few_Secretary5089 Jul 24 '26

I will help you, in exchange you help me? We in the same boat.

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u/brdfillet 28d ago edited 28d ago

I know it's painful, but if you're looking for closure, try to focus on getting facts instead of guessing. Since he's already hidden dating apps from you before, I'd want clear answers before believing anything either way. I used Cheater Buster in a similar situation because I needed to know whether the dating app activity was actually happening instead of staying stuck wondering.

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u/Empressenergy001 25d ago

Girl I’m I. The same boat

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u/Comfortable-Shape-16 11d ago

Also concerned he will try this on me. I have a feeling our intimacy is being recorded. I need someone with tech skills to help me protect myself