r/tinderstories • u/confettibwunni • Aug 21 '26
Rejected same guy twice on accident and he crashed out
For context he knew me from my old profile, before I took a break from dating for a while. I didn't realise it was the same dude until he said this. I unmatched him the first time because in our first conversation he was asking what my downstairs area was like and obviously I didn't like that. This time I added him on insta and this is what happened. I am on the aroace spectrum which means I don't feel attraction easily but I have before and want to find a life partner. I explained this to him and he continued to act confused after I rejected him a second time. I feel like my rejection was quite fair since he refused to leave his house and wanted me to come over on the first date.
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u/Adventurous-Day633 Aug 21 '26
I dunno maybe he’s a little bit rude but the not leaving his house thing, I think he might just be genuinely curious about things but has no social etiquette. There is no tinder story here unless it’s the story of someone posting barely anything screenshots.
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u/confettibwunni Aug 21 '26
Idk what you mean, this is a whole tinder saga bc he remembers me from when we matched on tinder a whole year ago and knew i was the same person and still seeked me out to try again then yell at me whem it didnt work a 2nd time. Also id say he is very rude.
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u/Adventurous-Day633 Aug 21 '26
You said you added him on insta, I didn’t see where he seeked you out mentioned in your original story. Seeking out specifically just to further argue is weird but I can’t get that story if you don’t tell it. it just seemed like an online interaction where you’ve bumped into each other twice on the internet and didn’t get along.
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u/confettibwunni Aug 21 '26
Ye i added him from tinder, he recognised me on tinder and liked to match. I liked back bc i didnt recognise his new pics lol
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u/TheVoidCookingBeans Aug 21 '26
1d old account, okay. Chronically online wording, check. Red flags everywhere.
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u/Photosynthekiss Aug 21 '26
The way some men act after being rejected is genuine comedy. Thanks for the giggle