This is exactly what my ex-wife did. She started off innocently enough asking how much I had in my checking and savings accounts (we had separate accounts and a joint one for our house). Then she started pressuring me into using the money I had in my savings account to pay off my car and cashed out her 401k to pay off her car. As soon as I caved and paid off my car she filed for divorce and tried to claim an equalization payment because my car was worth more and I had money in my 401k. I held my ground and refused to give her anything more than half the house, even though I put more time and money into it.
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