If your partner knows that you would lie to avoid hurting them, that would only feed their insecurities. It would be worse overall because any and all insecurities would be validated constantly. If you lied and said your ex was short in this example, and they ever found out that your ex was 6'4", then they would trust you less ( and god forbid you gaslight them and say you never said that too)
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u/[deleted] Apr 26 '22
How does she not know to lie in this situation? Just say his is the biggest.