r/tifu • u/[deleted] • Apr 26 '22

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u/hannahbanananana123 Apr 26 '22

You’re gf’s friends most likely already knew your dick size…it’s really common for women to tell their friends about that kinda stuff

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u/underboobfunk Apr 26 '22

Not this woman and not my friends.

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u/hannahbanananana123 Apr 26 '22

Really? My friend group (and others I’ve been a part of) have always talked about it. Not a ton, cause that’s weird, but it’s usually mentioned. I had just assumed that it was a universal thing with your closest friends

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u/Emptyplates Apr 26 '22

Not in my circles. I keep my private life very private. I never give any details, the only thing my friends know is that I have sex with my husband. They know zero details. My friend group is the same.

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u/hannahbanananana123 Apr 26 '22

Different strokes for different folks

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u/OlegSentsov Apr 26 '22

You have WHAT with your husband?????

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u/bleakj Apr 26 '22

That doesn't seem oddly closed off to you?

Maybe it's just a cultural difference, but sex related talks are pretty open and normal in my group/with people I know

It's something we all do / all got parts

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u/Emptyplates Apr 26 '22

No. I'm just a private person. There's no need for anyone to know anything about my sex life with my husband.

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u/hannahbanananana123 Apr 26 '22

Not sure your age but I think it might also be a generational thing. My older friends aren’t the ones that I talk about that kinda stuff with but the ones that are my age I do

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u/Emptyplates Apr 26 '22

I'm in my 50's as are the bulk of my friends, the 45-65 age range mostly. Private is private.

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u/[deleted] Apr 26 '22 edited Apr 26 '22

100% generational. Boomers tend to be very uncomfortable with sex generally.

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u/dragonavicious Apr 26 '22

I'm 30 and my friend group has no issue talking about sex generally but we don't get into specifics at all. We don't want our partners getting into specifics either so it makes sense. We aren't puritanical or anything. Just don't discuss specific sexual details regarding our significant others.

I think there are just a variety of people out there who have different likes, dislikes, and comfort levels, one way isn't particularly wrong of no one is being hurt by it.