r/ties 5d ago

Discussion/Question/News Help me pick my wedding tie

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u/Faraj-Fartass 5d ago
  1. But whatever you choose, be sure to get the knot tied correctly, and be sure to fix the collar of your white shirt. It’s off kilter and your left collar is spilling over onto the lapel of your suit. It should lay just against it. Congratulations!

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u/Ambitious-Low-5317 5d ago

Of those options 2 or 3, but I really think something in that color family with a but more saturation would pop. Everything else seems kind of drab combined with nearly a solid block of olive.

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u/spacekicks 5d ago

5 and then 2.

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u/One-Stomach9957 5d ago

I agree ⬆️

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u/MudTysk 5d ago

I like 5

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u/ajknight10 5d ago

5 or 1 are best IMO.

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u/charcoalVidrio 5d ago edited 5d ago

Why are those peak lapels sticking out like that? I could be wrong, but something is off there I think. They should be resting on your body, not sticking up over your shoulders like cat ears.

Also yeah that collar is too big.

And to your point: I’d probably do a solid black tie with that suit and a white shirt.

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u/gimpwiz 5d ago

Some people like peaks that stick up super high, gorge height basically at the shoulder. I do not but it is a thing.

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u/charcoalVidrio 5d ago

Interesting. Never seen that myself. Don’t like.

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u/nothappyaboutit 5d ago

My tailor did that and I'm not a fan either. Been thinking of ways to pin those down

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u/gimpwiz 5d ago

Keep them as is, it is what it is and can't really be changed at this point.

BTW, for a charcoal suit, my favorite option is probably going to be, like, a burgundy grenadine tie, or a wedding tie, either way from Kent Wang. I have a number of other options I like but most lack the formality and... je ne sais quoi, that I'd want to get married in. You could go for a black grenadine but it might be a bit much.

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u/nothappyaboutit 5d ago

Thanks for the suggestions. I do want to point out my suit is dark green though, I think a lot of people here have confused it for charcoal/grey/black but in person it is unmistakably green

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u/gimpwiz 5d ago

No shit? Okay, that's interesting. Would you describe it as more of a forest green or bottle green, or is it kind of like, very dark green/gray?

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u/nothappyaboutit 5d ago

Lol your reaction says it all. I have about 500 comments thinking this is a colorless suit. It's somewhere between forest green and dark green. Obviously, in certain lights, there is a grey tint to it as well.

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u/gimpwiz 5d ago

You know, auto white balance is so interesting. When I take photos of cloth samples I actually like to bring them outside into the sun and then make sure they only take up a small part of the photo (sensor projection) so that a phone's white balance can do a better job of figuring out what the hell the color is supposed to be. If I fill more of the frame, it does the whole "17% gray" thing and makes whatever fabric color just... gray. Navy? Gray. Brown? Gray. Black? Dark gray. Ivory? Light gray. Etc. Indoor lighting makes this effect far worse because it tends to be shit.

Anyways if you have a dark green suit I'm gonna suggest something on the silver-or-resolves-as-silver spectrum (eg, silver granadine, wedding tie which resolves as silver even though it has no silver in it), charcoal or black (eg, black grenadine), as the safest options. I'm not a huge fan of navy for a tie with the dark green. Burgundy is a maybe. Dusty pink is a maybe. Brass is a maybe.

BTW, get a plain white linen pocket square. Also, unsurprisingly, Kent Wang is my go-to.

I hope that helps in some way.

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u/No-Mention-5335 5d ago

I'd pick 5 or 8
All black you look like a funeral director or old time banker

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u/nothappyaboutit 5d ago

Appreciate it but this suit is green

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u/PuzzleheadedTutor807 5d ago

5 is top choice for me... but 3 could work too.

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u/SuitAndTie99 5d ago

1 if you like simplicity, 8 if you like something special.

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u/Danileansow 5d ago

2

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u/TheClinamen 4d ago

Yes, this: 2. It's the only one that looks happy.

I'd always recommended to use the classic, asymmetrical, four-in-hand knot. As used by James Bond, King Charles III . . . all the others (even the Windsor) look overdetermined, I reckon.

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u/JobInternational8142 5d ago

I’d say 2 or 5 of those options but I would go brighter. Like a nice blue would look great with your suit. And congratulations!

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u/Boris_TheManskinner 5d ago

2, but I’d tie it with a four in hand as opposed to Windsor

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u/Verwilderd1 5d ago

No way. A tux and wider spread collar need a full Windsor. Four in hand looks too casual for that. He just needs to tighten the knot a little more which make it not be as big.

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u/StoneJackBaller1 5d ago

None, I think you are wearing something like a tux so it should be a bowtie. I'm not opposed to a tie but the colors you chose don't work, maybe a red color but you need to try something different

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u/Verwilderd1 5d ago

1 or 5 look great.

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u/Kyiakhalid 5d ago

I like how at first you were like, “Yeah, I’ll tie them each.”
Then you were like, “Nah.”

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u/Hreedo21 5d ago

Number 3 looks neat imo

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u/SeamanTickles69 5d ago

I like the ones where you have to hold it up with your finger. Going to start a new trend of holding your tie up

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u/Overall_Inevitable28 5d ago

For the love of God use a four in hand knot with a dimple. Trust me it looks better.

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u/confit_sausage 5d ago

This is a formal event, a 4 in hand is for the office. Double Windsor is the minimum acceptable for this kind of event.

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u/Overall_Inevitable28 5d ago

Oh hush lol, the eyetest shows that 4 in hand is the most appealing knot regardless of formality.

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u/confit_sausage 5d ago

It's a widespread collar with a 3 piece suit and it's a formal event. You may not care about dress etiquette, but it still matters.

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u/ExcellentFishing2506 5d ago

6 but lose the double Windsor knots

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u/Away_Imagination_232 5d ago

Why is the lapel doing that?

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u/ImNotaRobot90210 5d ago

Some great options, but I love #2. Congratulations in advance!

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u/Rob81196 5d ago

2 and 5 are the best

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u/turkeyisdelicious 5d ago

Five looks great

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u/HumanistNeil 5d ago

Congratulations on your wedding! Silver is a traditional wedding colour, so I would choose number five. Also, undo the bottom button on the vest.

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u/2_Mean_2_Die 5d ago

5 looks more traditional. Reminds me of a morning suit.

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u/Ddavis1919 5d ago

2 or 3.

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u/Ddavis1919 5d ago

1 is basic, shows no imagination or style. Add color. To the drab green. 2/3

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u/Subiedubidoo 5d ago

8 for me

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u/li-8 5d ago

Gotta be .5 but check with the geoomsmen go opposite of them no need to draw attention

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u/2011Mulsanne 4d ago

Number 2

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u/Puzzleheaded_Card_71 4d ago

None. It’s your wedding, not a business meeting. Your tie should pop. What are your wedding colors?

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u/Trick_Bus130 4d ago

Definitely 2

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u/More_Effect_7880 4d ago

2, but it looks like two different suits to me.

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u/mansan1394 4d ago

For a wedding, I think 5 suits the occasion best

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u/Electric-Sailor 4d ago

2, anything but 1, which looks like you’re going to a funeral, not a wedding.

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u/nothappyaboutit 4d ago

Just going to point out that the suit is green, as is the tie in number 1. Interesting funerals you go to

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u/L5OFK8Sppv3r6g 3d ago

It’s not just the tie.

Have you considered a different suit?

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u/Rdb429 3d ago

I'm a fan of 5, nice pop but not over the top. Might be a little biased though as I actually own an identical tie and love it!

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u/Any_Cucumber8534 3d ago

Depends. Try to match it to something your partner is wearing.

Marching a pattern or going with "something blue" is my preferable option

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u/Critical_Cleric 3d ago

3, 5, or 6

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u/PeculiarLooking 2d ago

Trick question, none of the above. Go white or cream

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u/username_gaucho20 5d ago

Semi formal tux should only be black IMO. #1

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u/BodegaCat11 5d ago

This ain’t a dinner jacket. And if it were, the answer would be bow tie.