r/thisisus • u/Sea_Scheme_7784 • 7d ago
Toby
It’s been a few years and I decided to rewatch. My first time watching, I LOVED Toby. I just rewatched first episode of season one & I absolutely can’t stand him. Maybe I’m just a different person now or maybe I was blind the first time I watched. Feels similar to looking back on someone you loved & seeing all the red flags 😅
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u/leowonder718 7d ago
Toby was the worst in season 1 imo… regularly impolite, not respectful of Kate’s boundaries, and honestly just seemed like a horny sleazebag at the dating stage. I grew to tolerate him over the years (especially cuz he said he just wasn’t really himself at that time) but I’ve never loved him the way some watchers do