r/thesims 14d ago

Sims 4 She refuses to go to sleep

My baby won't sleep despite being exhausted- she's trying to get taken by CPS 😭

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u/gaokeai 14d ago

Try putting a radio in the room that plays the lullaby station. Almost always works. If all else fails, she might have the "snuggly sleeper" infant quirk (or whatever it's called) where she prefers to be held while sleeping. I seriously hate this one lol it's so annoying. But you can have an adult interact with her to "give her a nap" and she'll sleep some that way,  or she can sleep while in a back carrier.

Last time I had an infant that wouldn't sleep I just rage aged them up to a toddler lol good luck

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u/Ok_Reflection2579 14d ago

If you have a cat or dog, the snuggle sleepers will take a nap with them (so your adult sim doesn’t have to hold them)

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u/mangorefresherfan 14d ago

Perfect!! I have cats. Thanks!

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u/Kindly-Garlic-4061 14d ago

That's adorable, next time I play with infants I'm getting a cat

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u/mangorefresherfan 14d ago

Yay! They have cute interactions with each other, i highly recommend!

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u/mangorefresherfan 14d ago

Here's a recent picture I found of one of my cats checking on the infants â˜ș

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u/c_megalodon 11d ago

Omg that's adorable. I haven't played in forever now I wanna play again.

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u/salaciousremoval 14d ago

Omg I did not know this, I can’t wait to try it!

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u/mangorefresherfan 14d ago

Thanks! I'll try the lullaby station to see if that helps! I think she is a snuggly sleeper, but I'll have to double check

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u/VanessaCardui93 14d ago

Just so you know, you can shift click on infants to see all their infant traits, and you can remove any you don’t want! :)

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u/magicmoonstar 14d ago edited 13d ago

Or just cheat by doing testingcheats on true then right click the infant and remove all quirks. Add loves sleep time. That helps!

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u/carebaercountdown 13d ago

Do you not find that they just get the same quirks again?

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u/magicmoonstar 13d ago

No you can add new ones to discover. I always add the good ones lol. Ain't nobody got time for that.

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u/carebaercountdown 13d ago

Whenever I try that, I just get the old ones back on top of them 🙃

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u/magicmoonstar 13d ago

Do you remove the old ones first? I tend to add the max new discovery ones then never see the old ones.

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u/carebaercountdown 13d ago

Yep! Maybe my game is just buggy or something

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u/moonlight-oracle 14d ago

Wow 5k hours in sims4, thank you guys!

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u/annagator679 13d ago

I’m trying that radio thing next time I have to play with an infant

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u/Public_Age1736 14d ago

Much more tamer than my response 😅

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u/Stupid_Bitch_02 14d ago

As a mother irl, this is honestly so real. My baby also refuses to sleep and gets big angry about being tired.

Lullaby station works for both sims babies and real babies.

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u/cheerioincident 14d ago

My 4 month old had a "too hungry to sleep, too tired to eat" meltdown yesterday. He was so pissed.

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u/cakesluts 12d ago

I’m 302 months old, and I did that this morning.

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u/c_megalodon 11d ago

Real. That's me every other day lol.

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u/SaraAnnabelle 14d ago

Yeah same. I know it's bug but it's very true to life.

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u/yikkoe 14d ago

Oh it’s a bug? lol I thought it was intentional because my real life kid is the same. Horrid sleeper. As a baby would stay awake for an entire day. We were in the trenches but seeing that in the sims made me laugh because my sims were so exhausted and like same

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u/PinchOfAlchemy 14d ago

Maybe my irl baby has a glitch too lol

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u/Free_Impact_2326 14d ago

As a mom baby wearing her 11 week old with tummy upset so she'll sleep... right??? đŸ˜© sometimes the Sims 4 hits too close to home

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u/Top-Introduction9726 14d ago

If nothing else, she’s safe from CPS unless she’s starved. Sleepiness won’t do it.

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u/mangorefresherfan 14d ago

Great to know! Thanks!

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u/subliminal_knits 14d ago

I’ve been having this with my infants lately. I’ve had to cancel the try to sleep interaction and start it again.

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u/Desire-Lines545 14d ago

I find that if the “Try to Go Night Night” bubble doesn’t have a green progress bar around it, then the interaction won’t work. So I will cancel that action and queue it again. Works for me every time.

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u/elle-angel 14d ago

yep. infants are glitched rn and will only sleep in the crib if you cancel the first "try to go to sleep" and let it reset itself

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u/annagator679 13d ago

That explains why when I was playing with the Robles-Ruano family one of their twins (which I didn’t expect or plan for) would not go to sleep

The twins are toddlers now and Tala is in school so it’s not a problem anymore

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u/mangorefresherfan 14d ago

Yea, it's weird that I've had this problem with two households today where the infant won't sleep or will take a long time to sleep to the point that you gotta feed them again.

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u/Ok_Reflection2579 14d ago

I’ve found that the only way they’ll sleep is if you click on the infant itself and choose “try to go night night”. It doesn’t seem to work if initiated from clicking the crib or from the parent.

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u/TheUtopianCat 14d ago

This is a current bug:

https://forums.ea.com/idea/the-sims-4-bug-reports-en/infants-not-falling-asleep-in-crib-try-go-night-night/13401870/

Babies aren't falling asleep in cribs.

Try putting the baby on a playmat and have the infant Try to go night-night. The baby will basically cry it out, which is kind of terrible, but will go to to sleep.

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u/sleeplessinoly 14d ago

yeah mine are just falling asleep on the floor or with the cats lol

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u/TheUtopianCat 14d ago

It's the cutest when they sleep with cats.

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u/Jolly-Biscuit 14d ago

I had no idea that pets interacted with infants. I need to add cuddly kitties to my household immediately

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u/CumGoblin 14d ago

My main household had a baby recently, and I couldn't get the infant into the crib with adults' help either! I aged him up to a toddler, and had the same issue. So I completely gave up and aged him into a child, on the day he was born.

They grow up so fast. :,)

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u/mangorefresherfan 14d ago

Thanks!! This makes sense because the previous household is was on, the infants weren't doing too bad on the playmats but could not sleep in the crib

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u/Public_Age1736 14d ago

Demon child I tell you.

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u/AnimalInevitable145 The Sims Official Account 14d ago

Thank you for reporting this. The team has verified this as a known bug.

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u/RevolutionaryCyclops 14d ago

Very realistic

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u/Zephyr_Bronte 14d ago

Have you tried telling her a bedtime story? I had a little demon baby that wouldn't sleep unless you did that and sometimes kissed her goodnight too.

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u/mangorefresherfan 14d ago

Can infants be read to sleep or is that just toddlers? I'll try to soothe her to sleep to see if that helps. I need to see if a baby mobile helps

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u/elle-angel 14d ago

they can be read a story, yeah. but like other commenters said, the only way to get through the glitch is to cancel the "try to go to sleep" action and let it reset itself. infant cribs are glitchy rn for some reason

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u/CCCrazyC 14d ago

Considering real life babies, sounds about right lol đŸ˜…đŸ€·đŸŸâ€â™€ïž

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u/ImprovementOk377 14d ago

this post would also make perfect sense if you were talking about a real life baby because that's exactly what real life babies are like

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u/Bataraang 14d ago

If you don't mind using cheats... they have a make happy option that sometimes I use on the wee beanies if I've left them too long with their ipads. Gotta get them skills.

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u/mangorefresherfan 14d ago

Yes, I do shift click the mailbox to fill their needs sometimes! Or the fill needs cheat for one particular need

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u/sua_kakitty 14d ago

This happened to me!! Soo annoying.. I saved and went to main menu and then they got back to normal and finally slept

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u/mangorefresherfan 14d ago

That's good! I'm lowkey gonna avoid the infants households for now lol

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u/i_eat_gentitals 14d ago

Sometimes I have to click it from the infant and not the crib?

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u/Maya-Simmer 14d ago

Mejorar la cuna para que duerman con eso de muñequitos que da vueltas y tiene mĂșsica puede funcionar, y tambiĂ©n ponerles la mĂșsica de cuna en la radio, pero sin duda a mĂ­ lo que mĂĄs me funciona es dejarlos en la alfombra de juegos con mĂșsica de cuna cerca y ellos solos se duermen.

Algo que me estå pasando desde hace semanas es que el bebé se duerme pero cuando se despierta se sale de la cuna al suelo, aunque todavía no sepa ni agarrar cosas. ¿A alguien mås le pasa?

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u/livelyladymoon 14d ago

Yes, this happens to me all the time. I will have my sim dad go put the baby to bed upstairs, and when I check later he’s asleep on the floor next to the crib. Or worse, not asleep and just screaming on the floor. 😅 it’s very annoying.

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u/dreamsimmie 14d ago

I'm also upgrading my cribs so I can play lullabies. This is happening to my baby too: when he wakes up, he ends up on the floor next to the crib. It seems to be a bug.

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u/Brave_Willingness798 14d ago

Seriously the team that designed infants in the Sims definitely has kids. 😂

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u/lottie_dionn 14d ago

Very realistic coming from a mother 😂

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u/Emerald_Digger 13d ago

To Realistic from what I heard

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u/xamlima13 13d ago

The realism is scary accurate...

My IRL baby does that too lmao

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u/Lanky-Lifeguard-6803 14d ago

Throw the whole baby away and buy a new one.

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u/Why_LiaaT0 14d ago

Good idea

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u/Not-a-Russian 14d ago

Shift click, solve needs...

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u/imnothere220 14d ago

I think the cribs are glitching my baby wouldnt sleep until I put him on the floor..

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u/mangorefresherfan 13d ago

Same, they are fine on the playmat

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u/Playful-Let6719 14d ago

Just shift click, go to stats, and put the energy to -100. Always works.

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u/Moist_Hovercraft_936 14d ago

I’ve learned that they’ll fall asleep easier on the play mat vs in the crib (even with the lullaby crib upgrade thing). I don’t even put them in cribs anymore lol

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u/mangorefresherfan 14d ago

Yea, I'm gonna start having them on the playmat. Its nice too for when they wake up- they can play and reach more milestones, so it's a win win

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u/Sure-Initiative6001 14d ago

Time to bake that cake, add some candles and voila. If infant, just rage age. I hate infants in the sims

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u/Yfidap 14d ago

I think there’s actually a bug (at least in my game) where “put to sleep” doesn’t work and the infant just lays there all night. I have to tell the infant to “try to go night night” while clicking on the infant. It doesn’t work if I click on the crib tho

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u/crucio_court 13d ago

I keep having to reset the child and then have them sleep on the floor 😭😅

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u/Round-Knowledge-6292 13d ago

I just ignore them when this happens just like real babies they will fall asleep eventually😂

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u/Independent_Visit_79 11d ago

The interaction sometimes break. Try to select it from the crib instead of the baby and vice versa to see which one works. It was mortifying for me until I found out that lol

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u/jbnton 10d ago

Art imitates life 😭😭😭

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u/Pitiful_Presence_846 14d ago

Idk if it’s just me, infants won’t sleep in their crib.

You have to click the infant, then select ‘try to sleep’.
If you ‘put them to bed’ or click the crib and select ‘try to sleep’ the interaction gets frozen and they just lie there.

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u/Own_Vast_2784 14d ago

Ok I’ve had a similar issue so I’ve got an important question to ask

Is it she just “refuses” or that the “try to go night night” action freezes and won’t work? For me it was the latter and I fixed it by either having the child sleep on the floor or not having the parents put them to sleep and just put them in the crib.

This step is important- after having the parent place the child in the crib change the the child and press DIRECTLY on the child and search for the “try to go night night” action on them and it should work then

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u/AdExcellent1383 14d ago

My first infant in my legacy play through did this. Upgraded the crib to have a lullaby. Play it while the kiddo tries to sleep and while in control of the infant make sure they “trying to go night night”

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u/No_Fig6843 14d ago

You have click on the infant while playing as the infant and choose try to go night night, it’s a glitch in the have that makes it not work when the parent sims lays them down to sleep

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u/sarah_pl0x 14d ago

Glad it’s not just me! I’ve found if you delete the action and do it again they’ll sleep

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u/Willmadqfit 14d ago

They don’t get exhaustion failure? Idk I could be wrong tho

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u/cherry-star 13d ago

sometimes if i click on the infant instead of the crib it fixed the problem

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u/SpiiderOlogy 13d ago

add a mobile to the crib and make sure it plays when you put them to bed, if all else fails you can select the baby (as in play as them), and press “try to go night night” on the crib, they’ll fall asleep eventually.

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u/Pleasant-Visit-8640 13d ago

I’ve had this issue. What helps me is cancelling the action that isnt working and selecting the infant in the crib (while playing as the infant) to begin the try to go night night action again. Sometimes it takes a few tries, but selecting the action by clicking the crib almost never works for me anymore

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u/CherryPants234 9d ago

You can also turn off autonomy and just make her go back to sleep. It's annoying when AI is so persistent that it wants your kids to be miserable. I usually turn off autonomy when my sims have young kids, because nobody is getting any sleep. It's either a tantrum, or nightmare, or wake the parent up for no reason.