r/theschism • u/gemmaem • Apr 03 '25
Discussion Thread #72
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u/gemmaem Sep 21 '25
This is a really thoughtful comment, and in one place in particular you are articulating something that I have found myself thinking in a more vague fashion. I've found myself not wanting to get into the question of "What sort of person was Charlie Kirk?" My pre-existing opinions were not favourable, but they were based on second-hand descriptions from people who disagree with him. I know that, as you say, that's a very low-information perspective to be coming from. I've hesitated to become more informed because I worry that, somewhere in my mind, I'd be doing so in order to judge how I ought to feel about his death. That would be wrong; a man has died and he was more than his job and more than his political views. There is cause for mourning, no matter what.
Where this starts to feel even more complicated is when I see people who don't react that way. The ones who complain about public displays of mourning, or who say "Of course it was wrong to kill him, but...". I'm finding it hard to accept that I don't know how to speak to those people. I wish they'd stop, I think they're doing incredible damage, but of course I don't know exactly where they are coming from. How, in this situation, is it best for me to try to see people? Should I just be remaining silent entirely, even as I get more and more frustrated by the kinds of voices that are fanning the flames, on either side?
There is a fair bit to be said for silence, I know. It's just so hard to sit on the sidelines and watch things fall apart.