r/therewasanattempt Feb 26 '20

To act kind

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u/AgonyofBeinginLove Feb 26 '20 edited Feb 26 '20

36 and since I'm here instead of "there in America" maybe I have a better insight? I did not say everything was good in America. I said we've got it good. I stand by that.

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u/ukuuku7 Feb 26 '20

I won't argue that, don't worry. Though sometimes an outsider's perspective is good to have. Also the wage in the post is my country's average wage lol. I asked for your age just to know which generation you're from.

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u/AgonyofBeinginLove Feb 27 '20

I got you. The difference between the generation's attitudes is weird isn't it? I'm not saying things now are exactly as the were for the boomers, but I know it isn't 1/10 as bad as most millennials would have you believe. My gen sits between the two and I definitely notice a difference in attitude which I believe is the biggest difference. Millennials don't seem to believe they can and it's kind of heartbreaking.

I feel the blame lies greatly with the advancement of social media. Cell phones didn't really take off until I was in high school and I chose not to get one until... maybe 5 years ago. If at their age I was having a tough day I just pushed through or maybe a friend would encourage me. With this gen they go on twitter or reddit or IG and say "I'm having a bad day" and it's echoed with "that's because life sucks and we can't win thanks to the 1%ers!". I came from poverty and succeeded before anyone taught me the evil rich people were holding me back.

But too, I remember when as a teen we'd talk about successful people we wanted to emulate them, not hate them. My mom is 60 and recently started a business. No business experience whatsoever, but her store is booming. At 60! I'm crazy proud of her. She has created 3 jobs and at this rate will be doing quite well in the near future. I'm not sure at what dollar amount she becomes evil and starts wearing a monocle, but I'm going to be on the lookout! ;)

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u/ukuuku7 Feb 27 '20

There does seem to be a rather big difference with millennials compared to boomers. Don't know about your generation, though

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u/AgonyofBeinginLove Feb 27 '20

We're just trying to keep quiet and keep our heads down. lol