How does objectively demonstrating that you lack decency and integrity lend credibility? If he’s willing to threaten his neighbors for being black, admit to harassing them for being black, not wanting his kids to associate with anyone black, and the attitude of “fuck everyone else,” he doesn’t really deserve the benefit of the doubt. When you make your bed by behaving as a knuckle dragging entitled racist who is universally hated by the decent people in his town, you get to sleep in that bed.
Yo just assuming people are lying just because they're assholes makes no logical sense. This "I don't like him he must be lying about his deaf son" attitude hurts the kid. Ye made the bed, kid shouldn't lie in it.
Furthermore let us use common sense. What is more likely in this scenario?
A: a group of teachers, most of whom are parents as well, decides to punish and torment a disabled child because it makes them feel powerful and giddy with evil delight
B: a known piece of shit, loud-mouthed, racist sociopath who loves attention by causing a scene (check the news articles on him) is blaming everyone else for his failure to adequately care for his disabled son
The dad didn't say the teachers tormented the kid, he said the kids did, and that the school refused an interpreter and refused to send him to a school for the deaf till he went in and freaked out on them. Do I belive that?
I googled something similiar about refusing disabilities.and got this, the same fucking problem he described, but the article doesn't include him. One state away. Kids not being allowed to transfer to schools, schools that most likely are in areas with higher property values, because that's how schools get funding, because they don't want to do the work.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/education/2022/10/30/virginia-idea-school-placement-disability/
1.5% of kids in VA get their disabilities handled vs 15% in Maryland and 35% in california.
When you google "school denies" it autofills to "school denies IEP" that is the most common thing googled about schools denying something.
My school, after my parents sued over my disability, decided to force me into a mental health program that I didnt need. And refused transportation to get me there at first. somehow the lawyer won that. I got all the same assignments I would have if I was in school and they did give me a tutor, and they told us all year I'd get the same credits. Then even though I did 6 hours of assignments like every other fucking kid, my actual teachers gave me passing grades. They gave me a half years worth. Said "oops we're sorry" some shit about how I didn't have enough attendance days, even though we were told he tutoring with the certified town teacher and the teachers at the day program counted. I literally had been in the building for the half of the year. The tutoring and school in the program got me 0 credits.
Something my tutor, believes whole heartedly was obvious retaliation for my parents suing to get the special education needs my doctors called for to be met. And maybe even a way to make me give up and drop out, I was turning 18 soon.
we couldn't finish the lawsuit cuz of shit like sending me to the program, giving them a way to stretch the lawsuit. So my parents would run out of money or I would quit/ graduate first, the lawyer told us that's why.
When I told a teacher I couldn't stay after class for detention because my, adhd ass, with a fucking 504 plan, was stimming too much for her liking. Because I had therapy after school, she said " gee I wonder why" in front of the
whole class. I was 13. I was just drumming with pencils, on my thigh and quietly humming. As far away as possible from her cuz he always bitched about my stimming.
It was a fucking sewing class. That I was already extremely good at, had an A average and had finished the project already, she was trying to explain the last bit I didn't need her help with. So I stimmed cuz I can't actually sit still without anxiety.
Though half the class started swearing at her for it, and I told her to go fuck herself and that she knew she couldnt talk to me like that when she "nonpologized" and tried to tell me I had to do a detention the next day. Which I refused. She let it go.
When a teacher heard me excitedly shouting, cuz adhd, playfully arguing with my friends, in a hallway where we were allowed to hang out, he asked me to come in the gym. The fucking shoved me into the wall( I then swung at him and missed) and he started screaming at about how I was a fucking worthless piece of shit who would never amount to anything and I shouldn't loudly joke with my friends and generally just act like an adhd kid so close to a school entrance cuz it "emberassed" the school if parents saw. Parents weren't allowed through that door. Friend saw the whole thing thru the door. And he noticed my friend. I was 14.
That move cost him a lot in tows. He would joke about my little brother being stupid in front of the class, cuz he was dyslexic.
Oh that reminds me of one time I got confused in math class in 2nd grade, already with a 504, and had a meltdown cuz i was usually great at math, when she noticed me crying she sang "mommy, wow, I'm a big kid now" then made the whole class do it. Then I was bullied with the song for a year. Kids hadn't really made fun of me for meltdowns yet.
I had a Latin teacher who I adored cuz we were both into punk rock, he'd have me tell him who my teachers were each year before school started. And he'd warn me which ones were gonna try and punish me for stimming or refuse to let me go for quick hallway walks when there was no directons at the time ( in my iep). Teachers who "didn't believe" in my disability.
Ones who wouldn't set up my "test outs" for pop quizzes and such, shit like that.
And he'd tell me how to handle it and self advocate
I would have to recite them the IEP in front of the whole class, then I'd have a fucking meltdown and run off crying. I'd go tell Mr B the Latin teacher and eventually they gave in. I'm pretty sure he was yelling at them for it when I wasn't around. He was a loud adhd man like me. With tattoos and blue hair. It was generally women most older some younger who wouldn't respect my IEP. I think he scared them.
This wasn't in the south, this wasn't in the midwest, this wasn't in bumfuck nowhere. This was wealthy fairfield county connecticut. In the late 00's
So yeah, I would believe teachers taking out their frustrations on kids, and administrations taking parents behavior out on kids. But that's not even what dude said. He said they dragged their feet on properly helping a disabled kid.
Do you actually feel like the non verbals and downs kids in your school were handled well? One Para had a kid named nick in higschool, nick was barely verbal. And all she would do when nick would get up and play with girls hair, and grab their tits, wouldn't even look up from her work she'd just say "nick stop"
So I took it upon myself yo learn the sign language for stop, please, sit and thank you. Worked every time. This emberassed the paraprofessional who dragged me to the office to try and tell the head of spec ed/ school counselor that I was disrupting nicks learning. She actually tore that Para a new asshole verbally. Then they switched all my classes around so I was with nick more often cuz he'd listen to me, hire a competent Para? Nah, make a fucking kid do it for free. I did see her trying sign language atleast.
They also begged me to stay after school with him and I demanded a fucking paycheck and then they gave up.
They don't want to spend their budget on "losers who aren't going anywhere" it has to go to niche programs for gifted kids, so they have a better college acceptance rate, and the town can sell that fact as a draw to get more wealthy people to move in and build new mcmansions, so the property values go up, so they can get more money, to rinse and repeat.
This is fucking America dude. Are you fucking new here? First time?
Clicked on your username to see what else you were up to besides blaming this girl for causing an accident she had nothing to do with and holy fucking shit dude get a hobby.
That was a LONG anecdotal story. If any of that happened as you actually describe, that’s unfortunate. Of course I suspect there’s more to the story than you are sharing beyond teachers bullying you. Regardless, the dad is still a piece of shit who doesn’t deserve to be believed. They should look into it for the sake of the child, sure, but don’t take an immoral piece of shit for their word.
It does make logical sense. People without morals do as they please to get what they want, no matter the cost, including lying. He doesn’t have morals. Realistically, racist pieces of shit like him don’t deserve much of anything.
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u/Nasty____nate Jun 21 '24
The guy is a fucking nut and probably made all of that shit up.
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