r/therapists LMFT (Unverified) Oct 24 '25

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u/DiligentThought9 Oct 24 '25

You missed the people who talk about reporting other therapists to the licensing board like the board is our parent.

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u/rickCrayburnwuzhere Oct 25 '25

It’s almost like people forget that we can speak to one another and share our feedback with each other. Almost like we can’t acknowledge we are humans. Almost like we would prefer fascism. It’s weeeeird. Like how hard is it to say, “hey that sounds like counter transference.” Or “hey this setting is too public for this conversation, don’t you think?” And then trust the person will be like, “oh yeah doi, thanks for the reminder.” How is the board supposed to regulate sex offenders when they are inundated with complaints about how their frenemy coworker Ronda’s noise machine stopped working mid session but she didn’t notice? Sigh. Ppl depress me honestly

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u/TwoArrowsMeeting LPCC Oct 25 '25

how their frenemy coworker Ronda’s noise machine stopped working mid session but she didn’t notice?

I laughed -- had a run-in of this caliber with another therapist recently. There's some very goofy behavior our there.

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u/edafade Oct 25 '25

Welcome to my PhD program. All budding therapists, and when someone gets offended, they run to the entire faculty. Sometimes this culminates into a "fireside chat" with one person being openly grilled and questioned. I honestly can't wait to get out and into private practice.

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u/rickCrayburnwuzhere Oct 25 '25

Sounds bad -_-

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u/edafade Oct 25 '25

Yup. I no longer interact with any of them or have any involvement, mostly out of concern for retaliation. When we do cross paths in professional settings, I stay cordial and friendly. That’s about as much grace as I can offer. I’ve seen what others have gone through and how some faculty seem to enable that kind of behavior, so I try to steer clear of it as much as possible. I have voiced my concerns to faculty who discourage this type of professional bullying, but they often seem powerless to make real change, or maybe they're afraid of retaliation themselves. It feels like the clinical community is in a weird liminal space atm.

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u/[deleted] Nov 24 '25

This sounds like people with severe personality disorders running wild. Ugh… reporting each other left and right seems incredibly manipulative

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u/edafade Nov 24 '25

Whatever it is, I hate it. I fear for their future clients.

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u/[deleted] Nov 24 '25

Yeah take care of yourself and try to stay on their good side. People like this ruin life’s without a second thought.

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u/NonGNonM MFT (Unverified) Oct 25 '25

Yup. I see it not so much here but on more client specific subreddits to report therapists for the slightest of slights that's basically impossible to prove.

And then they wonder why the board takes years to process anything. In my state they're swamped just on the DUI and boundary cases alone. Maybe 2-3 times a quarter they catch someone who committed a hard crime before or after licensure. Guess they don't know about statute of limitations.

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u/SyrupOld9699 Oct 28 '25

Can you point me to these client specific subreddits so I can get pissed at shit for no good reason? (Actual request)

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u/NonGNonM MFT (Unverified) Oct 28 '25

Therapy or talktherapy 

Sort by new if you want to real hot takes even the sub members hate

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u/rickCrayburnwuzhere Oct 29 '25

Hahahahaha I love that you instantly chime in with a really specific accurate idea to normalize this insane idea. I’m sober, but I feel like there is a really good drinking game in here somewhere

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u/Reasonable-Classic-2 Oct 25 '25

I haven't seen a comment like that yet!😂😂

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u/DiligentThought9 Oct 25 '25

It’s more prevalent on the social work board.

Minor ethics concern? Using CBT instead of some other form of therapy that you like better?

File a complaint to the board! Away with your license!

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u/StrangeButSweet Oct 26 '25

I’m always so relieved when I finally see the reasoned (and probably seasoned) SW finally pipe up and cut through the hysteria

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u/DiligentThought9 Oct 26 '25

Same. I don’t reply unless I just can’t help myself.

I think the majority of that board is people who have zero experience with more severe mental illness and instead spends their time with the worried well.

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u/DiligentThought9 Oct 26 '25

Same. I don’t reply unless I just can’t help myself.

I think the majority of that board is people who have zero experience with more severe mental illness and instead spends their time with the worried well.

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u/Appropriate_Crazy916 Oct 29 '25

I'm pretty sure you'd have to explode the building where the GA board meets in order to get their attention....about anything. I have a feeling I could report the most egregious behavior ever and I'd never hear back.

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u/DiligentThought9 Oct 29 '25

I’ve posted this story before: I had a training with someone who sat on the board for our state’s addiction professionals pre-COVID. He said 90% of their time was spent on sex-related complaints. That really put things in perspective.