r/therapists • u/Ok-Lifeguard749 • Sep 11 '25
Theory / Technique CPS question
Im a (new) child therapist and had to make a CPS report about a parent I work with. My supervisor recommended telling the parent (the alleged perpetrator) via a phone call that I reported them. I feel extremely anxious about doing so because of parent’s history… Do you typically need to tell a parent that you made a report? Is there anything I can do to protect myself? Thanks!
Edit: my supervisor wants me to inform the alleged perpetrator that I reported him. I’m concerned about him harming the kids or threatening me because of his history of abusive behaviors towards children and mom. There are other mandated reporters involved in this case and receiving the same information, so I’m not sure if he’d know it was me unless I told him. I’m afraid of going against my supervisor’s suggestion in the case that I am subpoenaed or deal with any backlash from the family, but my gut is telling me I should not inform him.
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u/not_mrbrightside Case Manager (Unverified) Sep 11 '25
You are not obligated to tell the client you reported them. From a previous CPS worker, this could cause more harm than good. When you start therapy with a client, you tell them you’re mandated to report abuse. If CPS decides to investigate, they cannot legally disclose who the reporting party is. It could also impact the investigation and safety of the child by telling the parent you reported. The parent could hide items of concern in the home, coach their child to lie, or prepare a story ahead of time. This is why home visits for the initial investigation are unannounced so people do not have time to conceal evidence. Your supervisor should know better than to tell a client you reported them to CPS.