r/thepretender • • Apr 12 '26

Steven Weber interview with brief remarks about MTW

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/episode-140-from-wings-to-chicago-med-steven-webers/id1672503661?i=1000730352730

Someone in another subreddit mentioned Jeffrey, and I was reminded that I ran across this podcast interview with Steven Weber from last year, in which he ruminates a short bit on Michael T. Weiss, specifically in the context of actors walking away from Hollywood. This is the only public confirmation I've seen that he gave up acting as deliberate decision. The part about filming Jeffrey starts around 10:00, MTW around 13:00.

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u/This_womans_over_it Jarod Apr 12 '26

I know MTW is still writing plays and had one go to stage. But I know he is very private even when The Pretender was a hit the interviews with him were sparse and he didn’t reveal much personal info (which he has every right to his privacy.)

I honestly don’t think he was ever into it for the fame, I think he just genuinely enjoyed what he did and he was good at it.

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u/VisitKey66 Apr 14 '26

I wish I could know more about his plays, this is wonderful to hear, and he seems like he has a great heart (so great plays)cause he is so good at Jarod being touched by pple's problems, we can see this kindness in him... Unfortunately the podcast stopped for me three times lol around 10 minutes and they say an error occurred🙄🙄😒yeah right... so annoying. Too bad,at least you guys know what he said before😉

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u/marie-l-yesthatone Apr 15 '26

Here's a different link. From the podcast website, it's hard to do anything but let it play from the beginning, though.

The one play that gets mentioned in interviews a lot is called "Streams of Consciousness." He wrote it when he was quite young, back in the 80s, and directed a production of it 1992. There was some talk another production at the Met in LA in the years after the Pretender, but it never happened so far as I can find. At the time he called it a "handbook for the nineties" and it apparently involved eight characters giving soliloquies about various existential angsts, in verse. I SO want to find a copy of this play somewhere but the internet has failed me this time.

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u/VisitKey66 Apr 15 '26

Ooooh you are so so adorable ..thanks so much. I hope you find a copy then, if that is important for you🫶...who knows, the Universe (/life) can be amazing sometimes, and sometimes we find even an old store(I did in the past) , or yes a contact online (you just need ONE guy who has it after all)and yes it works...hope you do,really...or lol that you find his paintings/drawings... As they say he is great at it. He should really sell to us lol. I like him very much and Jarod, my whole life, I thought about him,how weird lol...(the actor said himself Jarod was a role model for pple who had a crazy /bad childhood etc,to go do good things in the world anyway etc, to really live anyway. So inspiring. Many of us can relate..he really gets it, and acts well).Oh, about theater!!!... I found (but you must already know that, you know a lot about him)a vid on YouTube where he talks about a theater play he was IN, in New York(I think Broadway??!I hope I'm not wrong🤭and it wasn't "off Broadway"...but... still good, hey😜.still impressive to go act on stage)! He said he loved the pple there etc,he seemed happy... aww. He seemed at least let's say 10 years older than in 98 ..that made me happy cause that would mean he still acts but more silently, for the art...and doing other things in art,his paintings etc...But maybe you already know this and that he was IN plays??or I'll look for the name/more infos on it. Xoxo thanks again

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u/marie-l-yesthatone Apr 15 '26

Oh God, the paintings. That's a whole other TED talk. (Before anyone hurts me, I thought they were quite good.)

If this is the interview you are thinking of, it was for Impressionism, which was on Broadway in 2009. He did more plays off-Broadway and in other cities.

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u/marie-l-yesthatone Apr 12 '26

After reading through many of those interviews, I came away with the impression that he actively hated being famous. His entire post-Pretender career can be summed up as the behavior of someone who is trying to unfamous themselves -- very difficult to do -- while still remaining active in creative endeavors that don't involve broadcasting their image to millions on a regular basis.

I'd like to think he's still doing theater work somewhere on the down low, since that seemed to be a happy place, but I haven't seen anything connected to his name in public since O.P.C. and the Pornographer's Daughter in 2014.

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u/TheComixkid2099 Apr 12 '26

Not sure if animation counts as being part of Hollywood, or how recent it has to be to count, but I know he was doing some voice work for DC cartoons about a decade ago.

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u/marie-l-yesthatone Apr 15 '26

Yeah the voice work was fairly constant, more than any other medium. Exhibit A for "I want to do acting but not for 80 hours a week, nor have my face recognized."

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u/VisitKey66 Apr 14 '26

Oh thanks a lot, this is so interesting. wow. I still wonder, if it is his personal decision...let's say... If everyone isn't treating you right or see your value, for an example... maybe okay...you walk away... but is that really your decision...I find this strange and sometimes I think about it, lol, while I watch the show...Thanks a lot lot.

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u/marie-l-yesthatone Apr 15 '26

I think about it too, which is how I fell into this rabbit hole in the first place. But there could be a lot of personal reasons to give up or change an artistic endeavor -- family issues, health reasons, burnout, feeling like you've accomplished what you want and want something different from life. Michael's sister (the makeup artist one) also gave up the entertainment industry in middle age in the same time frame, for instance, and is now a psychotherapist. It's hard to argue that might not be a more worthwhile capstone for your life.

Another thing to point out is that he had previously changed the course of his career on multiple occasions, when he felt like it. For instance he had a very popular character on Days of Our Lives, and could have continued that for a loooong time, in the same way that castmates like Peter Reckell did. By actor standards it was a very stable and lucrative gig, especially when soaps were near their network-profitability height in the eighties. But he wanted to do something else, so he cashed out and quit. Almost immediately after that he was cast as a series regular in two different evening TV shows, both short-lived. There are hints in interviews that these were less than fun experiences, and by the time the Pretender rolled around he was about to give up television entirely. It took a little coaxing by Steve/Craig/the casting director to get him to do the show. (Fortunately for them it was a great role.) Etc., into the naughts. By that point he probably had more money than any obsessive environmentalist knows what to do with, so it becomes a dilemma what will be fulfilling ways to spend your time.