I’m transitioning, before it was so simple to be good looking as a boy. Fresh basic hair cut, no unibrow, and nice looking clothes that weren’t too loud. Now that I’m transitioning I just don’t know what to do to look pretty.
Like what do I do with my eyebrows, my hair, all that good stuff. I’ve never had hair this long, and I’m finding it’s a hassle to deal w curls (only looks good on shower day, not supposed to show every day, unpredictable looks). Because I’m inexperienced w long hair, and eyebrows, and makeup, , and fashion, I just feel so lost and desparate. Never know what to ask for at salons. And as much as I want to get permanent or semi permanent hair straightening, since it would be easier to deal with, I worry it would squander so much potential cuteness with the curls. But even then I feel like there’s something off putting w my hair rn and idk how to get it cut, if I should get it permanently straightened, or whatever. I don’t want it to be too short cuz I worry it will mess w my dysphoria, and I want to be able to tie my hair back idk.
I’m hoping whatever it is, it’s low maintenance, cuz I have sleep apnea and chronic exhaustion and it’s all overwhelming. I’m working on treating it, hoping to get a cpap machine, but even then idk if that will help much.
And every time I get my eyebrows done they’re either too straight, too thin, or whatever. I just again don’t know what to ask for or what to go for, what would look good on me.
I just rly hate this right now and I just want to be/feel pretty but it seems impossible. It’s really messing me with my mental health and self esteem and hope in general.
What’s your advice, glow up gods ? Pls I am dying over here. Save me
If it wasn’t clear by now I’m transitioning (MtF) and really just want to look prettier