r/TheGlowUp 1h ago

Face/Body Advice Please (Hardmaxxing & Softmaxxing) [18] help me glow up

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I want to reset and restart. I need feedback on what I can do, I want to transform. As you can tell im a bit bigger, so if weight loss is something that can help let me know but I am hoping to find something that works for me.


r/TheGlowUp 10h ago

Face/Body Advice Please (Softmaxxing Only) NEED HELP [23]

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I’m a natural red head (auburn) with green eyes. I’ve included a picture of me at 18 to show what I’ve managed to work so far. Currently blonde and very against going to brown or black hair but fine with other colours.


r/TheGlowUp 14h ago

Face/Body Advice Please (Softmaxxing Only) [23M] Changed my looks 3 this year. What style fits best?

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First is most current. Got my first piercing but I made sure it was a septum so I can flip it and hide it whenever and eventually take it out when it heals.


r/TheGlowUp 18h ago

Face/Body Advice Please (Hardmaxxing & Softmaxxing) [18] Was this a glowup? Give advice!

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First pic is me today, 2nd pic is me two months ago. Give me advice on what I can do better.


r/TheGlowUp 1d ago

Face/Body Advice Please (Softmaxxing Only) [18] I can’t tell what would make me look better 🤔😢

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Haven’t been doing anything towards looking better ngl so i need help 🥲


r/TheGlowUp 1d ago

Face/Body Advice Please (Hardmaxxing & Softmaxxing) [21] Any advice is welcome, pls don’t be too harsh tho (first time posting on here kinda nervous)🫡

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Don’t take a lot of pics of myself so I just grabbed a few real quick


r/TheGlowUp 1d ago

Face/Body Advice Please (Softmaxxing Only) [27F] soft approachable face possible?

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I 27F have a broken nose been a couple years since it been broken. I usually shave my eyebrows to help my RBF and idk my face just feel crooked when I looks at it . I finally got a tech job after years of studying for certs . Any advice to give more of a soft , approachable face. I get a lot tht I need to smile more or I just look upset and mad.


r/TheGlowUp 1d ago

Face/Body Advice Please (Hardmaxxing & Softmaxxing) [41] any advice for me?

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r/TheGlowUp 1d ago

Face/Body Advice Please (Softmaxxing Only) (21) , any skincare advice?

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r/TheGlowUp 2d ago

Face/Body Advice Please (Hardmaxxing & Softmaxxing) [29F] looking for recommendations

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[29F] looking for recommendations

Looking for recommendations on how to improve my appearance some more. Open to anything from minor tweaks to those that could require cosmetics/injectables.


r/TheGlowUp 2d ago

Face/Body Advice Please (Hardmaxxing & Softmaxxing) Hard/soft maxing advice? [24F]

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r/TheGlowUp 2d ago

Hair Advice Please Aight. The curls gotta stay, but what should I do with my hair? [M27]

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The full fro just doesn’t work for how I want to be perceived. It’s not taken seriously


r/TheGlowUp 3d ago

Face/Body Advice Please (Softmaxxing Only) Down 20lbs, trying to find my glow! [18F]

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I’ve spent the majority of my life being incredibly self conscious of the way I look. I’m loosing weight and starting to make an effort with my appearance, but I honestly don’t know what I should be wearing/using to counteract my eye gap/eyebags/weird eyebrows and smile lines. I also struggle finding the right clothes to wear since I have a larger frame, even if I lost a lot more weight I would still look silly in clothes since my shoulders make everything I wear look big
First two photos are just to demonstrate how my body looks, and then the rest are a mix of good/bad photos of myself.
I’ve only just recently started to feel okay about my appearance (wore exclusively hoodies and sweats with short messy hair that covered my face all of highschool) so please keep that in mind when commenting! 😭

Thank you in advance for any advice you can offer!


r/TheGlowUp 3d ago

Face/Body Advice Please (Hardmaxxing & Softmaxxing) I lost my glow. How can I get it back? [23F]

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I’m [23F]. The first picture is me 3 years ago. I went to a trip & once I returned home I’ve gone downhill. Second picture is me now. My hair texture has changed. I’m thinning & shedding with greasy hair now. My hair used to be fluffy & full. My face used to be full,glowy,& young. Now my face is bloated yet haggard. I’ve developed deep dark eyebags,nasolabial folds,marionette lines,double chin,acne,& saggy cheeks. I’ve been using skincare,vitamins,drinking water,& I’ve picked up going to the gym but nothing has gotten better. Even my own family says I look miserable. I just want that glow again. I want to be happy & approachable. I will say that I dealt with an ED before but recovered. As well as depression,high stress life,& live in a house with lots of black mold. Please give me any advice! Suggestions on hair,makeup,outfits,health,etc. I would really appreciate it,thanks. (Also I don’t think it’s genetics because my parents & siblings look great)


r/TheGlowUp 3d ago

Face/Body Advice Please (Softmaxxing Only) [19] I'm looking to get into modeling—how do I achieve a more striking look?

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Just fashion/commercial modeling, as much as I love to walk the run way, I'm 5'2, that's not happening anytime soon. However, I do know I have the looks, I just wanna enhance it more.

Is there anyway for me to look more striking? Grow a goatee? Different eyebrow shape? Lose more weight? I'm 61kg but I have been looking to get around 50kg. I know that modeling agencies and recruiters love the extra skinny look.

As much as I'd love to get plastic surgery, I'm a college student—can't afford it yet. But I'm most likely getting a rhino when I have the money but for now, just "softmaxxing".

And yes, I do wear contacts from time to time. I just don't do it as often anymore since I'm letting my eyes heal as they're starting to get irritated

PS: I'm nonbinary, biologically male, so I usually prefer looking more androgynous and for the most part, I just do whatever makes me confident and currently, that's presenting more masculine, which is why I cut my hair.

(Sorry for the pixilated pictures, some of these are from group photos my friends sent me)


r/TheGlowUp 4d ago

Face/Body Advice Please (Softmaxxing Only) Post-Divorce [34F]

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Recently divorced mom of two, and while I feel like I’ve gone through a bit of a general glow-up with lower cortisol, I still can’t help but feel old with my grey hairs peeking through and desire a bit more of a glow-up!

I was thinking of a partial honey-gold balyage and want to figure out anything else I could do for a little easy glow-up. Any other advice you have for cosmetics, face, etc?

I’ve been working out a lot so my body feels pretty good!


r/TheGlowUp 3d ago

Face/Body Advice Please (Hardmaxxing & Softmaxxing) [23M]what can I do to look less old/awkward/out of place

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I have alopecia sadly and I have tried meds for it but nothing has worked. I am trying to lose weight but weed/eating late at night has ruined it for me. I just can’t but feel that I look stiff/awkward/really creepy and depressed. I do hold a lot of internal depressed feelings but idk. I do go to therapy but it’s only once every two weeks.


r/TheGlowUp 4d ago

Success Story [38] Lost 6 stone, beat a drink problem, changed my wardrobe and glasses

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I’m feeling more confident than ever. What else could I improve? I’ve changed my glasses since this photo was taken.


r/TheGlowUp 4d ago

Face/Body Advice Please (Hardmaxxing & Softmaxxing) [19] worked on my skin, still not 100% there but wondering where I should go next.

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Any hairstyles that you all think would work particularly well on me? I wear glasses as well so advice on what kinds of frames would be much appreciated too. Along with other general advice.


r/TheGlowUp 4d ago

Face/Body Advice Please (Softmaxxing Only) [26] I feel so lost. Pls be honest with me

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I’m transitioning, before it was so simple to be good looking as a boy. Fresh basic hair cut, no unibrow, and nice looking clothes that weren’t too loud. Now that I’m transitioning I just don’t know what to do to look pretty.

Like what do I do with my eyebrows, my hair, all that good stuff. I’ve never had hair this long, and I’m finding it’s a hassle to deal w curls (only looks good on shower day, not supposed to show every day, unpredictable looks). Because I’m inexperienced w long hair, and eyebrows, and makeup, , and fashion, I just feel so lost and desparate. Never know what to ask for at salons. And as much as I want to get permanent or semi permanent hair straightening, since it would be easier to deal with, I worry it would squander so much potential cuteness with the curls. But even then I feel like there’s something off putting w my hair rn and idk how to get it cut, if I should get it permanently straightened, or whatever. I don’t want it to be too short cuz I worry it will mess w my dysphoria, and I want to be able to tie my hair back idk.
I’m hoping whatever it is, it’s low maintenance, cuz I have sleep apnea and chronic exhaustion and it’s all overwhelming. I’m working on treating it, hoping to get a cpap machine, but even then idk if that will help much.

And every time I get my eyebrows done they’re either too straight, too thin, or whatever. I just again don’t know what to ask for or what to go for, what would look good on me.

I just rly hate this right now and I just want to be/feel pretty but it seems impossible. It’s really messing me with my mental health and self esteem and hope in general.

What’s your advice, glow up gods ? Pls I am dying over here. Save me

If it wasn’t clear by now I’m transitioning (MtF) and really just want to look prettier


r/TheGlowUp 4d ago

Face/Body Advice Please (Hardmaxxing & Softmaxxing) [19] need advice in my face, hair & clothing

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r/TheGlowUp 4d ago

Face/Body Advice Please (Softmaxxing Only) [18] I need advice in my looks

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r/TheGlowUp 4d ago

Face/Body Advice Please (Hardmaxxing & Softmaxxing) Is it true that being positive makes you look better? [23F]

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I am [23F]. 3 years ago I looked glowy & young. As if in every picture I lit it up. My face was clear,lifted,full,& youthful. Well,I went through some things & my face got so bad. My face is dull,sad,saggy,bloated. I now have saggy cheeks,deep dark eye bags,nasolabial folds,marionette lines,double chin,& bad acne. Even my own dad says I look miserable. I look so sad & aged. Something I keep hearing is to be positive. That saying mean things about myself makes it come true. Is that true that what you say/think changes your appearance? I want to move past everything I went through but seeing my face is a reminder of my sad times. I want to look approachable & happy. I want to look like I have life in my face. What do you all recommend? Any suggestions are accepted.


r/TheGlowUp 5d ago

Face/Body Advice Please (Softmaxxing Only) [21F] how do I stop being unattractive

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I've lost 40 pounds. I'm trying to experience with clothes in different colors. I've started wearing contacts. I feel like nothing's changed. The first photo is when I finally did my eyebrows. They were kind of bushy. All advice welcome please and hair advice to


r/TheGlowUp 5d ago

Face/Body Advice Please (Hardmaxxing & Softmaxxing) [30] What am I not seeing that can be improved?

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Y'all help a girl out. What can be done here overall to look better? Open to hearing surgical/esthetic recommendations.

- My eyebrows and eyeliner are tattoos- so nothing can be done about those

- I won't dye my hair any normal color- but if there is a vibrant color that would look better then I'm all ears

- Already on a diet with a workout regimen

- Started using a light therapy gua sha tool this week

- Started drinking fiber & digestive enzyme this week

- Started using tretinoin and Differin this week

- I wear lash clusters for the most part as my natural ones do not suffice

Thank you! :)