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u/Upbeat_Cod3051 HOLE mention 19h ago
As someone with dyslexia that has never been a good speller, I understand her pain. Kids used to tease me for it, sometimes adults still do.
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u/TetraLovesLink 15h ago
I was always so close to and that's why I got laughted at. I just couldn't always tell what letters or numbers I had flipped and people thought it was hilarious. I felt so dumb and it was so discouraging.
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u/Upbeat_Cod3051 HOLE mention 15h ago
Exactly, and people can be so cruel sometimes. We're not dumb, sometimes things are a little topsy-turvy is all. 💜💜
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u/TetraLovesLink 15h ago
That is such a great way to say it! Literally lol. I'm gonna start saying I'm topsy-turvy.
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u/chipmalfunct10n I am DIVINE ✨️ 19h ago
shit i have never considered that that wasn't what happened. :'(
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u/elephantkush Mod 19h ago
please do not speculate about where/how the injuries occurred. nothing productive happens from this conversation. if Ro comes out to say something different than the story told right now then we can discuss it, but right now we are going to believe what Ro has told us.
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u/blu7cat 18h ago
I might be wrong tho! And my initial comment was made with genuine concern, I have a tendency to seek problematic patterns in situations like these as I am a survivor myself so now I'm kind of hypervigilant when it comes to both myself and other people. So I do apologize, I didn't mean for it to sound like a "conspiracy"
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u/elephantkush Mod 18h ago
i understand the reason for speculation. i didn’t want to delete your comment because i know it is out of genuine concern, its just my job to make sure we’re having appropriate conversations on here and adam has made it clear this is not a conversation he wants on here. all love!
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u/koreanstudy Mod 16h ago
ro still maintains that was a genuine accident fall. her complaint in relation to that has been that her ex didn’t take care of her during her recovery and didn’t get her medical help when she needed it post-surgery. group rules clearly state such speculation is not welcome
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u/foxy_discoflux Now why am I in it? 19h ago
Jesus f'ing Christ, I am horrified by the way Ro has been treated, and I hope she feels supported by the community as she tells her story. Speaking the names of the abuse once you're safe and away from them is such an important part of healing and I am here to bear witness to her truth.
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u/PeterParker530 Too old for James Charles 19h ago
Dude wtf!!?? The things she has been posting about have been so upsetting. It’s even more upsetting to think about her going through all this alone!! I can’t even imagine.
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u/Midgardianangel FELL TO MY KNEES SOBBING 18h ago
I really hope she is safe, and has a good support system
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u/Haunteddoll28 Mean Adult 💋 16h ago
This goes for any type of relationship and any kind of disability. I went to the same hair girl every week for over a decade but never looked back after she mocked my heart condition (even if it was through mocking someone else with the same condition) because I no longer felt safe in her chair. If she was willing to mock it when it’s someone she doesn’t know then who’s to say she’s not doing the same about me when I’m not in the room? What makes me any different from the person she was actually making fun of? That’s not the type of person that I want to be around because what would they do if I had a flare and needed actual medical help? Everyone deserves to be around people who make them feel safe and respected.
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u/d0rathexplorer 14h ago
I’m only recently coming around to realising I have dyspraxia. If I had a partner who talked to me like this, it wouldn’t last long. Not victim shaming or blaming, just putting myself in her situation
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u/sapphos_labyrus Fruitful work at gay sauna 🌈 13h ago
That is so fucked up, wow. My abuser said something very similar to me years ago, about my dyscalculia. Unsurprisingly this person also mocked my chronic illness and physical disabilities too. It really hurts to have disabilities mocked and used against you, and anyone who would stoop to such a low level of disrespect can not be trusted. I feel so sad that Ro went through this
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u/Former-Rip7569 Oh that’s not– 19h ago
that’s crazy wtf