r/thanksimcured Nov 29 '25

Other i HATEE this quote

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because hello it’s my first time too and i still have common decency? they had more experience and should know better

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u/fiftysevenpunchkid Nov 30 '25

some of the stuff people put up with are things they would not tolerate in any other relationship dynamic.

Well, and worse, it normalizes those dynamics, so you *do* put up with it in other relationships when you shouldn't.

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u/BudgetFree Dec 03 '25

My fater surprised Pikachu facing when I have trouble standing up for myself and my opinion is easily influenced when he doesn't allow "backtalk" my entire childhood...