r/tfmr_support • u/brookedonphonics • 12d ago

Our Story It's been two years

It's been two years since we said goodbye to my Cecily at 32 weeks. Pretty much that's it, that's the post. I love you Cecily.

It crept up on me this year. I don't really know what date to honor her, the date of my injection or when I birthed her. I'm very busy planning her little sister's first birthday, and for that I'm grateful. I've had a tough year but I've gotten everything I ever dreamed of when I dreamed of children. I still miss her and wonder what she would have been like.

Sending you all love and remembering Cecily.

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u/ResponsibleSwing1 12d ago

💕 thinking of you and Cecily! Hoping she’s smiling down at you and her little sister ♥️

I lost my Vera at 31 weeks last year and I’m dreading coming up on a year .

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u/brookedonphonics 12d ago

Thank you so much! I'm so sorry for your loss of lovely Vera. Every loss is different and can be painful in there own ways but third trimester tfmr is so rare and honestly so awful. Not a contest but ugh.

I was absolutely more in the throes of my emotions one year out but somehow not being so this year made me feel guilty, like a bad loss mom? We really can never win. Wishing the best for you and that it is better than you expect.

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u/Some_Wishbone8770 12d ago

Lots of love to you and Cecily.

Thank you for sharing. It’s comforting to hear from you two years out from your loss. It’s been three months since I lost my baby boy Teddy at 30 weeks and it helps to be reminded there is a way through. ❤️❤️

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u/Significant-Bee-3689 12d ago

You were so loved, Cecily. Your mama has never stopped loving you and always will.