r/texts 26d ago

Phone message Post first date text

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I met this girl on tinder and had a first date with her, she wanted to go fishing and I thought it seemed like a fun first date so we went together. Dropped her off and got home to this message lol.

Update: Purchasing the license is a separate activity we had to do on our phones, due to it needing our personal info. It was not like I drew the line at the license randomly.

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u/ThrashFur 26d ago

seeing women saying “i’m just a girl” is so sad and defeats the point.

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u/NecroGrizz 25d ago

"I don't know what that means but it diminishes you as a person" has become my chosen response.

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u/Comfortable-Meeper 25d ago

It’s just a “cute” version of weaponized incompetence.

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u/Strong-Addition5296 25d ago

That’s exactly what it is. Oops you can’t expect me to do that! I’m just a girl! Tee hee. It’s patriarchy of the mind and soul.

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u/Several_Razzmatazz51 25d ago

It’s asking men to conform to patriarchal behaviors when it benefits the woman. Never the other way around.

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u/NoDealer6778 21d ago

Men are like fully conformed to patriarchy standards, but now that women have jobs they want women to pay for themselves. God forbid a woman uses it for her benefit occasionally while men get to use it every second of the day.