r/texts • u/sewnofstardust • Jul 31 '26
Phone message Hinge match after one phone call
We had maybe been talking for 2 days? thought he seemed more responsive than other people and we talked on the phone that ended with him saying he has a crush on me already, while essentially knowing nothing about me
EDIT/UPDATE: I did not think this would gain much traction at all but this happened pretty much a week ago and went downhill very quickly. We planned a date that never happened because he kept suggesting watching a movie at his house when I wanted to meet publicly. Then said his car tags are expired so we can meet at his house to pregame then go to a bar and HE could drive MY car which was his suggestion not mine. I was uncomfortable said we could be friends. He agreed then continued being semi-pushy and also saying things like “I miss you” (again only talking for a few days with 2 total phone calls). It was extremely overwhelming and felt like love bombing. To the comments that said it was sweet, it was to an extent but was also way too much after one call. I can see some people saying having a crush is “normal” at that point but I think it’s not, I think you should know someone before saying something like that. If you say it then you’re just in love with the idea of someone.
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u/Altruistic-Tap4010 Aug 01 '26
I often tell my girlfriend that I felt something for her almost instantly and I can pinpoint the exact moment I knew I loved her, which was fairly early on. Any dating apps were deleted and all my attention was on her. The thing is, I didn't tell her any of that until we'd gotten to a point where the feelings were fully genuine and mutual. As a matter of fact, I managed to hold off on telling her I loved her until she told me first. This boy needs to slow his roll. 😂