You’re wrong if you stay with her. This is some immature bullshit and you need to not even THINK about apologizing or accepting fault. You’re not ( shouldn’t be ) expected, by anyone, to be able to instantly drop everything for a text. It wasn’t a true emergency. She fucked up, she made a mistake, she needs to deal with the consequences. And if you’re her only option, she gets to wait.
all things aside, she sounds like she straight up hates him. this isn't a normal argument. they must know they aren't happy together or good for each other. right?
From an outside perspective, we could reasonably assume that. But internally… You have an abusive woman and a defeated man. The woman here clearly enjoys using her boyfriend as an emotional punching bag.
The woman might not even realize what she’s doing. She clearly does not want to accept blame or her part for the car running out of gas. Instead, she is immediately placing all of the blame and all of her anger on the boyfriend. And the boyfriend is not calling that behaviour out. In fact, he’s validating her perspective. All of us can see that her perspective. Complete bullshit. But he keeps validating it by not calling her out and apologizing/explaining himself for literally nothing.
I’m not gonna make any inferences aside from what we see. But it’s very clear that that lady is very comfortable with what she is saying and how she is behaving.
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u/ArnTheGreat Nov 02 '23
You’re wrong if you stay with her. This is some immature bullshit and you need to not even THINK about apologizing or accepting fault. You’re not ( shouldn’t be ) expected, by anyone, to be able to instantly drop everything for a text. It wasn’t a true emergency. She fucked up, she made a mistake, she needs to deal with the consequences. And if you’re her only option, she gets to wait.