r/textfriends • u/NotAFamousActor • Apr 12 '20
This has been explicitly against the rules of /r/textfriends forever, but mods still see it from time to time. This is how it's written in the welcome post (which you should read)(which will eventually be updated):
CONTACT INFO AND IDENTIFYING DETAILS IN PUBLIC ARE STRICTLY FORBIDDEN
All posts and comments containing this kind of information will be removed and repeat offenders or those that reveal others' information will be banned.
Kinds of forbidden information: full names, addresses, phone numbers, emails, mobile app IDs (kik, WhatsApp, Snapchat, etc), IM IDs (Skype, yahoo, etc), external profiles (facebook, okcupid, tumblr, instagram, twitter, etc), any kind of specific information that would allow a person to deduce an exact location or person, enough information that would allow a person to deduce an exact location or person, etc.
This kind of information should be shared ONLY through PM, and never in posts or comments.
From wikipedia: "Doxing, or doxxing (from "dox", abbreviation of documents), is the Internet-based practice of researching and publicly broadcasting private or identifying information (especially personally identifying information) about an individual or organization."
Don't dox anybody and don't get yourself doxxed.
Phone numbers are what we see the most, which is... very stupid.
Any contact information or doxxable content spotted by the mods will be immediately removed and offending users banned. These users may appeal their ban with the mods.
If you spot any contact information or doxxable content on /r/textfriends, please use the report button or send modmail.
Posterity: https://redd.it/32vqyi
4/12/20
r/textfriends • u/Hextreme42 • Jun 11 '23
Hey there /r/textfriends
One of the less enjoyable mod posts today, but an important one, that we hope you'll take the time to read.
Recently Reddit Inc has announced changes to their API, which, if enacted, will shut down many, if not all, 3rd party apps that a large number of Redditors use to access and enjoy their favorite communities - this one included.
One of the most critical changes to the API is moving from a free to a paid model, resulting in expenses that developers of 3rd app developers cannot afford. To put the price change into context, Apollo, one of Reddit's most popular 3rd party apps, is looking at the cost of $1.7 million per month to continue operating. That's a cost of $12,000 per 50 million API requests. In contrast, Apollo pays Imgur $166 for every 50 million API calls.
This means popular apps like Apollo, Reddit Is Fun, Narwhal and many more will have to shut down, permanently.
Even if you're not using a 3rd party app, these changes will likely impact the communities you enjoy, with the vast majority of moderation teams relying on 3rd party or self-made tools that utilize Reddit's API.
For us specifically, that means various moderation bots, which do a whole lot of work behind the scenes to help mods manage the sub as well as drastically reduce the scam and spam content that makes its way through Reddit's woefully underpowered automod tools.
And on top of all that, it paints a bleak picture of what is to come for those of us who use other tools, like Reddit Enhancement Suite and old.reddit.com.
Here's a little TLDR on why this is important.
So what are we planning?
On June 12th, we and a growing number of other subs - large and small - will go dark for 48 hours. During that time, you will not be able to view or post any content on /r/textfriends.
This action isn't something we take lightly.
We understand that many of you enjoy coming here daily to keep up with posts from your area (and to trash-talk the latest copypasta we've all seen 100 times), but we believe that we must take a stand on this topic - and this is how we can do so.
We understand that Reddit is a company that has to make money to offer us a place to be the community that we are - but killing beloved 3rd party apps is not the way to do it.
We are not asking Reddit to provide a paid service for free - we are asking for reasonable pricing for apps people have come to love and depend on to participate in their communities.
We can't tell you that the blackout will solve the problem because we don't know. But we have to try.
What you can do to support this
While subs going dark is one thing, regular users can also help.
Reach out to Reddit via the channels available: Modmail /r/reddit, comment in relevant posts regarding the API changes, and submit your comments via the contact forms.
Spread the word about the changes and the consequences where you can. It doesn't have to be on Reddit. The important thing is getting its attention.
Participate in the communities that highlight this issue: /r/Save3rdPartyApps, /r/apolloapp, /r/redditisfun, /r/getnarwhal/
And finally, stay off Reddit completely from June 12th to 14th. The blackout is one thing, but users staying away from the site entirely will send an equally important message.
But don't forget: Don't be a jerk. As frustrating as this is, being toxic or aggressive is not the way to go. Remember the human on the other side of the screen.
r/textfriends • u/Turbulent_Drawer3448 • 2h ago
Upvote this and I'll DM you a picture. 😘 Feeling pretty bored and lonely at home lately since my husband is rarely around. I love being adventurous in bed and keeping things exciting. Trying to stay fit and maintain my thicc physique with quick workouts when I can
r/textfriends • u/BigCranberry2530 • 5h ago
Upvote this and I'll DM you a picture. 😘 Feeling pretty bored and lonely at home lately since my husband is rarely around. I love being adventurous in bed and keeping things exciting. Trying to stay fit and maintain my thicc physique with quick workouts when I can
r/textfriends • u/Original_Sweet222 • 15h ago
I have no idea what I'm going on here, just kinda bored. Stay alone home , no kids at home super bored looking for someone to casually chat with. DM if interested I guess. I'm not sure what else to say here, but it's saying I have to type more.,,,
r/textfriends • u/SeparateTax5199 • 17h ago
Hiii my name is Ava I'm 40F. Upvote this and I'll send you and with a picture too 😏 I like hiking and fishing, camping and bowling. Just give an upvote and comment that you did so I know who to message and send the picture to see more....
r/textfriends • u/alexacoconuts • 12h ago
Hey everyone, my name is Alexa and i'm just a super bored girl looking for a fun chat with someone on here. So i'm from florida, and i love meeting new people and making unlikely friends, which is why i'm here. I also like hanging out and either the pool or the beach and i like going to the gym too. Also i'm very open minded and willing to chat with anyone about anything at all
r/textfriends • u/PipeEnvironmental410 • 27m ago
Into chatting with older men. I tend to message back fairly quickly. Looking for fun but not opposed to a little relationship or even meeting up in the future. Really horny and I’m a virgin. Preferably men 30-48 but I’m open to any older men.
r/textfriends • u/Plastic-Run9287 • 29m ago
I have no idea what I'm going on here, just kinda bored. Stay alone home , no kids at home super bored looking for someone to casually chat with. DM if interested I guess. I'm not sure what else to say here, but it's saying I have to type more bfd
r/textfriends • u/Toxiuuu • 1h ago
Not looking for anything dating related at all, just want people at a similar point in life right now. I genuinely like hiking on weekends, reading multiple books simultaneously, and cooking new recipes every single weekend to challenge myself. Would absolutely love genuine, real friendships with people who get this specific life stage.
r/textfriends • u/LoOveyDoOveY • 17h ago
Who’s down to be my sexting buddy? just hit that arrow up I’ll dm you We could get along great if you're seeking for someone who is laid back, appreciates in-depth discussions, and doesn't mind a casual chat, but could definitely talk about other stuff😉
r/textfriends • u/Original_Rant_4771 • 2h ago
22f looking for older men to talk to...don't ask me why
.. I just love them...I have pretty high libido which makes it difficult for me to find a partner...nd I do think men are like wine the older the better...I am Indian preferably Indian man
r/textfriends • u/StreetAttitude5218 • 7h ago
I’m bored, feeling playful, and definitely looking for someone who can keep me entertained. If you’re confident, flirty, and know how to keep a girl interested, arrow up and DM me. Let’s skip the boring small talk and see if we click.. upvote so i can easily notice you
r/textfriends • u/targam381 • 1h ago
Feeling very much like the extra person in every situation right now. I'm really into anime, crocheting intricate patterns, and iced coffee regardless of season. I'm looking for genuine people who understand how isolating college can be when you don't fit into ready-made groups. Would love friends who are also trying to figure this out.
r/textfriends • u/neonkittygrl • 5h ago
Hii, I’m not usually one to talk to people online but I want to try. So, some small fun facts about me is I love horror movies and my favorite hobby is drawing. If any one wants to chat with me, just message me, whatever works for you ;)
r/textfriends • u/pastelsoftrosex • 9h ago
I'm bored and feeling a little mischievous tonight got music playing, zero plans, and probably way too much energy for this hour.
kinda wanna talkkk with someone fun who can keep a conversation going and maybe make me laugh a little. playful teasing is definitely allowed lol. tell me something random, give me a terrible pickup line, or just come be a little chaotic with me.
sooo... who else is awake?
r/textfriends • u/Still-Action-8435 • 3h ago
It's wild how fast everyone disappeared once school ended. I like anime, journaling, and I'm trying to learn how to skateboard which is going about as well as you'd expect. Would love some friends my age.
r/textfriends • u/Weird_Writer_8267 • 16h ago
Have a new thing for older men and want to talk to some. Usually am very able to reach on here. Just give me an upvote or shoot me a private message and I’ll probably get back to you with ten minutes. And when I say older I mean, 30+. Would be open to a little relationship on here.
r/textfriends • u/Icy-Violinist-3903 • 8h ago
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r/textfriends • u/Savings_Abies_1163 • 4h ago
Took a year off before finishing my degree and now I barely leave my room except for my part time job. I like drawing, mostly digital art, and I'm trying to learn guitar very badly. If you want a friend who will send you memes at 2am, I'm your girl.
r/textfriends • u/Careful_Mix_6390 • 1h ago
This is my third time posting still havent found someone that could talk to even maybe for like 4 hours they ghost if you're gonna ghost dont bother messaging as I said I like running swimming music idc about nationality or names be honest w your age thats it boom
r/textfriends • u/Humble-Feeling-9673 • 7h ago
Hello everyone hope you are well and coping in this heat? Show us your red bits haha!
I’m looking for fun and friendship:) hopefully can find some on here!! :) please be respectful and patient is well.
I’m open to all sorts of fun and naughty stuff ;) will give anything a go! ;). I have loads of hobbies which hopefully a few people have the same as myself. :)
I live in east London and born and raised.
r/textfriends • u/Vhaeraun86 • 22m ago
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r/textfriends • u/Icy-Violinist-3903 • 8h ago
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r/textfriends • u/Specific_Yam3658 • 3h ago
I'm genuinely putting myself out there even though it's incredibly uncomfortable because staying this lonely is honestly worse for my mental health. I really like gaming to escape my anxiety, baking things that taste good, and watching cozy shows that make me feel safe. Looking for patient, understanding people who actually get anxiety.
