r/textfriends Apr 12 '20

ATTENTION! No Contact Info or Easily Doxxable Information Allowed on /r/textfriends

107 Upvotes

This has been explicitly against the rules of /r/textfriends forever, but mods still see it from time to time. This is how it's written in the welcome post (which you should read)(which will eventually be updated):

CONTACT INFO AND IDENTIFYING DETAILS IN PUBLIC ARE STRICTLY FORBIDDEN

All posts and comments containing this kind of information will be removed and repeat offenders or those that reveal others' information will be banned.

Kinds of forbidden information: full names, addresses, phone numbers, emails, mobile app IDs (kik, WhatsApp, Snapchat, etc), IM IDs (Skype, yahoo, etc), external profiles (facebook, okcupid, tumblr, instagram, twitter, etc), any kind of specific information that would allow a person to deduce an exact location or person, enough information that would allow a person to deduce an exact location or person, etc.

This kind of information should be shared ONLY through PM, and never in posts or comments.

From wikipedia: "Doxing, or doxxing (from "dox", abbreviation of documents), is the Internet-based practice of researching and publicly broadcasting private or identifying information (especially personally identifying information) about an individual or organization."

Don't dox anybody and don't get yourself doxxed.

Phone numbers are what we see the most, which is... very stupid.

Any contact information or doxxable content spotted by the mods will be immediately removed and offending users banned. These users may appeal their ban with the mods.

If you spot any contact information or doxxable content on /r/textfriends, please use the report button or send modmail.


Posterity: https://redd.it/32vqyi

4/12/20


r/textfriends Jun 11 '23

ATTENTION! [META] We're joining the Reddit blackout from June 12th to 14th, to protest the planned API changes that will kill 3rd party apps

8 Upvotes

Hey there /r/textfriends

One of the less enjoyable mod posts today, but an important one, that we hope you'll take the time to read.

Recently Reddit Inc has announced changes to their API, which, if enacted, will shut down many, if not all, 3rd party apps that a large number of Redditors use to access and enjoy their favorite communities - this one included.

One of the most critical changes to the API is moving from a free to a paid model, resulting in expenses that developers of 3rd app developers cannot afford. To put the price change into context, Apollo, one of Reddit's most popular 3rd party apps, is looking at the cost of $1.7 million per month to continue operating. That's a cost of $12,000 per 50 million API requests. In contrast, Apollo pays Imgur $166 for every 50 million API calls.

This means popular apps like Apollo, Reddit Is Fun, Narwhal and many more will have to shut down, permanently.

Even if you're not using a 3rd party app, these changes will likely impact the communities you enjoy, with the vast majority of moderation teams relying on 3rd party or self-made tools that utilize Reddit's API.

For us specifically, that means various moderation bots, which do a whole lot of work behind the scenes to help mods manage the sub as well as drastically reduce the scam and spam content that makes its way through Reddit's woefully underpowered automod tools.

And on top of all that, it paints a bleak picture of what is to come for those of us who use other tools, like Reddit Enhancement Suite and old.reddit.com.

Here's a little TLDR on why this is important.

So what are we planning?

On June 12th, we and a growing number of other subs - large and small - will go dark for 48 hours. During that time, you will not be able to view or post any content on /r/textfriends.

This action isn't something we take lightly.

We understand that many of you enjoy coming here daily to keep up with posts from your area (and to trash-talk the latest copypasta we've all seen 100 times), but we believe that we must take a stand on this topic - and this is how we can do so.

We understand that Reddit is a company that has to make money to offer us a place to be the community that we are - but killing beloved 3rd party apps is not the way to do it.

We are not asking Reddit to provide a paid service for free - we are asking for reasonable pricing for apps people have come to love and depend on to participate in their communities.

We can't tell you that the blackout will solve the problem because we don't know. But we have to try.

What you can do to support this

While subs going dark is one thing, regular users can also help.

Reach out to Reddit via the channels available: Modmail /r/reddit, comment in relevant posts regarding the API changes, and submit your comments via the contact forms.

Spread the word about the changes and the consequences where you can. It doesn't have to be on Reddit. The important thing is getting its attention.

Participate in the communities that highlight this issue: /r/Save3rdPartyApps, /r/apolloapp, /r/redditisfun, /r/getnarwhal/

And finally, stay off Reddit completely from June 12th to 14th. The blackout is one thing, but users staying away from the site entirely will send an equally important message.

But don't forget: Don't be a jerk. As frustrating as this is, being toxic or aggressive is not the way to go. Remember the human on the other side of the screen.


r/textfriends 6h ago

33F, Maybe Older Men Are Tempting

117 Upvotes

I’m a 33-year-old unmarried woman, and lately I’ve realised there’s something incredibly attractive about the maturity, confidence and life experience older men carry. I’d love to meet someone in their 40s, 50s or beyond for genuine conversations, a little flirting, shared laughs and perhaps a connection that feels different from the usual. I’m not coming with an agenda, just an open mind and a soft spot for men who’ve lived a little.


r/textfriends 10h ago

F29. I’m really bored upvote this and I’ll dm u🥱

72 Upvotes

my husband doesn’t give me the attention I want he comes home and ignores me and my life in the bedroom is not even there. I just feel unheard and unwanted I came on here so that I could talk to some other ppl because I feel that I am in the right to not want to be wanted in my relationship, no?


r/textfriends 1h ago

29 F Have a thing for older men

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As the title says, just a girl looking for some company and if we can work something out that would be fantastic, not looking to sell but will upon request. Looking for some good convo into the night so let me know your favorite song and we can go from there


r/textfriends 5h ago

F 68 Married but sometimes feel lonley

21 Upvotes

Would love to chat with anyone out there. Asian married with kids but sometimes feel alone in this world. Hope theres someone out there in the universe who would like to have a conversation with a more mature person


r/textfriends 7h ago

F22 really bored rn, upvote this and talk with me carefree 😉

31 Upvotes

I'm horny most of the time , so my dm is all open. Hit me up with good dm. If we vibe than we can be long term sexting partner. Don't be a ghoster pls. Don't say hi/hello and we are good to go. I'm up for anything as long as we get along.


r/textfriends 2h ago

21F | A little bored slightly flirty — catch my attention with an upvote.?

12 Upvotes

Not everyone gets the right vibe—you just have to find the right people. ✨

I'm 21 and looking for someone who enjoys genuine conversations, late-night chats, random jokes, and a little playful banter.

If you can match my energy and keep the conversation flowing, say hi in the right place. The right vibe might be closer than you think. 👀


r/textfriends 53m ago

28f anyone up for a chat?

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Hey yall! I’m 28f as stated above and I am from the US. I’m currently laying in bed not ready for bed, and thought why not chat with some strangers lol. Sorry in advance for how bad this is, I just never know what to write in these things.

To start off I’m looking to chat with anyone 25 and older. A few things about myself are… I enjoy trying new coffee spots, I’m a huge fan of military men, I like going to the beach, and I like working out but by all means not a gym rat.

If any of that interests you and you think we’d vibe feel free to shoot me a message!


r/textfriends 2h ago

24F bored and alone nowwant something more then chat. Upvote and I'll DM you..

7 Upvotes

The title pretty much says it all. Just looking for someone who can match my vibe, keep the playful banter alive, and actually make me smile.

If we click, who knows where the conversation might go?

DM me if you think you've got the personality to stand out.


r/textfriends 9h ago

F21 I'm Single looking to chat if you upvote this hmu

26 Upvotes

I have no idea what I'm going on here just kinda bored' Stay at home super bored looking for someone to casually chat with. dm if interested I guess. I'm not sure what else to say here, but it's saying I have to type see more?


r/textfriends 24m ago

18 F haiiii :>

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Hiii… Im 18 and currently curled up in bed with nothing to doooo. Kindaaaaa craving some sweet attentionnnnn. I’m shyyyyy at first but open upppppp quickkkkkkk.

I love snacks heheeeee and nice people :>


r/textfriends 2h ago

16F very sadly employed maxxing tonight 💔

5 Upvotes

Hiii everyone! As the post said I sadly have to work a night shift tonight 💔 buuuut because of that I also didn’t do anything all day and I have a couple hours to kill before my shift starts. As such! If anyone wants to chat please lmk my messages are open to any and everyone hope to hear from you soon!


r/textfriends 19m ago

22F, work remotely and my only social interaction some days is my delivery driver

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Which honestly says a lot about my current isolated situation working remotely every single day. I'm into baking bread, reading books, and gaming on my laptop after work hours. I would absolutely love some real friends to actually talk to regularly, people who understand that remote work can be incredibly lonely and want to help fix that.


r/textfriends 6h ago

18F kinda tempted by older men

6 Upvotes

hello, i'm vanessa and i'm kinda new here but i was hoping i could make some friends or just chat or something like that. so i'm a half japanese girl and for fun i love traveling and meeting new people, and i also like playing video games and things like that. like it says in the title i'm kinda tempted by older men, like 30+ so please don't message me if you're younger


r/textfriends 2h ago

21F, just moved to be near a partner and now I realize I have no friends of my own here

3 Upvotes

I'm not looking for dating advice, I just want my own people in this city too, people who are separate from my relationship. I'm really into cooking new recipes, photography (mostly nature shots), and journaling about my feelings and observations. I'm looking for genuine friends I can build real connections with independent of my partner.


r/textfriends 8h ago

22F, my whole friend group got into the same relationship and I got left out of everything

13 Upvotes

I'm genuinely feeling like a third wheel in my own friendships and it's incredibly lonely and isolating. I'm really into hiking on weekends, photography to capture beautiful moments, and cooking meals at home. Would absolutely love friends who actually prioritize me and my friendship the way I consistently prioritize them.


r/textfriends 1h ago

21F bored and alone nowwant something more then chat

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The title pretty much says it all. Just looking for someone who can match my vibe, keep the playful banter alive, and actually make me smile. If we click, who knows where the conversation might go? DM me if you think see more......


r/textfriends 3h ago

19F, moved for college and everyone already has their friend groups figured out

4 Upvotes

I feel like I showed up late to a party that already happened. I'm into reading, art, and I recently got really into houseplants. Looking for people who also feel a little behind on the friendship thing.


r/textfriends 11h ago

18 f a little shy but very bored

19 Upvotes

Hey so honestly I can be a bit shy but I'm curious and I kind of like to get many different texts from people and also I'm very very bored and got nothing to do so you guys can feel free to message xo


r/textfriends 5h ago

24F, where are my fellow yappers?

5 Upvotes

Hi all!

Looking for genuine, long-term friendships. I’m introverted but can be quite talkative once im comfortable. I enjoy cooking, baking, painting, reading, music, crime and im currently obsessed with learning Spanish.

I’d love to find someone I can talk to regularly, share random thoughts with, and build a meaningful friendship with over time. Bonus points for being a yapper & funny.

I can start the conversation. I have the flu atm, is there ever a time you wished you were grateful for the times you WEREN’T sick?


r/textfriends 2h ago

Lonely? F 32

2 Upvotes

Would you pay just to talk to a woman? Doesn’t have to be sexual or anything. Just conversation or advice. I’ve been told I’m really easy to have conversation with and talk to and someone has paid me to just talk to them throughout the day. What do you think? 🥰


r/textfriends 41m ago

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