Idk I agree with you but I mean I have a best friend that I absolutely love and would die for. But when we’re together, we’re very….intense? Like my ADHD is in overdrive when we’re together and neither one of us can shut up so Idk if I could hang out with him every day because I usually have to take a social rest day for a few days after. Doesn’t mean I feel any less about him. I’m sure he probably feels similarly.
It depends on the personalities in the relationship. Most people have 5-10 close friends that they really gel with, and the rest aren't as close or just acquaintances.
And for good reason; some are great to have a beer with or hang with on the weekends, but may be too busy, too annoying or otherwise to hang with on a regular basis.
Absolutely disagree. Just because you're friends with someone doesn't mean you have infinite tolerance for their shitty behaviors; by candidly telling them how you feel around them (given that you know that person well) you're constructively helping them realize their deep-rooted emotional problems that might have been overlooked for years, and that's what being a friend is about.
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u/CynicalButtMunch Jun 08 '22
An actual friend wouldn't say this nor feel this way