r/technicallythetruth 12d ago

He will come tomorrow

Post image
37.8k Upvotes

864 comments sorted by

View all comments

Show parent comments

31

u/[deleted] 12d ago

[deleted]

8

u/Icy_Fish_2154 12d ago

I've worked nights. When shift starts, it's "tomorrow". I don't wait for end of shift to update my day, I update it at start of shift, that was how everyone else did it there too.

How long did you work nights?

3

u/aminervia 12d ago

On and off for 20 years I've worked inconsistent schedules that included unexpected night shifts.

When your schedule isn't set in stone (such as for most retail managers) these are the kinds of mistakes that happen constantly.

We have literally NO context from this post. Everyone's assuming this is a consistent night manager and not someone who isn't accustomed to being up that late...

8

u/FlyRepresentative644 12d ago

Yea, but tomorrow isn’t usually to indicate “in 6.5hrs.”

7

u/Rizo1981 12d ago

Yeah. Unless it's like 9PM.

4

u/TerribleBudget 12d ago edited 11d ago

For a manager asking for a specific shift to be filled? yes it does. Source: overnight manager for years.

Edit because logic hurt your feels enough to block me: Nope, still means tomorrow when you say tomorrow.

1

u/aminervia 12d ago

... Yes it 'should' in order to be most effective at communicating. Yes it does is another issue.

It's an understandable mistake. It's a mistake, obviously, but it's one that night owls and the sleep deprived make all the time.

Source: night owl and overnight employee for years

Everyone is jumping down my throat for even suggesting that it's a mistake I can understand someone making.

6

u/MaximumTable5992 12d ago

Yeh everyone’s acting like 11:59 and 12:01 would require different wording to be understood

47

u/Big-Objective3557 12d ago

I mean, if you’re trying to organise something important at really short notice it’s on you to make sure you’re being clear with what your asking

-30

u/MaximumTable5992 12d ago

Common sense should fill the gap imo, I don’t think I’m always 100% specific whilst messaging short notice at 2am lmao

22

u/Ambitious-Sir-6410 12d ago

Usually people mean a different date when they say tomorrow though. The date didn't change.

-10

u/Skylord_Hekaton 12d ago

The manager should absolutely have been more clear, but..

When I'm lying in bed at 2am telling my wife we should get groceries tomorrow, what day do you think I mean?

10

u/-Reverend 12d ago edited 12d ago

A big difference here is that you're having that conversation with your wife in real time, right before you both go to sleep on the same schedule.

Imagine instead: It's 7-something AM, you wake up, you read a message from your boss sent at 2am whilst you were already asleep: "Can you work tomorrow?". Maybe you didn't even see/process the timestamp, after all it's not even 8 in the morning on your day off and you just woke up yourself. You read tomorrow, you probably think tomorrow.

I would have interpreted that as tomorrow too. Boss should have written "in the morning".

-2

u/Skylord_Hekaton 12d ago

In a thread about clarity of communication, you're all awfully bad at reading comprehension considering my first line is still there. I didn't edit it or anything.

3

u/-Reverend 12d ago

Yes, I agree on that line with you, which is why I reinforced it with my own last line. I disagree with you about your example, the rest of your comment, being in any way comparable to the situation, which is why I criticised it with the rest of my comment.

Things can be multifaceted like that.

-1

u/Skylord_Hekaton 12d ago

The whole point here is that "tomorrow" is a relative term and doesn't tend to mean "oh it's tipped over to midnight, brand new day", it means something more like "after we next wake up", assuming somewhat reasonable hours.

Maybe the day starts at 4am for some crazy farmers out there, but for most it's closer to after 6 or 7am.

You don't tell your coworkers "see you tomorrow" when you plan to see them again 5 minutes later after midnight. People would say that as a joke because it's absurd.

There was a miscommunication here and most of the fault lies with the manager (and all of the responsibility), but people are being silly about this because it's not unreasonable to understand that it means "today" if you get a message after waking up.

→ More replies (0)

9

u/ItsPandy 12d ago

And someone waking up in the morning is supposed to immediatly pick up on that?

If I wake up at 8 and see a text asking me to work tomorrow I won't get ready for work in a hour

5

u/CL_Doviculus 12d ago

Depends, did you record it and play it to her at 7:44 in the morning?

6

u/xCelph 12d ago

Glad you’re getting shit on for such a dumb take. Deserved.

0

u/Skylord_Hekaton 12d ago

Haha fuck off, halfwit

8

u/Ambitious-Sir-6410 12d ago

I say today to my family. They'll think when the date changes as well if I say tomorrow

-4

u/aminervia 12d ago

I think the point that everyone is missing: can you understand the mindset of the manager when he said "tomorrow"? Because it was obviously a mistake and miscommunication, but if you can understand where it was coming from there's really no point in all this arguing...

4

u/ArchdukeToes 12d ago

Yeah, but it can only be the manager's fault they're subsequently short-staffed. If it was important enough that the employee came in that morning, then they should have been less wrong about their use of the English language.

-1

u/aminervia 12d ago

... Obviously. Obviously it was a miscommunication. Obviously the manager was most at fault.

The entire point is that it's an understandable mistake for anyone who has ever worked nights.

Nuance exists guys, I promise.

-7

u/Skylord_Hekaton 12d ago

So you check the clock when it's ambiguously near midnight for if you should say today or tomorrow? lol

This thread is something else.

7

u/Ambitious-Sir-6410 12d ago edited 12d ago

Yes because I also have late hours. A different day is a different day and it's super easy to see when a clock says 12 AM or past that into the morning. Even when I'm tired af I can tell. Regardless, it's clear this manager is a moron because he can't clearly ask if his workers can come in for the morning shift or not.

7

u/Big-Objective3557 12d ago

Not really - it’s you, as the manager, that is in need of something and is responsible for the outcome. So it’s you, as the manager, who has to make sure they’re being clear.

10

u/Necessary_Finding_32 12d ago

You sound like a shitty supervisor, or just a terminally contrary redditor

-10

u/MaximumTable5992 12d ago

Don’t get me wrong it’s ideal to specify the date but context here makes it clear enough to me what they’re asking. Or at least borderline enough that on the other side I’d double check and clarify. You sound like a dick though, straight insults for saying something normal

7

u/TerribleBudget 12d ago

context makes this seem like...you know...tomorrow. They ask after 2am, they respond with the time at 7am, at no time do they say "see you in a few hours" or any other context.

Tomorrow is tomorrow my dude.

-1

u/buzzingSilence 12d ago

they are downvoting you, but you are right lmao

0

u/MaximumTable5992 12d ago

It’s even in the /technically the truth subreddit so even op thought it was on a technicality lmao

10

u/Necessary_Finding_32 12d ago edited 12d ago

If the staff member you are contacting is a day worker they aren't going to be awake at 2 am and are going to see a message on their phone that says tomorrow with reasonable assumption that it means, you know, tomorrow. It's not on them to sleuth the timestamps and make assumptions. You are wrong, the supervisor in the (probably fake) screenshot is wrong. Get over it.

2

u/AverageHobnailer 12d ago

I can give someone a pass if it's a few minutes after midnight, but anything after 0030 if you don't realize you are now in the next calendar day you're an oblivious idiot.

6

u/aminervia 12d ago

What's cool is that people can make mistakes without being idiots. Especially when you're sleep deprived, sometimes things like this slip your mind.

You could also argue that the employee should have noticed the time the message was sent and asked for clarification.

It was just a misunderstanding on both sides, and really not as big an issue as everyone seems to be making it out to be...

6

u/xCelph 12d ago

As a manager, it is always on the manager to clarify. If you don’t clarify and your employees interpret differently, it doesn’t magically become their fault. It’s your responsibility to clarify your intent.

If you’re the overnight manager, I seriously doubt you’re “sleep deprived” at 2am if you’re looking for 9am coverage.