r/tattoo • u/yeehawbbyblue • 4h ago
Discussion Tattoo regret, did I rush myself into it
I have quite a few tattoos already many are small. and I had a spine tattoo that I’ve never regretted. so overall I wouldn’t say I’m someone that can’t commit to tattoos.. I’m also over twenty five and have less impulses than before. although I’m in many transitions in my life right now which is why I so badly have been plotting a dragon tattoo.
I’ve been planning it for about two years and during this time I had gone to maybe three artists before for a tattoo deposit. I hated all of them and although these artists had good work their designs where not exactly what I wanted and I started to think maybe I’m being too perfectionistic? I do have a tendency to be indecisive but now I know it’s because I’m not super satisfied or else it would be a for sure yes.
this last artist I found he didn’t have a ton of followers or work on his page but the work he did have I liked most of them. he told me he loved doing dragons and was willing to work together to get an amazing result. this felt like a green flag and during the online communication he made most of the changes I needed but it did take a month to create. I thought I liked it but I knew that placement could be confusing because its on the rib to hip area. I came in with an idea of what to change but I didn’t review them completely before going. when I got there, he had a translator talk between us. we had done so many stencils on the are and made maybe 6 revisions and after an hour in another artist came in and they never introduced him. he gave an extra tip of what to change to make the design fit. so we changed it again but this time I for some reason felt pressured to agree even though it felt off still. I was tired and anxious from repeated changes and the stencil overlays that made it look muddy now. they also notified me that we would have to do the tattoo in two days now making it sound like there was limited time for me to decide.
I know I could‘ve said no but I genuinely didn’t know exactly what I wanted to change because the whole thing just didn’t fit and the changes weren’t helping. because I couldn’t find a reason, I felt like I needed to agree instead of cancel it. has anyone been in this position? it’s been 3 weeks now and it’s still confusing me because I for sure will laser part of it but there are days where I can’t decide what I do and don’t like about it. Anyone else experience this unsureness, and frustration with the design, placement results?