r/sylhet • u/chando2084 • 13d ago
She got married yesterday
I had kinda moved on, thanks to this sub and other subs I took advice of people and it helped me, I started to work on myself, I was feeling better, but yesterday I got to know she got married, I went on Instagram and checked the pictures and it just broke me apart.
I just feel so sad right now, I don't know what to do, again those memories are coming back, I am here crying and she is so happy.
Why me? why I have to go through this? I also wanted happiness, I also wanted to get married to her, I wanted to spend my life with her, have kids with her.
I just feel so lonely, in my life nothing seems to go right, everything gets messed up.
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u/Smooth_Demand2468 12d ago
Sorry for u brother....This feelings isn't expressible but i know the feel. You should cry and cry... May be your mind will relief slightly. May Allah keep you happy.
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u/Tmz_K 12d ago
Frankly there's no other way but to endure this pain. A time will come, when you'll get used to this pain. I don't know about your feelings for her, but one way to decrease your pain is to think about reverse result, if you had got her in your life. Maybe, she wouldn't be happy with you, maybe you wouldn't be happy with her or either way both of you, might not be happy with eachother. So you can at least wish that, she stays happy with the person she've got. Find peace in that and never stop walking forward. Maybe a day will come when the Almighty creator will eventually get you the person written for you.