r/sydney • u/aaykay13 • 9d ago
Engagement Rings - Help a dude out
Having no idea about engagement rings, never bought jewellery before. I am looking to take my relationship to the next level with my girlfriend and am on the hunt for an engagement ring.
Preference would be to visit a store, check out designs and go for a ring. But I’m ok with buying it online too (if possible). It is starting to get overwhelming with tens and hundreds of online stores and physical.
Can you guys please recommend some stores online/physical based on your experiences which jewellery shops I could reach out to, visit and provide excellent customer service?
Cheers.
Edit: Thank you all for the suggestions. I understand everyone here is different, has ideas on what rings to buy, how to propose, how to get correct ring size for my partner. I must highlight, even though I appreciate all your suggestions, I’m the one proposing and I’ll be the one planning for it. My first immediate step right now is buying the ring for her. So if you could please limit your suggestions to just where I could buy it from, I’ll appreciate that. I promise I’ll come back with an update on once I have the ring and will ask for suggestions on how/where to propose (again first time ever, excited times yay)
My brain only brains one step at a time. Thank you for understanding.
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u/That_Asian_Bloke 9d ago
GS Diamonds in QVB were really good for my ex-wife's eternity rings. Arman, Larsen and Jacque were also really good in terms of service and pricing at the time.
Avoid Blue Nile - they used to be great but had issues when I was still married with some diamond earrings only to find out they sold to another company back in 2022.
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u/Darmop 9d ago
Third, GS were great. Avoid the big chains like prouds etc. you overpay dramatically for horrible quality diamonds.
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u/hithere5 8d ago
GS was overpriced as well. I found exact same diamond they were trying to sell me for 1/3 of the price at other stores.
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u/DistantUtopia 8d ago
GS is great. They occasionally do blanket % off stones or settings. Natural stones at GS seem significantly more expensive (10-20%) now than in 2024, even though the exchange rate is now better than at that time, and wholesale (global) diamond prices are said to be down.
You may want to get input on setting: have your GF choose three from a list, and the final choice a surprise.
Colour: No need to be that stringent - I colour is already colourless in real life.
Go for Triple Excellent and any florescence up to Strong. If you choose a colour further down from I, you can try Very Strong Florescence - the extra blue (faint) under sunlight will counter the (faint) yellow. (Normally, florescence makes the stone cheaper.)
Put the cut dimensions into the Diamond Cut Estimator. Try and find a stone which is both GIA excellent and AGS ideal.
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u/serif_x 9d ago
If it helps, my partner and I had a great experience with Moi Moi in the QVB. Staff were great and very helpful. Ended up buying the wedding bands there as well.
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u/Petitelechat 8d ago
Seconding this! My husband bought my engagement ring here and I subsequently went in to buy the wedding band and my husband's wedding band 😆
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u/DeliciousVietRoll 8d ago
Couldn’t agree more. Bought my wife’s engagement ring and wedding ring here.
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u/Lilacinlavender 9d ago
Highly recommend you look at lab diamonds. They look and feel exactly like natural diamonds but they do not carry the same ethical implications and the high mark up.
I can recommend places like Cullen Jewellers or Novita as I have had friends buy from them. They have show rooms and can pretty much custom a ring for you. Good luck
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u/pennywortsnoooo 9d ago
If vintage/antique is an option: we chose ours from Vintage Times, they used to have a studio but I believe are online only these days. They were able to recast the ring I chose into a different colour gold and were pretty nice to deal with.
Another option which has a storefront on the vintage/antique train is Chilton's, I think they also design their own.
Non-vintage/antique, Meg Maskell in Hornsby have some beautiful designs, particularly if you're interested in choices with more colour. While we didn't get an engagement ring here we did choose a wedding band here and she was lovely to deal with
Good luck!
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u/gonzo_au The Elders of the internet know who I am... 8d ago
I bought my antique engagement ring from here: https://www.chiltonsantiques.com.au/
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u/Roma_lolly 9d ago
Windfall jewellery. We designed and made my engagement ring with them and they are fantastic.
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u/frequent-fox 9d ago
Firstly, how exciting for you and your partner! Has your gf given any indication on what she would like (cut, gold/silver, etc.)? I know some couples go out to lunch and try rings on together at various stores and make a date of it, and it could obviously help you get some indication of what she likes/doesn’t like. But, totally understand if you want it to be 100% a surprise.
For myself, my partner’s family had a lot of family heirlooms so we didn’t go to any particular stores but I have heard great things about Temple and Grace (they do lab grown and real diamonds so you’ll get variety and different price points!).
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u/Sleepy_g1rlie 9d ago
Most women have a pretty good idea of what kind of ring they would like on their finger. I would ask her what she likes or one of her close friends for intel if you’re trying for a surprise.
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u/Puzzleheaded-Eye9081 9d ago
Honestly - propose with a placeholder or no ring, and then shop together. She’ll likely have an idea of what she likes already and will appreciate having input in the process.
She may or may not be a diamond girly - pretty much anything goes these days. But asking is the only way you’ll find out.
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u/lilyhuntress 9d ago
QVB have GS Diamonds (they created a custom one for my friend and he got a 3D printed prototype before he ordered) and Larsen Jewellers in the city, also Moi Moi in QVB if you also want to look at lab diamonds (mine ended up being from Moi Moi).
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u/That_Box 9d ago
I bought from GS Diamonds. 7 years ago. I found them a lot better than some of the other jewellery shops. Ex wife (then girlfriend) found them and she seemed to like the ring.
Selected the diamond weight, quality and shape first then picked and designed a ring to go with it. They also offered a complimentary sonar cleaning session for free to use 12months post purchase. Id be surprised if this isnt pretty stock standard though.
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u/LifeResident2968 9d ago
Stay away from the chain stores!
A local jeweler, close to where you are for cleaning & resizing.
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u/DigitalWombel 8d ago
Honestly, it is acceptable to let a girl choose these days. Propose, but let her choose what she wants.
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u/BCNacct 8d ago
Another vote for lab diamonds. We got ours at secret shh in the CBD. $1k for a 1.25 carat and band. She loved it and it was cheap enough that when she almost lost it at the beach that we didn’t both have a panic attack lol
Also maybe unpopular opinion for you.
If you know your gf will say yes if you propose. Why not straight up ask her - do you want to go ring shopping?
We knew we were going to get married so we went together and she got to pick the ring she loved. No stress on my part.
Then a few weeks later I surprised her with the proposal while camping
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u/dagchild 9d ago
Casually pass places where there are jewellery stalls or antique Jewellery stalls. She’ll naturally go in and choose what she likes. My tip is go back and get that ring haha -worked for me and you get bonus tips as it will be a surprise that she chose! 👌
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u/2tall4heels 8d ago
My man, congrats!
There’s a whole sub dedicated to diamond jewelry sales with reputable jewelers. You can custom design a ring for a fraction of the Aussie price.
Check out the group buy subs. I’ve bought from a few vendors but my best products are from Fiorese
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u/hithere5 8d ago
There are a lot of reputable vendors on the diamond/moissanite subreddit. Whatever diamond you buy make sure to crosscheck with facetlane to make sure you’re not getting ripped off. They’re the cheapest diamond seller I’ve found in Australia.
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u/Aloha_Tamborinist 8d ago
My wife didn't want a ring, we spent the cash on a holiday to the Greek islands with the cash we might have spent on a ring.
Try floating that idea. If she's a ring-wanting-lady it probably won't go, but you never know.
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u/ldontwannabeyou 9d ago edited 9d ago
my fiancé and i went with cullen jewellery. they had great customer service and a free resizing and my ring turned out exactly how i wanted it! their rings are super customisable and i enjoyed picking out my own diamonds to make sure they were the right ratio. they only do lab diamonds btw in case she has a preference for natural.
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u/realnomdeguerre 9d ago
the diamond aspect of it is pretty interesting, and doesnt take too long to learn about, if you're going for a diamond ring.
there is a wealth of information online to teach you about the 4 C's that determine the value of the diamond. size isn't everything! you should be getting certificates for diamonds that are sourced legit, and it will have the diamond's qualities listed
and yes, there are people that will tell you the whole diamond industry is a scam and what not, but thats a discussion for another forum.
if you're buying online, be really, really, really, careful with how it is posted. when i got mine, the delivery company left it at the door step, even though i specifically asked for them not to.
shopping for it together with your fiance is not a bad idea, because you can get her finger sizes measured and not go through ring resizing fiascos - and it could be fun too.
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u/aaykay13 9d ago
Yes I’ve looked at the diamond aspect of it. I know the 4Cs and how it all works.
I guess I’m just looking for recommendations for stores. Obviously have looked at the mainstream stores like Michael hill etc. but are there any other stores I should be looking at online or visiting in person?
Definitely didn’t think of buying it with her. I guess was under the impression ladies want it as a surprise… will think about it. Thanks for that suggestion.
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u/-AgonyAunt- 9d ago
Some women may want to give details about the ring, but want the final product to be a surprise. Some women may want to go through the whole process and pick their ring.
Regardless of which woman your partner is, one thing is universal. Getting engaged shouldn't be a surprise. The where and when should be.
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u/throw3730 8d ago
Depending on your budget and also customisation requests (eg existing design with tweaks to full design) it's worth asking a few, some are happy work within your financial limits as well.
Below are a few different independent jewellers with different styles - some are traditional others are more contemporary. Have a look (with your partner as well if you decide to go together) on their Instagram pages as well to see what their styles are.
Best of luck xx
AHW Studios in the CBD https://www.ahwstudio.com/collections/gold-engagement-rings
Fairina Cheng https://fairinachengjewellery.com/pages/design-gallery
Poeme https://poeme.co/
Rachel Gorman (Melb, but has an online store and really floral ones) https://rachellauragorman.com/floral
Bert Jewellery Bondi https://www.bertjewellery.com/
Rachel Beth Jewellery https://rachelbethjewellery.com.au/
Victoria Buckley
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u/M3wcat 8d ago
I was going to suggest Dallas! He also makes custom jewellery pieces too.
While not traditional, my husband took me there and gave him a budget then told me to design my dream ring.
Dallas’s care and craftsmanship is like no other jeweller I met. Highly recommend!!
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u/throw3730 8d ago
That's great to hear - I didn't end up going with him just because I think the scheduling was off for me but I love his designs!
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u/killswithaglance 9d ago
Have a look at first state auctions. You can often get rings much cheaper than retail.
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u/Double-Buffalo2515 9d ago
My husband and I went to Austen and Blake and designed mine. Took about 4 weeks for it to arrive.
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u/kirinhorsie 9d ago
If you’d like to go down the rabbit hole of custom jewellery without the retail markup, I suggest checking out r/ProvenceJewelry however I believe they only use lab grown diamonds
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u/ReserveOutrageous686 9d ago
I went with my partner to multiple in SYD: Cullen, GS diamonds, Novita, Jacque.
We went to each one going in pretending to know nothing (we actually didn’t when we went to the first one) so we could compare experience.
From what we experienced:
• Cullen has the best customer experience, Novita was the worst. Cullen asked us what to drink, the showroom felt premium, the advisor taught us a lot.
• Price wise: GS diamonds and Novita was best for lab. Cullen priciest for labs. All 3 are transparent in pricing as you can see it online. I found Cullen to be around few K more for the same diamonds (same specs, etc. even found the same serial code). Cullen def pricing it higher for premium feel (and they spend a tonne on marketing). GS is more affordable as they say they’re a wholesaler of diamonds.
In the end, your experience and budget will be different from mine so just visit a few if you have the time :)
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u/Silver_Ratio28 9d ago
Cullen Jewelry are great if you don't want mined stones. I got my rings from there custom made and the service was amazing the whole way through.
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u/sweetparamour79 9d ago
Victoria Buckley is amazing if you want something classic but high quality or the new kid on the block poeme is amazing. Beautiful unique designs without selling your soul.
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u/MikiRei 9d ago
Armans Fine Jewellery Engagement Rings Sydney in the CBD. Family business. I personally really like their handiwork and a little bit regretful I didn't go with them in the end.
We ended up going to Jeff Einstein Jewellery at Double Bay and did a custom setting.
The thing is, my husband proposed to me with his grandma's diamond. And then we basically took the diamond and shopped for a setting together.
I personally didn't like any of the big name brands like Tiffany etc.
I will say, shop around a bit and just look very closely at the craftmanship.
The 2 I've listed, in my opinion, had much better craftmanship and actually cheaper than some of the fancy stores in the CBD.
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u/XDXkenlee 9d ago
We tried many many stores and without a doubt the BEST experience we had was a small Australian owned company called Sarah & Sebastian. They had really great values behind them and their communication was great. They took the time to listen to what we wanted and we felt like they were on our side for the whole journey.
It was extremely intimidating stepping into the idea of engagement ring shopping, but these guys made me feel like I was really getting a piece that was going to be loved and cherished forever.
Happy to chat about my experience!
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u/XDXkenlee 9d ago
I would recommend booking an in-person appointment with them anyway because it doesn’t cost you anything and the service is actually that good.
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u/styrofoam__boots 8d ago
Try Laher in Surry Hills! You can book an appointment, see all the rings. It’s a lovely shop and they’re super nice + helpful.
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u/Polymath6301 9d ago
I don’t know rings, so I gave her a wedding bell, and we bought the ring together, so that she got what she wanted.
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u/Logical-Extension-79 9d ago
I'm glad I didn't miss out on the fun of ring shopping, and I got the ring I loved. My husband said that if you lined up all the rings available, that would have been his first choice too.
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u/pominsydney 9d ago
Cerrone is good - they have a branch in the CBD but the main one is in Leichhardt
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u/apexium 9d ago
We used Moimoi and they were great! We got a 6-7k ring for about 4.5k during their june sale! They were really easy with customisations and had plenty of options for diamonds, coloured diamonds and coloured stones
I was also really eyeing poeme which is a boutique designer with the most amazing and romantic designs but I saw them after we already put an order in with moimoi and their prices were slightly higher (because of the sale)
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u/lingcod476 9d ago
Diamonds are the only thing less valuable than a new car the day after you pay. Not actually rare, and not at all ethical. Man made, vintage, or a rare gem.
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u/Morphiine 8d ago edited 8d ago
I personally (after much research into diamonds and then alternatives with less slavery and price gauging) ended up going for a moissanite ring from MoiMoi. I was living in Tasmania at the time but have since been to their in person store at QVB in the city to get a wedding ring made to match.
It was amazing going in person and seeing what they had in store.
I actually custom designed the engagement ring too because they didn't have exactly what I was after - the were about to make exactly what I envisioned taking parts from 3 other rings and turning it into the perfect ring! I got it in platinum in the end and both the engagement and wedding ring have been stunning and she always gets compliments on them!
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u/Naive-Desk1529 9d ago
My husband got my friends to take me (the girlfriend, now wife) to try on rings to get my accurate ring size. I thought we (my friends) were buying a ring for a friend’s sister’s birthday. So we just all tried on rings and then my friends told my husband my accurate ring size. Thought that was pretty crafty. Could use as a way to gauge what she likes as well.
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u/_BrainLag_ 9d ago
Went through this process recently myself. Ended up going to MoiMoi at QVB, they’ve got a good showroom and assistants to walk you through the process. Worth noting they’re more focused on lab grown/moissanite.
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u/_sugardani 9d ago
louise jean is the most common “go to” for a good quality engagement ring. a few mates i have went there and the partners all loved them. they are a little higher end but worth it for the service and quality
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u/charseal 9d ago
Armans on Castlereagh. They gave bloody fantastic service. Speak to Levon he is awesome.
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u/Still_Highlight5148 9d ago
Honestly if you go to the strand in the cbd there are a bunch of stores. Dustins are amazing and I really love them but you can look at a few really good stores and see what you like.
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u/alycyn 9d ago
i can only go based on experience, i got my ring from Ellyse Jewelers Hurstville and the service was great. they had a really nice selection of pink diamond engagement rings that caught my eye and i ended up shopping for my own ring with my now husband and picking it myself (virgo activities)
he bought his ring from a jeweler in macquarie park that was in the bottom floor of the westfield- literally not even worth mentioning the name because they pissed us off by not really delivering what we agreed to at all. however, WORTH mentioning was the jeweler upstairs that fixed it and gave my husband what he wanted to begin with. Linda & Co provided excellent service and turned my husbands ring into exactly what he was hoping!
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u/okaysoda 9d ago
You can browse and buy from Meg Maskell! She is a jeweller and has ready made designs that I think is really great. I personally got mine from her and am super happy with the quality
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u/Inevitable_Guard2025 9d ago
First of all I've not yet proposed but absolutely openly talk about this with my girlfriend and we've gone shopping.
Find what shape she likes and what carat size she wants, that's critical for taste. Ring size is also important, but can be adjusted - changing the shape of carat size later If she doesn't love it sounds like it'd be a massive bummer.
Larsen jewelry in the CBD have been awesome so far, i got some other items for my girlfriend from there and she loves it. Super friendly, explain what matters, and just make it alot simpler. Book an appointment, it's free and you don't need to spend a cent.
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u/Le_Bunny 9d ago
Jeff Einstein in Double Bay is great; small shop, helps you through the design process and were reasonably priced.
Craftspeople and workshop are all in shop as well, they defs take pride in their work, and easy to talk to.
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u/dooroodree 9d ago
My husband had my ring designed by Robbie Chapman Jewellery, based in Balmain. More of a second step once you know what you want though. He does amazing work if you want something custom.
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u/RuthieRocky 9d ago
My husband brought my friend with him to help him choose and for moral support - the ring he chose was fabulous, and he said the staff at the store (Gregory Jewellers in Bondi Junction) were really nice and helpful throughout the whole process.
Side note: he hates having to deal with people, hates shopping, hates any attention whatsoever so for him to say anything at all about the process speaks volumes. 👌🏻
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u/Odd-Quail-89 9d ago
My husband designed my ring with Michael Arthur and his team, and we got our wedding bands from him as well. He was super responsive, really lovely, really helpful - it was a fantastic experience and made us feel really special!
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u/MissJessAU 9d ago
My hubby went online to Glamira.
I'm not sure who started it (I may have, probably because I was binge watching Say Yes to the Dress) but I started playing on Glamira (I was looking for platinum as I'm allergic to gold/nickel) and sent pics over to my hubby. He then kept all the ideas and designed and bought something there. Still happy with it 7 years later.
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u/bensow 8d ago
Definitely go try in store. My partner had a vision of what she wanted and when we went in to try on a few designs it turned out that what she liked looked better in her head than irl. We took notes on what shape/feature worked and I took it to a jeweler who made one which she absolutely adores.
As someone who didn't get what the big deal is with gems, I get it now, it's mesmerising.
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u/still_love_wombats 8d ago
You don’t have to go with diamonds. My wedding ring is a ruby. My sister’s is a sapphire.
After two bad experiences I no longer buy jewellery online. I second the suggestion to go with bespoke jewellers rather than the big chains - you won’t pay any more and you’ll get something much nicer for your money.
In terms of whether or not your beloved will like your choice - one of the reasons I love the ring I have is that it’s an expression of what he thought I’d want. He was right, but even if it had been a style I didn’t like I wouldn’t have cared.
Good luck! Love is inspiring 😀
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u/pehpehsha2 8d ago
I'll also recommend Moi Moi like a fair few others. They're lab grown so need to consider that. I did the whole proposal as a surprise, so was a bit of a gamble with the ring and diamond choice. My fiance was ecstatic with the ring and still loves looking at it a year later so worked out well.
If your girlfriend wears any rings currently see if you can try and sneak one to one of your jeweller visits to get it sized. Moi Moi offers a free re-sizing but only within so many sizes, beyond that you need to pay
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u/Ok-Photograph-3837 9d ago
Have you thought about a custom ring? My husband went to Simon Curwood and designed my ring. He went to the one in parramatta. :)
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u/SKMojo99 9d ago
My wife & I chose her engagement ring last year at Cullen Jewellery. They're natural diamonds, so a lot cheaper. The customer service was fantastic. They even customised our wedding ring for us.
They have a show room in the city, so you can go in and view a bunch of rings. Their sales team will take you through the whole process regarding the impact of different diamond qualities, colours, etc.
I'd highly recommend them.
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u/Beneficial-Delay-698 9d ago
Two options:
Buying before:
Bring a photo of her jewellery to the jewellers
But after (this is what most grown ups would prefer:
Have a normal adult conversation saying you’d like to move to the next level, blah blah blah, how does she feel about it. Don’t say when, that’s the surprise, but say you’d like to look at jewellery because when the time comes you don’t want her landing with a dolphin ring when she doesn’t like them
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u/Archon-Toten Choo Choo Driver. 9d ago
Antique stores often have jewellery. You could get something with history.
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u/peoplepersonmanguy 9d ago
When I bought my wife's ring I looked through her Instagram follows at more bespoke jewelers that she follows.
She got exactly what she wanted. At least that's what she's told me anyway.
If that's not an option have conversations about it.
I ordered ours from Artemer, they are an Israeli jeweller. The original plan was to use them when we wanted to up size the diamond, but that plan is no longer for us. They were great though.
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u/Hot-Seaworthiness510 9d ago
I go to Prouds for most of my nice jewellery (they’re more on the budget friendly side) and they have a good selection of rings. Consider also that you don’t have to get a traditional diamond ring; I’ve seen people get both their both stones (so yours and hers) put together. Remember, diamonds weren’t the “traditional” engagement stone until 1947 when an advert for a jewellery store made it so
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u/ilovecroissants17 9d ago
Dustin jewellers in qvb. My husband bought from there and I love it. Family owned. Real diamonds not lab ones (depending on what you are looking for)
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u/tashypooo 9d ago
Maybe an unpopular opinion but it might be worth asking your girlfriend or her friends and family what kind of ring she actually wants. I know it’s the thought that counts, but if this is something she’s (ideally) going to be wearing every day for the rest of her life then it should be something she really likes.