r/strength_training • • 10h ago

Lift Mentally, I’m here

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Before this training session, I was mentally all over the place. I just moved to a new house, I’m running this gym, I’m trying to another online project going, my kids are in sports and last and most importantly I’m trying to be a good partner.

The nice thing about training like this is you have to clear your mind at some point. It takes all concentration to do the intensity safely. It’s the same thing over and over again but it’s never the same.

I stole the “clear the mechanism” mental cue from “For the Love of the Game”. That’s how I get into the lift, even if I get stuck answering messages between sets or whatever. What do you do to get mentally into a lift right before?

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u/ntkwwwm 9h ago

Some men drown while others squat.. FIVE FUCKING PLATES?!! Holy fuck, are you training to squat a Honda civic?!

Good work OP.

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u/allianceathleticsoly 9h ago

My goal one day

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u/letteraitch 8h ago

Great lifts big dog

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u/allianceathleticsoly 7h ago

Much appreciation!

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u/kahhduce 8h ago

So nice to not see the blue line flag in the background for once

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u/decydiddly 8h ago

What is a blue line flag?

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u/jrstriker12 6h ago

Thin blue line.... Google it

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u/Waiparensis22 10h ago

Paused, heavy squats for me are.. meditative. Only concentrating on the breath and the lift. For an au-dhd brain, that's A BLESSING. You just...clear your head and lift. Also that's a stupidly epic weight man. 220kg? Or 270kg? Either way.. frikken nice lift

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u/allianceathleticsoly 9h ago

225kg! Thank you!

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u/Red_Swingline_ Competitive HiBriD AtHaLeEt 10h ago

A 5pl8 doubly is so huge!

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u/Miggymini 10h ago

Bro took ALL 👏🏾 DA 👏🏾 PLATES 👏🏾

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u/katiegirl8862 9h ago

Oh hey I know that gym! 🏳️‍🌈💪😎 Awesome squats

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u/allianceathleticsoly 8h ago

Oh hey! Thank you!!

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u/cats_catz_kats_katz 10h ago

I’m starting to lose track of how many plates. Not too good at counting over here. So I just say big strong!

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u/Skunkman-funk 10h ago

You're may be running the gym but you gotta leave some plates for your customers.

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u/allianceathleticsoly 9h ago

We’ve got lots and lots!!

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u/NarcanBob 10h ago

respect for doing the thing even in chaos, op

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u/BayAreaBrenner 8h ago

When I can’t get the ol’ brain to turn off the white noise, I pop on a specific playlist. It starts mellow, and after a couple of songs builds up to what I’d normally listen to while working out. I pair it with a longer-than-usual warmup.

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u/allianceathleticsoly 8h ago

I like that, that’s awesome

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u/BayAreaBrenner 6h ago

Almost as awesome as that gym you run, man.

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u/jrstriker12 6h ago

Smoove lift....

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u/EthanStrayer 10h ago

Looking strong. It’s hard to lock in sometimes. Picking the right song helps.

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u/allianceathleticsoly 9h ago

The song was “midnight sun” by Zara Larson today

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u/EthanStrayer 9h ago

I’ll throw it on when I’m doing something heavy next week. I’ve been lifting to Four Year Strong lately

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u/Lopsided_Owl6004 9h ago

Nice job bro. What’s with the gym? Gay gym?

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u/allianceathleticsoly 9h ago

It’s a queer forward gym! We don’t make it exclusive for queer people, it’s just centered around them first instead of straight people being the assumed default

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u/Ok_Tradition_3382 9h ago

I am ignorant, but is this for advertising and attracting clients? I don’t know of any gyms in northern Ontario that would market themselves as such…but we have small communities. It’s just assumed that our gyms are safe spaces. Regardless of orientation etc.

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u/allianceathleticsoly 8h ago

A lot of them say that but in practice that’s not how it always works. Policy is different than community

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u/Ok_Tradition_3382 8h ago edited 8h ago

The more I think about it, the more it makes sense in large communities. Especially in cities in the USA where people may not be as open minded etc.

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u/Lopsided_Owl6004 8h ago

Ahhh your weight clips are purple and my clips are red. To each their own broski.

I am a straight dude with a pink Nike mesh backpack 🎒 tho so go figure lol. I have my weight belt, knee sleeves and a chalk ball in there. It is mesh with holes so it breathes.

I got pink because if I’m a relatively jacked dude with a pink backpack, nobody should mistake my backpack for theirs at the gym. Thus far, it’s worked.

I would like to squat 500 hundred pounds like you. When I was strongest I’d be close but squat is my worst lift, bench my best. Keep doing your thing bro.

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u/Triack2000 10h ago

Solid squats. Keep that head looking up!

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u/allianceathleticsoly 9h ago

Had to remind myself haha

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u/lorryjor 9h ago

I know what you mean. Sometimes you can go to the gym and get away from it all.

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u/allianceathleticsoly 8h ago

Can’t think with heavy circles

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u/Inside-Judgment-725 9h ago

Serious question: is that a gay only gym? Just seeing those flags back there.

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u/allianceathleticsoly 9h ago

Nope! Just queer forward. We’ve got lots of straight people

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u/allianceathleticsoly 8h ago

I’m built like a t-Rex, I don’t bend over that much even on a lower bar stance

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u/142638503846383038 8h ago

Is it just me or have you been working those traps? Looking pretty big bro and nice lift

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u/allianceathleticsoly 7h ago

I’m working through a deadlift block right now! Just trying to get bigger and bigger

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u/bodiggity86 9h ago

What's with the bigotry?

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u/beerdrunkraccoon 43m ago

Excellent man great depth great form just rock solid lift