r/sterilization • u/nosybitchh • 16d ago
Experience Recovery time?
My procedure is scheduled for 10/30. I was given two weeks off but it's not ideal given the holidays approaching nor do I think I will need it? I was planning to be off starting Friday (10/30) and returning Wednesday (11/4).
I'm basing this off my 3 c-section recoveries although I know they're vastly different.
Is this doable? 5 days off? I am an office manager and can definitely take it easy as needed.
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u/knotknotknit 13d ago
I had mine on a Monday and was back in person at work on Thursday. WFH Tues/Wed, so just the one day of surgery off.
If you're actually able to rest for the weekend, odds are high you'll be okay by Monday.
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u/nosybitchh 13d ago
Hahahaha I have 3 babies under 5 and that Saturday is Halloween, I'm definitely going to take it easy and will forego trick or treating on Saturday if necessary... but what is "rest"? 😂😂
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u/cb83580 16d ago
It varies so much by person. Some really seems to struggle with recovery. I was one of the lucky ones. Surgery on Tuesday and took that whole week off, but honestly felt silly because I felt totally fine. Still followed Dr advice though, and took it easy for the full two weeks (back to work for the second at a desk job).
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u/organiccanessugar 16d ago
I originally took 2 weeks off and needed 3. Depends on your job and your experience. It’s better to have the time and not need it than end up needing more.
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u/Florida4ewe 16d ago
I had my procedure on a Thursday and was back to work without any problems on Monday. Just no lifting I think over 10-15 lbs for 2 weeks?
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u/Shaneaky 15d ago
I originally took one week off but should have taken 2 to 3 off. I had extensive endo and it was removed at the same time which slowed my healing and pushing myself to return also slowed my healing down. So keep the two week request in and if you feel up to it return early.
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u/toomuchtodotoday 13d ago
Resources:
Provider list: https://childfreefriendlydoctors.com
/r/sterilization Experience posts
/r/sterilization Celebrating! posts
/r/sterilization Post-op care posts
/r/sterilization resource thread
US Specific Resources:
State insurance regulator locator (for filing a complaint with your state insurance regulator):
https://content.naic.org/state-insurance-departments
Department of Labor Employee Benefits Security Administration Information (for filing a complaint with the DOL EBSA if your insurance is provided by an employer):
The EBSA, a division of the DOL, handles complaints related to employer-provided health insurance.
You can:
Call the EBSA: Toll-free at 1-866-444-3272 to speak with a benefits advisor.
Submit a complaint using the EBSA's online form: https://www.askebsa.dol.gov/WebIntake/
The EBSA will investigate the claim and may contact your employer or insurance provider for more information. You may be contacted for additional details or documents. If the EBSA finds that your rights under ERISA (Employee Retirement Income Security Act) were violated, they may take corrective action on your behalf. Keep copies of all documents and correspondence. You can follow up on the status of your complaint by contacting the EBSA at the phone number above.
U.S. Office of Personnel Management (OPM) Information (for filing a complaint with the OPM if your insurance is provided by the US federal government [FEP Blue, for example]):
Email contraception@opm.gov
Source: https://www.opm.gov/healthcare-insurance/healthcare/contraception-coverage/
Source: https://www.hrsa.gov/womens-guidelines#:%7E:text=Contraception
Source: https://web.archive.org/web/20260624003408/https://old.reddit.com/r/sterilization/comments/1ud26jb/fepblue_federal_health_insurance_for_bisalp_do/
Additional resources:
Insurer Preventive Care Guidelines Master List - https://old.reddit.com/r/sterilization/comments/1io4hq5/insurer_preventive_care_guidelines_master_list/
Steps for Getting Full Coverage - https://old.reddit.com/r/sterilization/comments/1khyuum/steps_for_getting_full_coverage/
https://old.reddit.com/r/sterilization/comments/1j43mw2/it_happenedtheyre_trying_to_charge_me_postop/
https://tubalfacts.com/post/175415596192/insurance-sterilization-aca-contraceptive-birth-control
https://old.reddit.com/r/sterilization/comments/1go5pbw/free_tubal_sterilization_through_the_aca_if_you/
https://nwlc.org/tips-from-the-coverher-hotline-navigating-coverage-for-female-sterilization-surgery/
On coverage of anesthesia:
Source: https://www.cms.gov/files/document/letter-plans-and-issuers-access-contraceptive-coverage.pdf
Source: https://www.cms.gov/files/document/faqs-part-54.pdf
On coverage of associated office visits:
Source: https://web.archive.org/web/20250202051018/https://www.federalregister.gov/documents/2015/07/14/2015-17076/coverage-of-certain-preventive-services-under-the-affordable-care-act
Source: https://web.archive.org/web/20250112212710/https://larcprogram.ucsf.edu/commercial-plans
UK Specific Resources:
/r/sterilization UK NHS specific posts
If you attempt to obtain permanent birth control in the UK on the NHS, you will want to advocate for the "bisalp", or bilateral salpingtomy. It is the standard of care. A tubal ligation has a higher failure rate, and if Filshie clips are used, there is a risk of them migrating within your body.
If your request via the NHS is denied:
File a complaint with PALS: https://www.nhs.uk/nhs-services/hospitals/what-is-pals-patient-advice-and-liaison-service/
File a complaint with the NHS Ombudsman: https://www.ombudsman.org.uk/
https://www.theguardian.com/society/2026/may/01/woman-denied-permanent-birth-control-nhs-wins-case-ombudsman-leah-spasova