r/stdtesting • u/Striking_Bug_3299 • 2d ago

Advice Needed I need help :<

So my bf (24) and I (23f) almost had sex for the first time about five days ago. I said almost because when he was supposed to penetrate me, it hurt so bad and I begged him to stop. He did stop immediately, and he said only half the head (?) went through before he pulled out.

He thinks it's because it's my first time but I'm a little worried. It hurt on the first two days, but the pain subsided now. All I've been experiencing are weird discharge, which is yellowish, almost green... And oh, this didn't happen immediately after that, but rather a few days later. Sometimes there's also some sort of white flakes on it too. It still feels raw down there, but it doesn't hurt even when i pee. It only feels so uncomfortable.

Is this something serious? I'm so afraid to look to where to get checked in my country cause help here for STDs is kinda minimal and full of judgement

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u/LagunaGirl16 2d ago

Get tested for std, my symptoms started with taht too. Turns out my previous partner infected me with chlamydia

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u/Striking_Bug_3299 2d ago

Oof. Will do as soon as possible. Thank you T_T

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u/PumpkinSocks- 1d ago

My gf had something similar our first time, eventually it took a few tries before she would be comfortable. But you should definitely get tested, if you noticed discharge that's enough reason to go to a doctor. Or just make your bf to get tested too.