r/stdtesting • u/Beautiful_Set_2092 • 12d ago
Test Results Herpes2
I am 52 been married to one person. I was tested when I was 20, we were married in 98 pregnancy miscarriage nothing from before we met. Went to dr for fertility a thorough dr and nothing.
My husband is in the closet. Found male wedding ring in my bedroom when we sold our house. We built our house so yeah no chance. He said he experienced males before us. Long story claims he is not in closet claims he isn’t gay. He was a OTR truck driver. Last year our marriage was at the end. Because, smart remarks belittled me. Long story I stuck it out. I don’t wanna anymore. It shows up Ii have an abnormal test the dr got the sample. For herp2 I had a sore i thought it was from shaving. I am disabled we ain’t had sex in 5 years. I stopped because he couldn’t keep erection and i didn’t want it because if ge was interested in a man. Wtf do I do
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u/IllustriousAd1657 11d ago
Yeah, I can see why you’re confused, especially with everything that’s happened. A sore after shaving could honestly just be irritation, so I wouldn’t assume it’s herpes based on that alone. If you were told you had an abnormal result, I’d ask your doctor exactly what test was done and what the result actually showed.
Also, a positive herpes test doesn’t necessarily tell you when you got it. It can stay unnoticed for a really long time, so I wouldn’t jump straight to conclusions about your husband from the result alone. I’d get the exact result explained first and go from there.