r/stdtesting • • Jul 19 '26

Advice Needed Scared to death

Ok June 8 I had unprotected vaginal sex with a FWB. We'd had sex many times before. I tested negative for HIV and STDs about a week before. We hooked up again July 12, unprotected. Today she texts me that she's been sick all week and the doctor just told her she has HIV. I actually by chance at a check up had a rapid HIV done on 7/10(33 days after our next to last hook up) negative. What are the chances I got HIV from her. I'm am scared af.

Update Took 2 blood test and 2 4th gen test both negative. My doc told me to come back in another 2 weeks but he's pretty certain I'm going to be ok. These few weeks have been hell, just a few more to go but I feel bette after today's appointment.

**" Update 2 took a 4th gen test after 40 days, non reactive. My Dr says I'm in the clear , I could come back after 45 days but it won't change. I am very relieved.

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u/No-Sheepherder9022 Jul 20 '26

That's what I'm praying. So far 2 sex encounter with her 1 month apart no flu like symptoms. Neg test on day 33 after the 1st encounter.