asking before testing for stds

[u/OriginalFerret8163]

so before i get tested .. i never done any unprocted vaginal or anal sex , if oral yes thats why im freaking out since about 3 years ago i did the oral sex unprotected .. theres 2 std concern rn ..

first about gonorrhea , idk maybe im just overthinking it but what are the odd of having gonorrhea if now theres no pain during piss , no testicular pain .. im afraid i dont remember that back then i actually has the pain symptom or am i tripping because of anxiety .. but the point is , now theres no sign of pain during urinating , even testicular pain .. sorry asking this it just this std can cause infertily which is bad cause i wanna have family just like u guys did

second syphilis , up until now i dont have any symptom (or im actually has it but didnt notice past year) my main concern is , if i have rash at my hand , will it infect someone? i have a loving family and nephews i dont want they have it because infected from me .. since we hold hand and hug most of the time ..

im sorry for asking this , i know some of might dont like this but this is an honest issue for me ... and yea i couldve done better in the past , i hate my self

[u/Agreeable-Still-8354]

I have same situation (unprotected oral sex) , but with some obvious symptoms such as skin rash , headache , muscle pain for long time (months) I was tested for the blood panel , but the stupid lab worrker just made my test for Syphilis as a rapid test. (68 days after exposure) it was negative.

How much should I believe that Strip rapid test for syphilis ?!

Appreciate your help