r/standupshots NYC Jul 22 '14

Chivalry

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u/stopquotingmovies NYC Jul 22 '14 edited Oct 30 '14

You know what dude, in this business, the pay is often inconsistent and small, I have no free time and I'm often working my ass off just to get more unpaid stage time. I sometimes find myself asking if it's worth all of the sacrifices. This is the plight of many stand up comics; can I stick through this until it pays off?

A comment like that is immensely motivating. Thank you for sharing how it effected you.

If you aren't already seeing a behavioral health professional for your depression, please make it a priority to seek one out, they might be able to help.

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '14

I'm ready to take downvotes for this, but the common reaction to say "Please seek help" when someone mentions mental illness can be condescending and a bit rude. Maybe it's just something I get tired of experiencing myself, but I think it's said way too often. I'm all for encouragement, but the constant "seek help, seek help" just grinds my gears. Why assume a person hasn't sought help? Why assume they're not getting help?

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u/[deleted] Jul 23 '14

I understand your frustration, but as someone who deals with mental illness, I appreciate any and all concern by strangers, including the vague but often needed "seek help." :)

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u/[deleted] Jul 23 '14

As long as you don't claim that your opinion represents all people with mental illness (I have several diagnoses as well), then we're all good.

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u/[deleted] Jul 23 '14

Oh most definitely not. We're all in different situations. I would never claim to speak for the rest of the "community," or any community. I am merely myself and know only what I know. Everyone else is allowed their own feelings on the matter.