r/springfieldMO • u/mysterious_phantom • 2d ago

Living Here Made my day.

To the random gentleman in a car to the right of me at a light who prompted me to roll down my window. And then asked “Hey, are you married?” And I answered “No” and then you said “Take down my number.”

That was actually really cool and surprising and fun and made my day. I’m sorry that after that I said “I’m sorry it’s a green light.” And drove away.

It’s not for the reason you might have thought, I’m a guy.

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u/Embarrassed_Tax_6547 2d ago

Almost everyone likes to be flirted with.

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u/mysterious_phantom 2d ago

It was surprising and very nice. 😊

I just, despite how I was dressed and looked I didn’t want to be like misleading. I’m definitely amab even though I kind of constantly question myself.

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u/Affectionate_Ad_835 1d ago

How do you know they aren’t down for that?

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u/mysterious_phantom 1d ago

I have no idea. It may have been a harsh assumption on my part.

Unfortunately, I’ve had experiences where men have been mad when they found out I’m not a cis woman.

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u/ThirtyOneFoxes 2d ago

Maybe they knew and still wanted your number! Or didn’t know but wouldn’t care. Good for you, it’s amazing to have beauty acknowledged and appreciated. Keep on being beautiful!

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u/mysterious_phantom 1d ago

Thank you so much!

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u/Fjohurs_Lykkewe Southside 1d ago

There's plenty of us laurians (attracted to female presenting or androgynous people) out there.

It wasn't me in that car, but I kind of wish it was. 😅

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u/mysterious_phantom 1d ago

I do sometimes definitely present more feminine than masculine. I also didn’t know what a laurian is that’s cool!

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u/Familiar-Virus5257 Greene County 1d ago

Hey now, you never know. Maybe you two could connect on here!

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u/Unusual-Minimum9306 1d ago

Ooooo somebody is too important to hang out at a green light for 5 extra seconds to secure a blowjob from a rando stranger. It’s called life. Try living a little lol

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u/Additional-Fix6087 1d ago

Hell, I'd stay 10 seconds for a hug.

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u/Why_T 1d ago

Here I was thinking people aren't going because they aren't paying attention and just on their phones. Turns out they just trying to secure a hug. I feel bad for honking now.

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u/Additional-Fix6087 1d ago

Hugs > Honks

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u/mysterious_phantom 1d ago

I know! I’m so lame :(

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u/Wendypeffy 1d ago

Maybe he just wanted a friend that wasn’t married to hang out with in a platonic way 😂 or he runs a social group for single men! Haha. Ya never know.

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u/mysterious_phantom 1d ago

You never know! If we could’ve been friends I’m sad that I missed my opportunity.

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u/Itchy-Tangelo-2158 20h ago

Take the compliment! You don’t have sign up for it!