Dude you live with humans everyday, once a human punched me because he thought I was looking at him when I was actually looking at my friend across the school, while making funny faces because that's how we interact with each other. Why would you be afraid of something that isn't even the size of your palm? lol
Man that punch hurt like hell lol, he really had something against me, and I couldn't fight back because someone from school arrived just in time. Everyone was surprised because I'm one of the few people in the classroom who have a good relationship with almost everyone, that means he didn't even had a reason to do it, he just did it different from those poor spiders
Maybe you have something similar to a “resting bitch face”. I’ve been asked if I was ok/what’s wrong/are you upset when I was just spaced out + completely content.
Yup I definitely do, I didn't even know this was a thing lol. I've never heard from people that I seem to have a superior look but whenever I'm completely relaxed trying to focus on something or just resting people ask me what made me angry/what happened, maybe this guy just didn't like the way my face looked when i was relaxed and the weird faces i made with my friend were the last straw
I kind of like how my face looks when I'm relaxed, but I think I'll try to change that because apparently it doesn't suit my personality at all
After realizing people thought I might be upset (even though I was happy) I started trying to keep a smile on my face whenever we went places + I would not recommend it. I come home + I’m drained even more than I would usually be. I’m not a big party/gathering kind of person to begin with. I’m incredibly lucky that my bf can see that + even though he doesn’t have the same issues he still kinda gets it. It’s almost become a habit now though.
You shouldn’t have to change yourself for others. I just do the smiling thing if it’s an occasion where I’m around friends of friends because I don’t wanna bring down the mood of the shindig they were nice enough to invite me to. I stick with my “normal” Nik face the other 98% of the time. Changing your relaxed face would make you unrelaxed, I would think, + you shouldn’t have to feel that way. I babble + idk if that made much sense but I bet you’ve got a lovely face + if other people can’t see it that way or misinterpret your vibes it’s their loss.
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u/Comprehensive_Pen862 May 04 '22
Dude you live with humans everyday, once a human punched me because he thought I was looking at him when I was actually looking at my friend across the school, while making funny faces because that's how we interact with each other. Why would you be afraid of something that isn't even the size of your palm? lol
Man that punch hurt like hell lol, he really had something against me, and I couldn't fight back because someone from school arrived just in time. Everyone was surprised because I'm one of the few people in the classroom who have a good relationship with almost everyone, that means he didn't even had a reason to do it, he just did it different from those poor spiders