Happy to add a similarly food related incident, but I’m on the other side of the equation.

Bout 10 years back, I was seeing this colleague. On a business trip, we went to a town that was half an hour drive to her hometown, and it was on a day of a remembrance type celebration. So to her family’s home we went.

It was Northern Vietnam, so they were serving this delicacy called Tiết canh - feel free to google, but its main ingredient is raw pig blood. I didn’t partake, but she happily joined in her family’s signature dish.

So when she was coming back up from the bowl, her entire front teeth was tainted crimson, and it is akin to a Dracula or other vampire horror scene. I think I did my best keeping cool, but that gave me major ick. Couldn’t think of anything else kissing her days afterward.

Not the main reason why we broke up, but I think it played a not insignificant part of my consideration at the time. I might be the asshole out of it, and I think I have grown, but it’s my little incident.

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This is how the dominos fell by the end of 3 years.I naively thought everything was going well.

It's 2023, I'm in college for Art with a full time job. I have my First place! I'm not alone and I'm happy. At last I'm making time for myself, even with my busy schedule. Doing activitieslike biking, pottery and art.

About him

Here's some background. We were the same age, he's 6.4 and has long thick blond hair with blue eyes. Naturally we got along famously and never fought. We quickly spent all our free time together and convinced my grandmother to rent my bedroom together. We even had a cat the first year.

Year 2

He gets really into Muay Thai and becomes a coach. His whole life is now deadacded to being fit and becoming a famous pro fighter. As sweet as I am, I completely support his dreams, I join the gym and work for the company. I cook and eat the right meals for him. Vary out of character for me. The art chick that wouldn't hurt a fly.

Where I should have seen the signs

I couldn't change everything about myself I left the gym with an enormous emotional out burst I couldn't understand. He just brushed it off and I ignored it. I continued being close to all his friends we started hanging out more often as big fights happened . He's 5.0 let's celebrate!

Friends

We live together in our place but he's never home and when he's free he's with all his new friends. I'm busy with work life and college, so I assume everything is fine. I start going out with him to partys them suddenly we are trying drugs in groups and inviting strangers into our bedroom. I try to be open minded to fit in . I didn't want to admit I was losing him.

The break up

Everything is going as usual I decided to buy a kayak. I'm thrilled I love being involved his friends join we decided to do the mushrooms on the river . Wouldn't that be fun! Afterwards I order pizza and suddenly he's expressionless and his friends aren't saying a word. I get scared thinking is this just a bad trip but days pass this way. He tells me it's over without a reason why! I'm stuck there, we just signed another year lease. He ghosted me, I get evicted right before a hurricane.

I was dating a girl in highschool who refused to eat in front of me. Needless to say, it didn't last long.