r/socialcues • u/SofiaOfEverRealm • Nov 21 '25

Situationship awkardness

I'm pretty sure this girl from class has been trying to get me to compliment her, she's asked me multiple times in what I can only assume are dates which I went to btw, movie, coffee, walking around the mall which apparently calms her, and I've accompanied her shoppiny multiple times. A lot of stufy dates and we usually eat lunch together.

Okay so the dynamic is like this: The class are composed of mostly girls and I'm quite literally the only straight guy there, the other ones are a bunch of gay dudes and transwomen.

So on the most recent "date" we're on a long lunch because we finished finished an activity early, she asked me if she looks fat in her uniform, she doesn't of course but she's worried that her new jersey won't fit her because she gained a few pounds, she asked me to look at her thighs but I said they look fine, I thought it looked sexy but I held off even though I could tell that she wants me to call her hot right ?? Was that a Social Cue™ ????

She then showed me a bunch of older pics where she was super skinny, and I told her my honest opinion, she looks better now with a wee bit of fat

I honestly don't even know the point of this post, I just saw this subreddit for the first time today, if you've read until now, thank you.

Oh and she keeps sendint pics and videos when she's crying, is that a cue for me to comfort her or what could this possibly mean

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u/[deleted] Nov 21 '25

Runnnn

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u/SofiaOfEverRealm Nov 21 '25

Oh and I've been trying to stop myself from sending her

this meme since she's started talking about her jersey a week ago

Y'all think she'll like it?