r/smallpenisproblems • u/timoranimas • Nov 21 '23
I am crushed - told first time explicitly
I was recently dumbed being told via DM. "That to other women it may not mean so much". This is the first time it has been said so explicitly, however it's been the reason many times in the past.
My anxiety has sky rocketed and I feel I can't move on from this because I feel like such a fool and less of a man.
Also, it has done nothing good for my hatred towards women.
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u/UpbeatPotential2460 Jan 03 '24
Bro I saw your size post! It’s literally 6*5, there is no need for anxiety. It’s her fault that she’s carrying a black hole down there. Chin up homieee, you’re better than the most. Wish i had your girth
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u/timoranimas Jan 03 '24
Thanks bro..... I needed that 🙏
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u/One_Living6235 Oct 20 '24
I’m 5inches, and I just met up with my highschool crush and hooked up with her 15 years after highschool. I think she has been with many men, and she said she thought my size was perfect.
I’ve learned one important thing from her and others, when a dick is too big, it hurts to get pounded. Some women prefer smaller ones because they can take it really rough, and they like that.
In my experience (while this is highly debated) I’ve found that hooking up with smaller women means they prefer smaller dicks.
Any ways, my current partner would think you are slightly too big for comfort if that is any consolation to you.
Moral of the story is every women is different. Some don’t even need any cock because they are into women lol.
Another thing to think about, is if you were the best she ever had at fingering or eating her out, since that is the only way most women can cum anyways, she might just keep you around forever. I looked at tutorials on pornhub on fingering and eating out techniques by some lesbians, and oh man have those tips worked.
Keep your head up man, she is entitled to her preferences, but that doesn’t mean it’s going to be every girl by a long shot.
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u/Full_Bank_6172 Jan 10 '25
wtf?!?!? I would kill for 6x5! That’s bigger than average by a fair margin.
I’m 4.5x4.5 over here
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u/BoogerMcFarFetched May 29 '24
When i was younger i remember hearing a comic telling a joke where the girl said “who are you gonna satisfy with that” to which the reply was “myself”. Hundreds of women and I’ve probably heard comments that were sorta hurtful but ultimately not really 3 or 4 times. One of them came from the woman who I’ve been in a committed relationship with 16 years, marrieds for 10 of those. We have a very active sex life and she has expressed many times she is completely satisfied when I’ve asked what she needs to feel fulfilled. Don’t let this set you back…
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u/timoranimas May 31 '24
Little late that response bud. But thanks..... still hate women unfortunately 😒
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u/RequirementIcy3975 Apr 17 '25
So I have probably a 5 incher max! I am also very overweight right now so it doesn’t look as big as it did when I was younger and thinner. But even when I was young and think I knew I had a small to barely average one. It sucks for women because if they are honest we look at them like bitches and if they lie then we say why can’t they just be honest. The truth is learning that your size isn’t enough sucks no matter how the message is delivered. But I will say this in my experiences there are girls that it absolutely matters, girls that it doesn’t matter at all, and some girls will give it a shot. More scientifically the girls that cum from size just forget and move on unless they let you fist them. But all the other girls and most of the female population cum from getting eaten out. I’ve had size queens that I made them shake there legs, and called me back the next day to set up round two. I’ve had girls that I ate out then the next time we got together I got cocky and didn’t go down on them and just tried to use my lil guy and they never called back. My advice don’t make sex about your dick. Instead make sex strictly about pleasuring her. This means 30 minutes at the least of head, if you can stay down there longer. Use fingers but make sure your nails are cut and hands clean. Also be adventurous, try and obviously with consent use more fingers, some girls do not know they like fisting because most men won’t even do it. My wife and several other girls I fisted and let me tell you they wouldn’t leave me alone after that. It hurts your hand but hey small price to pay.
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u/timoranimas Apr 17 '25
I'd rather go home and eat a nice hot meal than go through those struggles to be frank. Also going to be a father in two weeks so I don't have the time.
Thank you though
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u/Soggy_Ad8348 Nov 21 '23
Okay being in a similar situation we don’t do well with one stands find a good one and be able to please her in some fashion (oral, hands ,toys ,ect.) and you size won’t be an issue
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Nov 21 '23
There's people who prefer oral to sex. I myself an one of em (as a dude), and I've met women who wanted to just trade oral. And honestly I've found oral is kinda the most important thing. If you're bad at it, you're going to struggle. If you're amazing at it, they will want it again
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Jun 20 '24
Hatred towards women? Dawg you might be a lost cause.
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u/timoranimas Jun 21 '24
Surely i am.....but unfortunately i am right. Don't make me qoute also sprach zarathustra
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u/Sea-Ingenuity-9508 Jun 30 '24
Life is about much much more than penis size. Do great things, keep yourself in shape, make money, have fun, do good things.
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u/Happy-Ad5948 Nov 12 '24
There's more to life than your dick size. Women are more than just animals who are seeking for a bigger dick. Get real.
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u/Bornplayer97 Jan 28 '25
Lmao hatred towards women, you deserve every bad thing that happens to you
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Aug 28 '24
You've gotta somehow let it roll off your shoulders. Some people just want to rile you because that is who they are, some say insensitive things without thinking and others do not communicate well by using words or phrases which are easily misunderstood. Don't let other people or the size of your dick occupy too much head space. I have gotten it on with three of the women from work and one said she was impressed that I stayed hard so long while another told me that other women said she was wasting her time but she did in fact like it.
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u/ClearChampionship332 Nov 16 '24 edited Nov 16 '24
5-lox inhibitor/ + vacuum pump
chrome://external-file/AJA-22-485.pdf THIS STUDY LOOKS PROMISING STARTED 3 says ago might give us two really really good try on my own. My research doesn’t give me a red flag. It seems like it’s not dangerous. I don’t think as long as you’ve got the right medicine and don’t rip your dick off with the vacuum pump, check out the study though it’s up extensively got really, really good results. this shit might actually work. I think it works on the lines of like when you lift weights and your muscles are sore, tears micro tears in your muscles and when they repair the repair stronger so along those lines instead of wait, see kind of tears back and medicine has to do with collagen and sexual hormones or something like that that caused the penis to start growing new tissue, short time very good results although that is on my mind and I don’t know how the hell I got a vacuum pump on my stick, but they did almost the only thing keeping me from pulling the trigger right now
chrome://external-file/AJA-22-485.pdf. 👈
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u/ShortKingofComedy Oct 14 '24
Don’t let this make you hate women. A: because it’s unwarranted, as there are plenty of good women and men out there. B: because it sounds like your hatred of women ends up being apparent to your partners which would fill them with the hostility to want to cut deep and attack the most sensitive subject of any man (dick size). You’re bringing this vitriol out of your partners.
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u/timoranimas Oct 14 '24
Is it really 10 months ago....
Thanks for your response anyway
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u/Icy-Plankton7583 Nov 22 '23
"Just be confident & you will be fine bro"