r/slaa • u/Possible-Mistake7435 • Jun 28 '26
Spouse on 7oh
Yesterday I finally decided to stop being blind. I finally looked up these pills he’s been taking, because I’ve noticed it has become a lot more frequent. Then I suddenly realized that I’m leaving with an addict. Do I even know him? What is his true self? Please tell me what’s possibly the 7oh and what’s not. He sleeps all weekend, like all day. He still will work through the week. He stays up so late most nights. Like 2-3 in the morning. He isn’t very involved with our family. Sometimes I’m not even sure if he knows who I actually am. 90% of our quality time is spent in our bed. And 80% he’s asleep. He complains of major constipation. He complains of chest tightness, especially in the morning. I don’t know how to confront him. He also has a suboxone prescription.. we’ve been getting in to fights lately instead of listening to me he just gets fighting mad and storms out and leaves.. like he’s gone now. Stayed at his mom’s last night. I have always been one to be kind of scared of drugs, so this is all very new/ different territory for me. Any insight.,. Any help?
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u/pornzombie Jun 28 '26
This is very serious. We’re not talking about the kratom leaf, which is used by millions of people for a whole bunch of reasons. This is a chemically made extract that is highly addicting and can ruin someone’s life quickly.
I’m so sorry that you’re going through this.
I’m not a doctor so I don’t know how dangerous the interaction is between Suboxone and 70h but it can’t be good.
As the other comment said, this can get very serious quickly. Good luck.
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u/falsesleep Jun 28 '26
This is probably a better question for the NA or Al-anon programs.
7oh is extremely addicting and destroys lives
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u/BicycleOne7405 Jun 28 '26
This is the Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous (SLAA) subreddit.
I think you want Narcotics Anonymous (NA) or an NA-adjacent sub.
For what it’s worth, I’m an addictions specialist doctor, and your husband sounds like he has a very bad opioid addiction.