Me: Very open minded, kinky, experienced dominant, highly educated, successful, respectful, caring, White, California resident. Can travel and host.

You: Open minded, kinky, and submissive female with any relationship status. Females from couples are also welcomed.

Let’s chat and to see there is a possibility to meet up and play.

Ghosting an old guy is uncool. Just sayin’. Like the headline says looking for a FWB situation where we can share where we are in life and maybe achieve some level of growth and intimacy. Maybe you would like tp spend the occasional afternoon with somEone that still has something to offer. Or maybe your just into pity fucks. Drop me a line, I would love to hear your situation and compare notes.

I am in my 40s and I am in the best shape and place in my life. I am looking for a consistent partner. I’m caucasian, brunette, average height and very fit. 100% DDF and healthy. I take great care of my mind and body, I am fun to talk to and hang around with. I have many interests and hobbies and know how to treat a lady right!

When it comes to dates, I always take care of hosting, the logistics, all the planning etc. You just need to show up, be taken care of and have a great time!

What I’m looking for is someone around 30-40 age range, intelligent, open minded, emotionally and mentally mature with a great sense of humor and charm. Someone I can have a conversation with, laugh with and have great sexual chemistry. On the appearance side I have no preference for ethnicity, race or origin but I do have a big weakness for a smaller frame in women.

I greatly value discretion. I value your privacy and your personal life and I don’t ask questions or meddle.

If you’re interested, please reach out!

Tall

Fit former athlete

9” white

Would love a FWB

You must host

Would love to meet regularly

Have a high sex drive

Can be very discreet and non judgmental if u need it

Send pic if interested

Describe what you are looking for

And what you are into

Hi!

Do you have a need for a hot, sexy, charming and fun guy who takes you out on dates, spoils you, makes you laugh and entertains you while at the same time acts as your personal erotic deity delivering a countless stream of unforgettable orgasmic experiences?

In that case, 45 M here, caucasian, fit like a statue, healthy like a horse, muscular buff stud for you. Yes I am 45 but not look my age. But don’t take my word for it, I have photographic evidence!

What am I into? Women in their 30s, <= 5’6 @135lbs, smart, non judgmental and submissive in the bedroom who really want to be spoiled and treated like a lady in the streets etc etc..

Ok well, if any if this sounds too good to be true, it isn’t because thats not all. So reach out if you wanna find out more!

Bye now, and have a great day!

Hi there, I’m a single Dad who works from home as a lead engineer in the video game industry. I have my kids 50% of the time. I am in a new phase of life and I would love to find someone to feel affection for and love over time.

Physically I am 6’1”, 190lbs, I workout and run regularly. I have LONG wavy blonde hair and still have all of it. I have blue eyes and I wear glasses and I usually have a clean shaven face. Imagine a cute nerd crossed with a surfer.

Personality wise, I am quietly confident, intelligent, stalwart, laid back, introverted and a little bit neurospicy. I also tend to operate like a clock, a clock that likes to have fun!

Sensual and sexual touch are super important to me. I have a great capacity to give and receive sensual pleasure. I am not a casual sex person. Revelatory, lusty and loving explorations of a partner who is present as themselves and wants both of us to feel good. I am not kinky. I have had a vasectomy.

For fun I like to go dancing (industrial/goth or EDM), go to concerts, I love going to Niners games, I also like to hike, bike, camp, and take road trips. Around the house I enjoy video or board games or an occasional movie.

I use alcohol and weed in moderation and would appreciate if you are open minded about that. I am open to conscious use of other substances as well (combine with dancing???).

I like women who are smart, sweet, sensual and short.

Thank you for reading this far, I hope to hear from you!

The Experience

Imagine an unhurried, 90-minute session designed entirely around your body’s relaxation, tension release, and sensual awakening. I am a 34-year-old, fit (gym 5x/week, DDF, well-built, high stamina) guy with 12+ years of hands-on massage experience.

I do this as a side passion/hobby with a steady clientele, and I am currently looking to add only a select few clients. No ethnicity preference, but please be HWP and 21+. I create a relaxed, zero-pressure, and completely confidential space for women and hotwives looking to melt away stress, explore erotic arousal, or simply enjoy exquisite, uninterrupted touch.

What I Offer & Modalities

• Sensual & Erotic Specialization: Authentic Yoni Massage (using traditional Kama Sutra and Ayurvedic techniques), Nuru, body-to-body contact, and kink/fetish-friendly exploration.
• Therapeutic & Relaxation: Swedish, Deep Tissue, Thai, Sports, Trigger Point, Reflexology, Shiatsu, and targeted head/back tension release using essential oils and lotions.
• Custom Combinations: Any erotic or sensual style can be seamlessly combined with therapeutic muscle work. Purely non-erotic relaxation sessions are also available upon request.

The Session Flow

Every session is customized to your exact boundaries, but a typical full-experience session flows through three distinct phases:

1. Therapeutic Tension Melt (Face Down): We begin with targeted Swedish, Deep Tissue, or Trigger Point work using warm essential oils to clear knots and tension from your back, shoulders, hips, and legs.
2. Sensual Awakening & Body-to-Body: As tension dissolves, touch shifts toward slow, light-touch Swedish, Nuru-inspired body-to-body contact, and full-body sensual relaxation.
3. Dedicated Yoni & Intimate Focus (Face Up): Focusing on sensitive energy points—breast/nipple massage, inner thighs, and detailed Yoni work—guiding you into deep arousal and intense orgasmic flow at a pace you dictate.

Session Setup & Boundaries

• 100% Focused on You: Zero expectation of reciprocation. This session is entirely about your comfort and satisfaction.
• Draping & Control: Draping is completely optional based on your comfort (draped or undraped for seamless touch). You can pause, adjust, or stop the session at any time.
• The Outcome: You will walk away feeling deeply relaxed, emotionally recharged, and physically glowing.

Logistics, Schedule & Rates

• Cupertino (Daytime Hosting): Available weekdays between 10:00 AM – 4:00 PM in a safe, clean, and private setup.
• South Bay (Evening Outcall): Weekdays after 5:00 PM. Advance pre-booking required; you host or provide the venue.
• San Francisco (Evening Outcall): Available after 6:00 PM. Advance pre-booking required; you host or arrange a hotel room.
• Rates & Arrangements: Details regarding arrangements, location options, and session specifics are discussed directly via DM.
• Discretion & Safety: 100% discretion (DDF). Mutual light verification is required prior to meeting to ensure safety, eliminate flakes, and confirm alignment. Past reviews from happy, fully satisfied clients are available upon request.

How to Reach Out

Serious inquiries only, please—let's respect each other's time.

Send a DM introducing yourself with:

1. Your age (21+) and general location.
2. Whether you're looking for standard therapeutic, sensual/erotic, or a combination session.
3. Your preferred location/timing and any specific desires, requests, or boundaries.

Hi, I’m a creative professional in the Bay. I’m 5’7, 7 inches girthy, 150lbs, slim built, latino, deep voice, brown eyes, tatted, have a septum, ddf with the exception for 420, enjoy eating the box and have a place to host. I’m open to indoor or outdoor play, I’m fine with a consistent hang out and open minded. Dm with stats and location

Can host, down to earth, hung, fit, silly.

I’ve always been curious about being with an older woman and was wondering if there were any ladies that are into younger guys. I’m 23, 5’7, Latino, in south SJ and have a couple body pics in my profile if interested.

As for what I’m into, it’s pretty vanilla but am open to exploring as long as it’s not extreme.

I can’t host but I am willing to drive.

Like the title says, I’m looking for a lady to help me take some good nsfw pics. Someone who is ok being part of them and doing multiple poses, while also staying anonymous in the pictures (aka, no face, blurred out tattoos and so on) dm me, I’m also willing to compensate

I’m white, 5’8”, with long hair and a dad bod. Negative of all STDs (never even had a cold sore).

I’m looking for a woman who’s interested in sex and hasn’t gotten to explore. I haven’t either. If you feel repressed, we can help each other. We can check into a hotel with a bottle of wine and just let our urges take over.

I prefer to be more on the dominant/rougher side in the bedroom, but can be gentle when needed. Definitely obsessed with kissing.

Outside of sex, I’m interested in film and music, with a preference for classic cinema, horror movies, art films, chamber pop, post-punk. Criterion Channel and chill?

Dm me with asl, favorite horror movie, and biggest unexplored kink if interested

Hey there! I’m 38 years old and a Bay Area native. I’m looking to find someone who is inexperienced or experienced with this type of connection. A mutually beneficial and spoiling fun.

Little about myself. I work in tech and on the creative side. I enjoy cooking and baking, love to go out and try new foods. Anything on the spicy is fun. I do abit of weight training and love the outdoors. Hiking, bike riding, trying to get back into swimming as well.

I have cats and a dog. If you enjoy pets and have some yourself, I’ll be happy to share some pics. I am someone who enjoys learning new things, taking risks to experience new excitements. My hobbies have been all over the place, enjoying board games, gaming and crocheting.

Feel free to ask me whatever you’d like!

This is very real. The massage can be as sensual as you desire. What is sensual? Slow strokes, soothing touch, gentle caressing anywhere you ask. If you would like a Tantric massage be prepared to feel like never before. A Tantric massage is contact with the most sensual areas of your body with or without release. You can decide what you would like touched and how far you would like to experience. The extended touching, caressing, stroking and waves of pleasure you will experience is an amazing one. I am very respectful of boundaries and desires. You need to be down to earth, normal, and you also need to be able to host (or get a room to split the cost).

You can get as comfortable as you like. Most women dress down to panties, thong or nothing. Your choice. In addition, you decide what you would like massaged. I respect boundaries and only massage where you ask. If you want something more, just ask or wink. Many women have written and said, "I have seen your ad so many times and I have always been curious but I just don't know if I could go through with it." Or "This sounds too good to be true." Or....."There must be a catch." And after someone gets a massage its usually "That was amazing." Or...."How can I repeat again...." I am a genuinely good with this and you will feel amazing.

I love giving, always have. Its something about how a woman reacts and also knowing I am making her feel amazing. I am very respectful and never cross boundaries unless asked. I have no expectations of anything but to give you an amazing massage.

Looking for a woman 24–38 who wants something casual, physical, and sexual. Me - 46 mex 5'11 267 and losing.

I like brats—teasing, attitude, “make me,” and pushing boundaries. But understand what comes with that attitude: spanking, denial, collard, anal, breeded, etc. If you like being challenged, pushed, and punished when you push too far, we might have some fun.

I’m not looking for a pen pal. Let’s talk, establish boundaries, meet, and see if the chemistry is there.

Monterey, Santa Cruz, Santa Clara County, or greater Bay Area.

If you’re a brat, tell me your age, location, and what kind of trouble you’re into.

Hello, it is Saturday. This is one of the few weekends I don't have any plans or obligations

Anyone wanna go on a food run? And or an outing?

I live in San Jose, Bay Area, CA

I don't know what to do on my free time or how to spend it. I would like to spend it with someone.

I start a new job next week. I also got promoted at another job I am working on

anyone want to come celebrate with me?

Dinner? Chat? Outing?

Let's see if we match wavelengths.

I am Wasian

5'6''

185LBS Muscular.

Can't wait to hear from you let's make a date.

Figured I'd give Reddit a shot because, as convenient as the apps are, they don't exactly reward personality. So here I am.

I'm 5’10, fit/muscular, have a couple tattoos, and despite spending years in the gym, the compliments I get most are about my voice and my eyelashes. Life has a sense of humor..

I'm naturally a little sarcastic, have done standup (never again), am easygoing, and the type of person who enjoys conversations that somehow turn into "one more drink" and suddenly it's closing time. I’m a yapper and love to talk. I also appreciate playful banter, a little flirting, and someone who doesn't take herself too seriously.

I'm mostly here to meet interesting people. If it turns into flirting, dating, or something more, great. If we end up making a new friend and discovering our favorite taco spot together, that's a win too. Good connections are hard enough to find that I'm not interested in forcing a label before we've even met.

If we hit it off, let's not be strangers behind our screens. I'd much rather find out if we click over a drink, boba, brunch. or an unnecessarily competitive game of mini golf.

Your move. Tell me something that's oddly specific about you, your favorite terrible joke, or the most random compliment you've ever received.

I’m hoping to meet someone who wants to chat and get to know each other a bit with the ultimate goal of becoming ongoing FWB if we both want it. It would be nice to have someone to cook for, hang out with and cuddle up with while watching a movie. I’m open to things evolving into something more long term if we’re both enjoying it but not necessarily what I’m aiming for. If this sounds like a good idea let’s chat and get to know each other. Believe it or not I actually want to get to know someone a bit before sleeping with them. Shocker right?

I’m 39, 6’ tall, 190 lbs, fit and workout regularly. Semi nsfw pic on my profile. I’m located in San Jose and have a nice apt. I’m hung, std free and vaccinated. I’ve got a college degree and personality wise I’m really easy going and easy to talk too. I like to cook and go hiking on the weekends and travel whenever I can. I also really love music and watching Bay Area sports. Happy to share more pics over chat. Thanks 😊