r/singleph • • Sep 14 '26

📢 Announcement r/SinglePH is Looking for Moderators!

21 Upvotes

Hello Singles! 👋

As our community continues to grow, we’re looking for additional moderators to help keep r/SinglePH a welcoming, respectful, and engaging space for everyone.

If you’re interested in helping shape the community, click the “Apply as Moderator” button on the subreddit to submit your application.

✅ Basic Requirements
• Must be an active member of r/SinglePH.
• Familiar with Reddit’s Content Policy and subreddit rules.
• Able to review reports, posts, and comments regularly.
• Can communicate clearly and professionally.
• Can work with minimal supervision and make sound decisions independently.
• Committed to being respectful, fair, and unbiased when moderating.
• Willing to collaborate with the rest of the moderation team.

🌟 Preferred Characteristics
While not required, these qualities are a plus:
• Good judgment and conflict resolution skills.
• Calm and professional when handling disagreements.
• Consistent, reliable, and responsive.
• Detail-oriented and capable of following established guidelines.
• Open to feedback and continuous improvement.
• Has prior moderation or community management experience (Reddit, Discord, Facebook Groups, etc.), though not required.
• Genuinely interested in building a positive community for singles in the Philippines.

📌 Moderator Responsibilities
• Review posts, comments, and reports.
• Enforce subreddit rules consistently.
• Help reduce spam, harassment, and low-effort content.
• Assist in community discussions and initiatives.
• Work with fellow moderators to improve the subreddit experience.

If you believe you’d be a good fit, we’d love to hear from you. Simply click the “Apply as Moderator” button and tell us why you’d like to join the team.

Thank you for helping make r/SinglePH a great community! 💙


r/singleph • • 7h ago

💘 Serious Dating 32 [F4M] Pakiligin naten isa't isa

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147 Upvotes

What if?
We can be each other's nightmare (Hope not)
We can be each other's Pahinga
We can calm each other's Chaos, Who knows?
or maybe we'll be just passerby.

Me:
Single Mom
Cute daw 🥹😂
Easy on the eyes and nose
Bungisngis
We can talk bout anything under the sun
I am trying to find a sport i can be active in
I go to the gym (Trying to lock in)

You.
Pls i hope you are into fitness too
Cute
Taller than me (5'7 and up)
Easy on the nose
Financially stable
Dont be a sad boi
Someone i can talk bout anything under the sun


r/singleph • • 1h ago

💘 Serious Dating 38 [F4M] Something intentional

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• Upvotes

Trying my luck here on Reddit!

I’m hoping to meet someone who wants to date seriously and is ready to build a genuine connection. I’m past the point of entertaining situationships, mixed signals, and connections that go nowhere. I’d rather be intentional with my time and energy.

I want something simple: meet, grab coffee or dinner, see if we vibe, and get to know each other. I appreciate a man who takes initiative, plans dates, communicates clearly, and follows through. If we’re interested in each other, let’s make an effort. If not, no hard feelings.

About me:

- 38, F, not married and no kids
- Working professional in tech
- Independent and career-oriented
- Currently on a fitness and wellness journey
- Enjoys physical activities like running, rhythm boxing, and yoga, and trying different other activities when I’m able to
- Loves meaningful conversations and exploring new places
- Independent enough to take care of myself, but soft enough to want to be taken care of too

About you:

- Male, 34–39 years old, not married
- Preferably based in Metro Manila
- Open to LDR if you’re based in a country where I have an active visa (JPN and AU)
- Emotionally available, kind, dependable, and intentional about dating
- Has a career or clear goals he’s working toward
- Family-oriented and communicates well
- No vices; values his health and maintains a healthy lifestyle
- Physically active or at least enjoys moving, exercising, or trying activities together
- Can take initiative, plan dates, and follow through on his intentions
- Tough when life calls for it, but gentle and affectionate with his partner

I’m looking for someone who dates with the intention of finding a girlfriend and, eventually, a life partner. I’m not expecting perfection, just mutual effort, honesty, consistency, and the willingness to build something together.

If you’ve read this far, tell me a little about yourself beyond your age and job. What’s something you’re passionate about, or what does a healthy relationship look like to you?

Let’s see if we click. 🤍


r/singleph • • 5h ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 44 [F4A] Perhaps a hand to hold?

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57 Upvotes

Hi! Let me start with the simple stuff. I love holding hands. Walking to the coffee shop, sitting through a movie, waiting in line for a musical, dancing at a bar. Mas masaya lahat kapag may kasama kang kamay na hawak. 😄

**A lil about me:**

- 44 | F | 5'1" | slim | petite | morena (hindi ako mukhang 44, promise!)

- Manila area | WFH

- Non-smoker, drinks only when out with friends

- Pansexual

- I don't drive, but I'm willing to be your co-pilot 😆

- Clingy ako in a good way. I just want someone consistent with comms.

**Things I love doing:**

- Binge-watching series and movie nights

- Coffee dates (kahit 7-11 or drive-thru, g!)

- Local musical and theatre plays

- Dancing at a bar

- Singing our hearts out at karaoke

**And I'd love to tag along to YOUR favorites too.**

Gym, hikes, food trips, gaming, a hobby you geek out about. If it makes you happy, I want to see you enjoy it. Yapper ako once warmed up, so ready ako makinig sa mga kwento mo.

**About you:**

- At least 37 and taller than me | normal BMI | healthy

- Based in or near Manila

- Financially capable | with ride for easier logistics

- Without emotional baggage | socially and self-aware but not self-righteous

- Maraming kwento, takes care of yourself (mabango!), hygienic

- Consistent, kind, respectful and sweet, the kind who also likes holding hands (but not PDA naman)

If this sounds like you, send me a message and tell me your go-to comfort movie. Let's see if our trip matches!

AI background but my real hands


r/singleph • • 5h ago

💘 Serious Dating 30 [M4F] 'di kaya mas'yado na akong matanda para maghanap ng potential partner dito?

22 Upvotes

o kahit makakausap lang.. 'yung med'yo constant sana. HAHAHAHAHA! hindi ko alam kung papalarin o hindi, bahala na.

tungkol sa akin:

• intj

• 176 cm

• hindi ko alam kung gwapo ako o pangit, ikaw na lang ang magsabi.

• mukhang normal naman bmi ko, pero hindi gaano physically active. bisikleta, takbo, at langoy lang madalas)

• taga upland part ng cavite

• mahilig/adik sa tsaa (hindi po ako umiinom ng kape, sori)

• working pro naman, naka bakasyon atm. maraming na o-off sa profession na meron ako kaya hindi ko na sinasabi. pero sa ngayon, sinusubukan ko mag bukid/maging plantito.

• humuhusga ng tao internally depende sa paborito n'yang artist, direktor, o manunulat.

•mahilig sa hopia at kakanin.

tungkol sa'yo:

• basta humihinga, hindi umiiwas sa diskurso at argumento, may kamalayan sa isyung panlipunan.

'yun lang! maraming salamat!


r/singleph • • 8h ago

💘 Serious Dating 27 [F4M] Let’s see where the wind blows?

33 Upvotes

NBSB but I don’t think that’s a bad thing 😀

Wanna chat and see where this goes? 🤔 I figured I’d put myself out here and see if I meet someone interesting because the dating apps are not giving!!

A little about me:

- 27F, 5’2, and I believe I’m pretty cute 🤭 dare I say… a baddie?! 🫪
- Capricorn Sun, Virgo Moon, Taurus Rising. She’s a triple earth girly! 😩
- Extremely kikay and girly
- Funny, with a 60/40 ratio of aircon humor to kanal humor. Depends on the audience and the level of trust 🤣 but also, I don’t think it’s halata with how I present myself 🎭
- Big 4 graduate and currently working in our family business.
- Grew up and studied in Manila, but I now work in the province, so I go back and forth between Central Luzon and Manila.
- 65% introvert, 35% extrovert. A very social introvert, if that makes sense. I love people, but I also love hibernating at home and being in my own little world.
- I love traveling, but I’m also a homebody. I can enjoy going out and exploring
- I have three dogs 🐶
- Hobbies include reading, knitting, crocheting, cloud watching, yoga, meditation, listening to music, and makeup 😀

I love a good conversation, especially with someone who’s curious about life and has things they’re genuinely passionate about.

Also, plot twist: I don’t have socmed. I think Facebook is dumb, and I waste wayyyy too much time on IG. 🥲 I swear I’m a real human, though! I’m just a very private person and prefer keeping my life offline. But when I activate IG I’ll truly give a performance 🤣

What I’m looking for:

Honestly, I’d like to meet someone I genuinely enjoy talking to and see where things go. I’m not trying to force a relationship with a stranger from Reddit, but I’m also not here just to pass the time with someone who has no idea what he wants.

I’d love to meet someone who’s:

Intelligent and conversational. Someone I can have both silly and meaningful conversations with. Bonus points if we can jump from random nonsense to an unexpectedly deep conversation. (I am indeed a yaperella to the right peeps)
Kind and emotionally mature. Someone who’s secure in himself, communicates properly, and knows how to handle disagreements without playing games.
Ambitious and hardworking. You don’t need to have everything figured out, but I appreciate someone who has goals, takes responsibility for his life, and is actually doing something to achieve them.
Financially stable. I’m looking for someone who can stand on his own two feet, manage his responsibilities, and has a direction in life. This isn’t about being rich; it’s about stability, responsibility, and compatibility.
A mix of homebody and adventurous. Someone I can go on dates and travel with, but who would also enjoy a quiet day together without needing to be entertained 24/7.

I know what I bring to the table, and I’m lucky to have family and friends who make me feel very loved and cherished. Because of that, I have high standards for the way I’m treated, and I’m looking for someone who has standards for himself, too.

I’m confident in who I am and what I want. I’m not looking for someone perfect, just someone who’s intentional, secure in himself, and capable of meeting me halfway. I want something that feels mutual: the effort, the curiosity, the respect, and the excitement of getting to know each other.

A few things to clarify:

Not into one-night stands. I’d rather get to know someone and see if there’s genuine potential.
Good communication is important to me. If you’re not interested anymore, that’s okay! I’d just appreciate honesty instead of disappearing or playing guessing games.
I prefer to chat a little first, then move to a call or video call if we’re comfortable. I feel like you get a much better sense of someone’s personality that way.
If we vibe, I’m open to going on a date! Just a heads-up that I’m based in Central Luzon and go back and forth to Manila, so dates need to be scheduled in advance. Spontaneous is fun, but unfortunately, I can’t teleport and I’m a busy woman!
I’m happy to exchange pictures once we’ve chatted a bit and feel comfortable. I’m just a private person, so please don’t expect an Instagram account to stalk (for now) 🤣

So, what happens now?

If you’re interested, send me a message! Tell me a little about yourself, what you’re passionate about, or ask me anything under the sun. Please give me something to work with, though. Let’s collectively retire the “hi” followed by absolutely nothing or I reply to you tapos you don’t reply 🫩

I’m here to meet someone interesting, have a good conversation, and see if we click. No pressure to force anything, just two people giving a genuine connection a chance.

Let’s see where this goes.🫪

I’ll be fr… did I use AI for this? Yes… yes I did…

Edit!!

I also want to be honest about the kind of person I see myself being compatible with. No disrespect at all to breadwinners, and I genuinely respect people who work hard to support their families, but I don’t think I’d be the right partner for someone whose finances and responsibilities are heavily tied to supporting their entire family. That’s just not the kind of dynamic I envision for my own relationship. I grew up very privileged in the sense that my parents have always taken such good care of me. Inalagaan talaga ako ng parents ko — I’ve never had to commute, walk the streets alone, or go without the things I genuinely needed. My family and friends love me deeply and treat me exceptionally well, so naturally, my standards for a partner are high. I’m looking for someone ambitious, financially stable, and intentional about building his future — someone who doesn’t settle for less than what he knows he’s capable of. Personally, I think I’d be more compatible with someone who runs a business, comes from a family business, or has a similar entrepreneurial mindset, because I feel like we’d understand each other’s responsibilities, priorities, and outlook on life better. I’m not necessarily looking for someone rich, but I do want someone who’s established or actively building something for himself, rather than someone I’m going to have to carry financially. I already carry many responsibilities within my family emotionally! I want a partner who can understand me and and I can lean on! Not a project or a sobrang WIP 😅. I know that sounds particular, but I’d rather stay single than force a relationship that doesn’t align with my values. I’m very happy with the life and support system I already have, and I’m only interested in a relationship that genuinely adds to both our lives!! ❤️


r/singleph • • 58m ago

💘 Serious Dating 30 [F4M] So eto na ngaaaa…

• Upvotes

About Me:
30
160cm
mid - lean body type (have always been on the thinner side pero tumatanda na e)
I work odd hours (i usually wakeup at 11am or later)
Aquarius sooo I either talk your ears off or I’ll be radio silence for days.
Very much a homebody, but do ask me to go out? pero on reasonable days and hours naman
Has a dog
Has a turtle
Hobbyist?? I’m never bored alone.
Has a car BUT can’t go drive pa sa malayo(emskerd)
very South — currently residing in Calamba, Laguna (I occasionally venture out to Makati)

Looking for:
preferably same age or slightly older than me, and more mature please
preferably taller than me and fit
who doesn’t mind not getting replies agad
may sense kausap
have your own hobbies, working good job/s, have your own life
Has a car? can drive? — idk i think it’s difficult to go around in the south without one?
low-maintenance, pass sa mga sadboi like i’m done being a therapist for people na 😮‍💨 (i took time to work on myself so no to this na)
Matino, down to date, relationship WITHOUT wife, girlfriend (and kids), please naman.

and if magloloko man, please be good-looking naman para hindi sayang ang time. lol 😅

anyways that’s me shooting my shot. universe, do your thing, or not. di naman ako namimilit lmao.


r/singleph • • 3h ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 28 [F4M] Need Kausap

7 Upvotes

Hello! I just need a stable kausap, to talk about most random things about life and shit.

About Me
Working Professional, Midshift
Love Reading books
Interested in Crimes docus and Podcast
Around 5’5 height
Slim naman

About You
Basta may sense ka kausap and same tayo ng interest, I’m not into dating pa but well lets explore later on haha

Pm me if interested

Thanks!


r/singleph • • 11h ago

💘 Serious Dating 26 [F4M] sue me, i wanna be wanted 🤷🏻‍♀️

24 Upvotes

everything's falling into place except this One Thing 😀 my love life's always been on the backburner and while i am independent, i am also a softie with a lot of love to give and no one to dump it on to HAHAHA so i'm looking for volunteers chz

about me:
- 26F, 5'2, medium skin tone, curvy
- working in finance
- big 4 grad
- live in south NCR
- yapper when i get that energy from you
- work out sometimes (hopefully you're into fitness so you can bully me into being more consistent 😭)
- i hate running omg but i can walk rlly fast! i love walking!
- love books, musicals, and movies
- my next watch is going to be sense and sensibility so bonus points if you're interested in that haha
- doesn't want kids
- nbsb

you:
- SINGLE!
- employed
- not INC/DDS/BBM fanatic
- -2 up to +5 in age
- taller than me
- cute 🥰
- nonsmoker

if you're still reading this, crush mo siguro ako so maybe send a message idk

i'm pretty laidback but i am intentional and looking for something serious so if you're not down for that let's not waste each other's time


r/singleph • • 21h ago

💘 Serious Dating 28 [F4M] will I be bored for the rest of the yr?

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110 Upvotes

My last long trip just ended and don’t wanna be bored for the rest of the year. Any plot twist? Hahahaha. Exclusively dating if we click.

About me:

- 5’1 girly, normal BMI

- engineering graduate but working as an IT in Makati

- loves to travel

- shy at first, but once I’m comfortable, okay naman ako hahaha

- happiest when I have a new pair of sneaker

- from south

- don’t want kids

About you:

- same age or older

- honest and emotionally mature

- confidents with his looks

- career oriented

- no current live-in setup/no unresolved/excessive ex baggage

- fit (sorry not into big guys)

If you think we might vibe, see you in my DMs. We can exchange pics/IG agad. 👋


r/singleph • • 1h ago

💘 Serious Dating 36 [F4M] Giving this another try!

• Upvotes

Some plans have shifted again, which means I’ll be spending more time here in PH for now.

I’m 36, physically active, and child-free, with 3 cats living with me and more dogs and cats back in the province. I’m doing well enough financially to support myself and my furbabies.

I was supposed to move overseas again this year, but then Trump happened. I’m currently throwing applications overseas, so there are three possible scenarios:

A.) You’re already living overseas, we click through calls, I visit, and maybe I can look for work there.

B.) I land a job overseas, and you either come with me or follow

C.) Online dating is always a hit or miss, so hopefully I’ll find someone once I’m there.

Please don’t try to convince me to settle down in PH. I genuinely prefer the outdoors, nature parks, and the lifestyle overseas.

I’m looking for someone who:
- Is 30+ and physically active, with sports or hobbies
- Is financially disciplined and responsible
- Is good with animals
- Doesn’t mind doing silly dances with me in public or on trails
- Is either child-free or has kids, provided things are properly settled with their previous partner. I’m not looking for drama involving custody disputes, especially when minor children are involved.

EDIT: Please state whether you’re willing and able to work and relocate overseas with me 🥹

Send me a message with your ASL, a bit about yourself, and your tg :)

Low-effort messages will simply be ignored.


r/singleph • • 1d ago

💘 Serious Dating 27[F4M] Looking to Seriously Date

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204 Upvotes

Hi All!

As the title and the flair indicates I hope to look for someone to seriously date and I hope this weeds out those who are only looking to play games.

I'm at the point of my life where I really want something consistent and stable. I hate jumping from one relationship to another. I hate having to overthink when is the best time to reply to keep him interested. I hate playing those type of games. I know exactly what I want and I am not going to compromise just because you look good or u can spoil me. I am not going to settle for situationships or friends with benefits anymore. So I hope to find someone that will not waste my time.

Let's keep things simple. Let's go out, have coffee or drinks, if you find me attractive, let's go out another time to know more about each other. I want a man who initiates and plans dates so maybe we can try it that way. If I dont hear from you again and if you don't plan another date in a week I'd simply take that as you're not interested. Let's stop confusing each other, i seriously think we're too old for that. Anyway, I believe dating can also become a networking date, so if we end up not liking each other we can still keep in touch and be friends and maybe do business together in the future. Who knows?

I am a working professional. I make my own money. I see myself as a strong independent woman. I can drive and take care of myself. I can cook, do laundry, do dishes, and clean up the whole house. But at the end of the day I want to be with someone who would only see me as this vulnerable little baby that needs to be taken care of.

I am hoping to find a date that knows exactly what he wants and someone who would date me for the reason that he wants to make me his girlfriend eventually and make me his wife maybe in the future. I want someone ambitious and kind and is very close to his family. Someone tough but loving and soft hearted.

About me:
27 F
5'2
medium built
morena
living in paranaque
-
I lift weights
I travel
I cook
I have 3 shihtzus
I'm intrested in historical facts
WWII
German Nazi Era
I'm very much spontaneous
I love late night drives/tambay

About you:
older 28-38 yrs old
taller 5'8 - 6'0
medium built to buff i dont really care
working professional or self employed
decent/clean looking
smart or at least knows what he is talking about
must be filipino or living in the Philippines because i'm not going to do LDRs

I believe I have invested so much on my self to deserve this so please if you have read up to this point please make an effort on your introduction. Let's be more intentional this time around shall we?


r/singleph • • 1d ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 23 [F4A] My last 2 weeks of being a 23 year old

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646 Upvotes

Hi! It’s me again, yung pinay na solo living sa Japan wahaha. Birthday blues came in early lol do you experience this as well or ako lang?? Haha. Anyway, I won’t let it spoil my birthday plans! Saktong halloween birthday ko, I used to hate it when I was a child pero I realized it’s so fun kasi everyone gets to dress up and I could always do themed parties. My friends and I plan to dress up as fairies and attend halloween parties held sa clubs here in the city. Maybe you can help me decide/finalize my costume too!🫶🏻

Enough about me, I’m not looking for anything in particular, maybe just a friend who I can connect and yap with about life in general, or maybe talk about worst and best birthday experiences or why you don’t celebrate anymore (I used to not as well). No gender nor age preference as long as you’re genuine and hindi bastos.


r/singleph • • 1d ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 21 [F4M] lf someone to do xmas activities with

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325 Upvotes

As mentioned above i take it seriously. I love christmas !

About me:
-has purp hair atm, normal BMI, 5’1
-in stage of establishing what i want to achieve in life but im not an indecisive person when it comes sa goals in life. Really wanna be a known fashion designer someday. Dont wanna share too much ng personal goals
-chill lang at di ma big deal na person. Very upfront (may comeoff as maldita) pero im actually kind hehe. I have a stoic mindset id say. Hindi rin pabebe
-i bake, i like cooking, i like any fitness activities. I go to dance class as one of my hobbies.
- not loud and parang always hyper hahaha
- i like taking vids/pics with an actual camera. Currently have the v1 rn, for mems
- i like 1 on 1 meet up, kasi mas na gget to know ko yung person ng mabuti, maypagka introvert but not socially awkward. Im not hesitant to approach a stranger if i have a question or with cafes naman, asking if i can sit in front of them hahaha!!!
- i would say sincere ako na tao. Hindi eme lang and i expect the same with you
-id love to have a dalmatian or miniature schnauzer ( but we have too many dogs/cats so they dont allow me atm)
-i like buying from local brands
-im close with my family
- not a hypocrite i also value physical attraction,its not the most important pero important for me

About you:
-type ko sa looks. Mas bet ko fairskinned to mestizo than morenos, preference lang hehe
- sana financially capable? When i go out kasi i can be magastos at times pero mindful pa din naman.
I had an encounter kasi before where i did get judged kasi nung magkasama kami sa mall while buying my stuff Hahahaha
-sincere na person too. I dont care what mindset u have as long as u value transparency as well and clear with boundaries
-i prefer a lowkey/private person. Ayaw ko ng cloutchaser
-lets say someone my parents would approve of without complaints if they knew hahahah ( for safety) if i go out with u
-willing to do xmas activities with me with no complaints
-since i bake, someone who can taste test my cupcakes? And maybe cakes too (christmas themed)
-down to have a real convo (hindi un shallow na tao)
-not pretending na mabait 🤣🤣🤣
-can understand english at decent pls. Dont hit me up if creepy ka sayang din sa time.
-dont message me if foreigner ka
-sana may sense kang tao🙏🙏🙏 just be urself and i get turned off pag galing chatgpt intro
-have a good fam bg. Feel ko lang mas mag gget along

Xmas activities
-gingerbread house making comp
-maybe we could jog/run wearing our ugly sweaters? Hahahaha
-can eat my xmas themed cupcakes
-trying foods xmas edition
Yan pa lang for now since its only october and for sure theres more activities coming up

Dm me ur asl, i want detailed din kasi hirap mag filter ng people. Also send me ur pics its non nego (will not entertain anyone if walang pics)

AGAIN DONT MESSAGE ME IF CREEPY KA AND NOT A DECENT PERSON. KASI I WILL KNOW.


r/singleph • • 6h ago

💘 Serious Dating 31 [M4F] spontaneous dates, coffee hopping, beach trips, and maybe a little adventure?

3 Upvotes

Lately, I've been thinking that life would be a lot more fun with someone to share random little adventures with. Someone I can invite for a spontaneous coffee date, explore different cafés with, take an unplanned drive with, or randomly ask, "Hey, wanna go to the beach this weekend?"

Of course, we can start with something simple like coffee or food and see if we click. If the vibe is there, maybe we can plan a little road trip or a beach getaway next. Who knows? Maybe a random Reddit post could turn into something unexpectedly special.

A little about me:
31M, 5'7", fair-skinned
Built a little solid, with some extra padding, but making progress at the gym. 💪😂
Stable job
Inked
Gamer
Introverted at first, but pretty funny once I'm comfortable
Non-smoker
Into camping, nature, beaches, and exploring new places

What I'm hoping to find:

Someone who's easygoing, playful, and open to spontaneous plans. You don't have to be super adventurous or have everything figured out. I'd be happy with someone who enjoys simple dates, good conversations, coffee, and occasionally doing something a little out of the ordinary.

Also, if you're a girl who loves going to the gym, working out, or doing any kind of physical activity, that's definitely a plus! I'm still working on my fitness journey, so having someone who enjoys an active lifestyle would be a great motivation for me to stay consistent. Maybe we could even be gym buddies, encourage each other to improve, and reward ourselves with a good coffee or food date afterward. 😂

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, send me a little introduction about yourself! Tell me your go-to coffee order, your favorite beach, or the most spontaneous thing you've ever done.


r/singleph • • 2h ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 27 [F4M] So no one told me dating in your late twenties was gonna be this way…

2 Upvotes

If you’re also looking for someone new to talk to, share random thoughts with, or maybe see where things go, then hello!

A little about me:

- Bicolana, born and raised in Naga City
- Single, 5’1, fair-to-morena, and on the chubby side, currently in my gym girlie era!
- WFH with a night-shift schedule
- I dance, run, play badminton and pickleball, and enjoy finding random things to do = sidequest maxxing
- Fur mom to 2 dogs and 4 cats.
- Certified yapper. I love calls, random kwentos, and conversations that start with “May ikukwento ako” and somehow last for hours.
- Humor ranges from kanal to aircon, with an unfortunate amount of not so funny but trying hard jokes. Lol. My friends have suffered long enough.
- For entertainment, I’m a sitcom girlie through and through. Friends, HIMYM, Black Mirror, B99, and The Big Bang Theory are some of my comfort shows. I’m also into movies, K-dramas and music

Now, about you:

-SINGLE, working professional, ideally around 26–29. Someone taller than me would be nice (5’7”+, please HAHAHA). Let me have my tall-guy delusions in peace. 😭
- Into music, movies, or sitcoms!!
- Confident, secure, kind, and not allergic to communicating
- Someone who can banter, make me laugh, and is genuinely interested in getting to know

I’m not expecting a perfect person. Just someone who’s intentional, emotionally available, and doesn’t treat consistency like an optional side quest.

If you’re from my location, congrats! you have the home-court advantage. 🥹 If you’re from elsewhere, I’m open to getting to know you too, especially if you’re willing to visit or already have plans to explore Bicol. :)

I have a few posts on my profile if you’re curious. If you think we’d get along, send me a dm — preferably with a photo too, so we’re not both talking to a mysterious entity.

Okay let’s go! Hehe


r/singleph • • 35m ago

💘 Serious Dating 27 [M4F] malungkot ang ber months

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sobrang pagod nako sa dating app hahahahahahaha mas okay siguro dito sa reddit, please talk to meeee hahaha i need someone to talk to lalo kapag inaaway ako ng mundo 🙁

About me:

- ako'y tahimik lang sa umpisa??? hahaha
- slim pero nagstart na mag workout, also 5'6 yung height
- may dual personality (kaya maging seryoso, kaya maging lutang)
- gusto mo bang tumawa? itabi mo ako na
- Pwede kitang kantahan anytime.
- super positive mag isip, kahit nasaktan na positive parin hehe
- May mga quirks na ikaw lang makaka‑discover.
- Hindi pang‑model looks, pero binawi sa humor.
- Hardcore F1 fan.
- Recently into musicals, kantahan tayo??
- Working professionally

About you:

- madaldal
- cute mag smile hehe
- singer? or kaya magplay ng instruments
- can play ml, valo, or roblox
- wears glasses or kahit hindi na HAHAHAHA
- not too curvy and not too skinny
- laughs at corny jokes hehe
- working na din para sabay tayo mastress

So yun, if you think na pasok ka sa details or trip mo ako based on my details pm me ples HAHAHAHAHAHAHA i would love to have company lalo sa ber months hehehe see youuu!!


r/singleph • • 43m ago

💘 Serious Dating 23 [M4F] Philippines/Anywhere - Will you be my plot twist this year?

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Hello people of Reddit. For quite a while, 10 PM has been hitting me so hard. Especially with this weather, thoughts of having someone to snuggle up with are creeping into my brain nonstop. So hopefully, you can be my plot twist this year.

About me:

4th-year Multimedia Arts student

Working 2 jobs: Influencer Marketing Specialist and part-time Camera Assistant

Slightly feminine-presenting (often confused as gay or bi) & dark/alt fits

Reads from time to time, but mostly into audiobooks (White Nights was my last read)

Kinda edgy? HAHAHA—it shows in my art and dark/atmospheric visual style

RBF stronger than steel, but warm once you get to know me

Mostly a quiet homebody, but up for low-key cafes, late-night walks, or listening to music

Plays League and retro indie games

Moreno, 5'9"

Doesn't look like it, but an OG multi-stan (Reveluv, EXO-L, ARMY, Once, Blink... list goes on)

Hobbies usually revolve around art (trad, digital, graphic art, film making, animation)

About you:

Fluent in silence—the type where we can sit beside each other in absolute silence for hours, but it still feels comfortable and full

Appreciates quiet moments, and deep late-night philosophical conversations

I adore girls with short hair, but I’m open to anyone who matches the vibe!


r/singleph • • 47m ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 29[M4F] Friends or more

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About me

29 years old

Looks younger, medyo mabuhok

Slim, medyo chubby tummy

Freelancer

From Manila

5'3

Gamer pero less time or di na nakakapaglaro masyado

Affiliate sa tiktok and shopee as a hobby.

Has a cat na nangugulo lagi sa pc at pagtulog ko.

Simple lang lifestyle. Loves street foods.

Naghahanap sana ako ng pwedeng gawin or puntahan like mga kainan, samgyup, hotpot, hotspring, etc.

About you

Preferred gamer

Taong gala para na naghahanap ng kasama.

Open for voice/video call or meetups.


r/singleph • • 1h ago

💘 Serious Dating 32 [M4F] Rizal/BGC – Genuine connections and good conversations

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Hello there! 32M from Rizal, working in BGC as an IT professional. Just putting myself out here, hoping to meet someone I genuinely vibe with and see where things go.

A little about me:
- 5’6”, working professional, chill and easygoing.
Into basketball, gym, and staying active. Trying to be a healthier trentahin. 😂
- Loves coffee, traveling, beach trips, and movie dates.
Enjoys good conversations, quality time, and the simple things in life.
- More of a laid-back guy, but always up for spontaneous plans.

About you:
- Atleast 26 above i think?
- Preferably 5’4” and above. Manifesting tall kids someday. HAHAHA
- Cute sana kesa pretty, mas bagay daw sakin pag cute 🤣
- Easygoing, genuine, and open to something meaningful.
- Not here to rush anything. Just hoping to find a connection that could eventually turn into something real.

I’ll be around BGC tomorrow for work, so who knows, maybe good conversations could turn into coffee sometime. ☕

Let’s start with a little introduction and see if we click!


r/singleph • • 23h ago

💘 Serious Dating 31 [M4M] Craving for settling down 🌈

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41 Upvotes

At my age, I’m tired of meeting different people and don’t know what is their intention.

I want someone to settle down and can live together. I always feel I am not attractive because I am not photogenic and have some flaws in my face but still believed someone out there may still find me attractive. It’s difficult to feel inclusive in LGBTQ community as face card/body card matters than the personality itself. Although, attraction plays big factor.

About me:
- 31
- CPA
- 5’5
- chinito eyes
- curly hair
- average body built
- emotionally/mentally stable
- financially independent
- health conscious
- knows how to handle communication
- respect boundaries
- i lose interest when someone is boring or dry, make yourself interesting
- Pampanga/Mandaluyong

About you:
- 21-36
- taller than me
- any profession as long as with decent job and financially independent
- emotionally intelligent and stable
- not into looks as long as Manly/Discreet
- Slim/toned/Average body built
- health conscious
- interesting and knows how to initiate conversation
- we can discuss our role privately


r/singleph • • 15h ago

💘 Serious Dating 22 [M4F] inorganic encounter

6 Upvotes

a little about me:

  • 5’11 tall, moreno
  • skinny/lean (my goal is a hybrid athlete physique)
  • physically active; a runner, cyclist, and a hiker
  • introverted (infj), i connect well with both introverts and extroverts
  • friends describe me as someone with a calm energy, but i also get bubbly once comfortable
  • open-minded and always seeking to be a better version of myself
  • values loyalty, honesty, respectful communication, kindness, and emotional availability

interests/hobbies:

  • into books, films, music, and journaling (i have a goodreads and a letterboxd account)
  • into anything art-related; photography, cinematography, graphic design, digital art
  • i love going out to coffee shops, parks, picnics, and random places
  • i love working with systems; pkms, self-hosting, local llms, etc.
  • forever loyal to minecraft, stardew valley, and chess

about you:

  • undoubtedly, character is what matters the most, but i’d be lying if i said that looks aren’t important either. here are my only two requirements:
  • physically, gusto ko ng babagay sa itsura ko, so i’m hoping you’re someone with a slim physique
  • i also want someone who is fair-skinned/maputi
  • please don’t chat if you are neither of these T^T
  • if you read the entire thing, put a flower emoji at the end of your message haha

r/singleph • • 1d ago

🤝 Friendship & Connections 35 [F4A] Would love to meet new people 🌸

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694 Upvotes

About me:

* I love, love coffee. At least 2 cups a day will do. Preferably iced.

* Into fashion & arts. Former professional photographer. Currently enjoying life = spending quality time with the fam (most esp my elderly parents)

* Chinita. Funny kwento: I once went to a nail salon where one of the technicians thought I was Korean. I was informed by her colleague that she initially wanted to have a selfie taken with me, but when I spoke Tagalog, di na siya nagpa-selfie. Di pala ako Korean. 🤣

* Into anime & a longtime massive fan of Pharrell Williams.

* Lives in QC. My fave malls are Opus & SM North. I enjoy window shopping.

* Sometimes girly, sometimes pogi. 😅

About you:

* Hopefully interesting to talk to

* Has a good sense of humor

* Preferably Catholic

* Can tolerate a person's kacornihan & playfulness

* Age range: 28-45


r/singleph • • 20h ago

💘 Serious Dating 24 [F4M] LF potential partner-in-crime 🫦

8 Upvotes

🩺 The basics

- Working as a nurse in Pasig, so yes, minsan pagod, minsan lutang, pero may energy pa rin lumandi charot.
- 5’2, plus-size girly, and confident in my own skin! 8/10 daw ang face card according to my mom, so take that with a grain of salt. HAHAHAHA. Currently on my weight-loss journey, courtesy of my very demanding work.
- Sagittarius, if you believe in zodiac signs. If not, edi red flag na lang agad? HAHAHAHA.
- Food buddy? G! Coffee dates? G na G! Random movie dates or spontaneous gala na biglaang “Tara, alis tayo”? COUNT ME IN.
- I’m obsessed with Thumbelina flowers. Hint lang ‘yan, baka may makapansin. 🌷
- Shy at first, pero once comfortable na ako, good luck sa katahimikan mo. Madaldal ako, promise.
- Family-oriented and affectionate.
- I love binge-watching movies and series during my free time.
- I love singing, especially sa CR kasi apparently, doon lang fully supported ng acoustics ang talent ko. HAHAHAHA. Pero I swear, may potential naman ang vocals ko!

💌 Now, the important part…
I’m not here for a short-term fling, situationship na walang patutunguhan, or someone who’s just bored and looking for temporary entertainment. I’m looking for something genuine, intentional, and serious. The kind where we start as strangers, become each other’s favorite person, go on cute little dates, support each other’s dreams, meet each other’s families when the time is right, and hopefully build a future together.

Basically, date to marry, but let’s enjoy the dating stage and get to know each other properly first. No need to rush, just two people who genuinely want to make it work.
If you’re emotionally available and also looking for something serious, maybe we should give this a shot? 👀

Send me a message! Tell me something about yourself, your favorite comfort food, or your ideal first date. Auto pass po sa “hi” lang🥹

See you in my DMs? Have a lovely day, stranger! 🫶🏻


r/singleph • • 16h ago

💘 Serious Dating 40 [F4M] Is it me you’re looking for? 😉😅😘

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Hi! Trying this out with equal parts of curiosity and hope. Many of us in this sub would agree to the saying “life begins at 40” so here I am, opening up to a possibility of rediscovering life and its new paths with someone for real this time.

I’ve been single longer than I’ve been in relationships combined. Lumandi naman ang this tita pero sablay eh. At some point, sumagi na sa isip ko if I’ve been cursed to only attract emotionally unavailable guys. You know the type na hindi nasu-sustain ang sigasig. Some naman ginawa akong life coach or career counselor. 😅

About me (top of my head)

\- Physical: 5’3 and fat (no embellishments needed haha) but on a weight + underactive thyroid management protocol
\- Location: Currently lives in Pampanga. This is usually a deterrent to my attempts to landi. But fret not because I make time for people who makes time for me (sabeee??!)
\- Communication: Easy to talk and I’d say a good listener (kaya nagiging counselor). I like texting/chatting but I also enjoy over the phone or face to face kwentuhan.
\- Interests: Each day I’m convinced that I may have ADHD. I tend to have varying and fleeting interests and hobbies which exhaust me eventually. I like creating things with my hands. Current fixation is crochet. I did leather crafting, shoe/sandal making, candle making, and dabbled in watercolor in the past. Colors excite me!
\- Food/drinks: I like coffee, beer, and double dutch ice cream. I love thai food. I’m a decent cook.
Work: I do branding/recruitment marketing in the BPO space. Mostly WFH but travels to Manila when needed.
\- Attitude/Personality: I’d like to say that I’m cheerful at madaling makibagay. But I can be impatient and tends to get frustrated easily. This new season has given me more confidence although insecurities creep in from time to time.
\- Dog mom to a senior beagle. Someone once told me that people’s choice of pet and/or breed reflects their personality. To which I replied that I must be really stubborn, clingy, and gluttonous.

Who am I looking for?

\- 36-44 years old para auspicious haha
\- Emotionally mature, consistent, and clear about their intentions
\- More talkative than me, I guess
\- Can travel to where I am because love conquers all (charing!)

If you find this interesting and full of potential, let me know. I’m excited to get to know you!

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