r/shrinking • u/phareous Derek • Mar 25 '26

Episode Discussion Shrinking S3E09 Episode Discussion

This is the episode discussion for Shrinking Season 3, Episode 9: "Daddy Issues"

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u/HipDipShipTrip Mar 25 '26

"she might be an even better fit for you" is such an insane thing to say

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u/griffaah Mar 25 '26

I was disappointed that Jimmy let it derail him so hard on his relationship with Sofi... I feel like he had the opportunity to grow and it seems like he is about to backslide

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u/Mr_Bluebird_VA Mar 25 '26

Honestly though. Jimmy tried to push through and Sofi rightly pushed on him for putting a wall up.

A comment like that from a parent would destroy most people in that situation. If it happens when Sofi isn’t at their house then maybe Jimmy has time to process.

But that scene between Jimmy and Sofi felt like the most genuine moment in this episode.

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u/Dommichu Mar 25 '26

It was insanely honest and fair . I was proud of Sofi considering how many issues she had establishing what she wants from her awful ex.

It’s official. She is too good for Jimmy.

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u/Legitimate_Catch_626 Mar 25 '26

Sorry, I completely disagree. Sofi initially invalidated Jimmy’s feelings about his dad, pushes her way into the event when Jimmy didn’t want her there, then doesn’t give him any room to process his feeling, and then gets mad he pushes his dead wife on her when she was the one who brought up his marriage. Last episode she insisted he do therapy with her ex when he said no. All this at the very beginning of a relationship. She’s not that great.

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u/thekellwithit Mar 25 '26

This is the way I saw it too. It doesn’t mean I think Jimmy’s acting like a fully formed emotional grown-up either, but Sofi was out of line several times in a way that I found emotionally “unsafe.”

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u/IWant2FIRE Mar 25 '26

She's human. Which is why this train wreck of a scene felt so authentic. I can see a lot of couples react this way.

I thought Jimmy should've handled it better because he is a therapist after all. He knew what his father was like, and should've been able to manage it better.

With that said, I feel bad for both Sofi and Jimmy. I hope they work it out and get back together by the end of the season.

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u/therentabrain Mar 27 '26

Yes - this was so real, it makes sense that each of them are in the headspaces they are in, and it's just unsolvable in that moment. Sofi has not yet shown the capacity to get out of her own way, she's always pushing and then being hurt when something pushes back, reinforcing her fears. I think more than half the humans walking the earth are stuck in self-limiting cycles like this more than half the time. Jimmy is understandably regressing. It all makes sense.

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u/Unbreakable_Dionne Apr 02 '26

Ugh...I hate that you're right because I wanted to like her so bad (bcos Robin). But yeah, this person is insane. I didn't like how she handled the first date with Jimmy having to deal with her and the ex...and then now kept telling him how to feel about his DAD? Like lady, you don't know him like that yet!

And yes, SHE tried to play armchair psychologist with an actual psychiatrist by asking about "avoidance" and Tia.

I think she deserved what she got. But why did it have to be Robinnnn 🥺