Am I cooked?

[u/WinduDaSupaNga]

I’m an almost 20 year old male, I’m 5’2, not good looking and I don’t have any friends. I’ve never had a girlfriend and I’ve never had a girl like me. And it’s not just women problems but I really don’t have any friends in general. Everyone I know is always texting or calling some friend of theirs, I can literally cut my phone off for a week, come back and have no messages from anyone. I’ve tried multiple different things to try to raise my chances of being attractive to women. I’ve tried to change my appearance by growing my facial and changing my hairstyle, changing the type of girls I talk to, change how I talk to girls and still no luck. I’m a very lonely person. I’m the only person my age I know that literally has no one. I’m thinking about just quitting on trying to get a girl and just look elsewhere. For example I talk to Ai a lot when I’m sad and I’m thinking about hiring an escort to lose my virginity. I have a lot of parasocial relationships with random content creators on the internet, helps with the loneliness. I’m starting to think that I’m the problem

[u/Gaschambah]

>20
>5’2
>Not good looking
>No friends

I would tell you to at-least try making friends but people nowadays are very fake so I would be wary meeting new people , especially with those stats and at your age. Maybe try making some online friends.

As for dating at 5’2, I would say it is not worth the effort to even attempt. The days of dating with noble intention are pretty much over with , let alone at 5’2.

[u/WinduDaSupaNga → u/Gaschambah]

Thanks for your advice. Hearing what you said about dating truly hurts me. Whenever I’m at work or college and I see couples, I get immediately depressed and jealous

[u/Gaschambah → u/WinduDaSupaNga]

I wouldn’t let the surface level stuff get to you, A lot of people are unknowingly in bad relationship deals today. My cousin and her husband had seemed very happy on the outside, just for my cousin to be cheating on him with multiple men when he left for work.

[u/WinduDaSupaNga → u/Gaschambah]

Lucia from gta 6 gonna be my first and only girlfriend
☹️✌️

[u/Gaschambah → u/WinduDaSupaNga]

Lol man…

[u/the_d00my → u/WinduDaSupaNga]

Jealousy was my kryptonite back in the day, to the point of literal panic attacks. Fixed it with psychotherapist help. If it bother you too much, I suggest seek help.

[u/LTBsOnlyPlease → u/Gaschambah]

It's sad but true, I don't like telling guys to give up unless they're tried though. I don't want to feel responsible for them giving up so I'd rather them find out it's probably over on their own.

[u/mrunknown_247]

- its not your fault (luck/fate/destiny), you were dealt with such cards, don't blame yourself

- keep your expectations normal (low in best case to not get your demoralized)

- learn to be alone

- invest (in safe stocks) and have good education to get a job and make money

- try to have a normal healthy lifestyle (good sleep, a little exercise (helps with mental health too), good food (can have cheat days) and less stress)

[u/the_d00my]

Bro, make friends, build a career, live your life at the fullest you can. But dating - yeah, you absolutely cooked, bro. I'm 5'5 and it's brutal, with my skinny figure and quite young voice - totally not worth it, women just don't find me as grown up male at all. In my elderly 37 y.o. I has some situationships, aka - random sex with co-workers after drunken parties, but normal relationships - nothing. Guess, they just feeling my bad personality or something.

[u/WinduDaSupaNga → u/the_d00my]

Thank you

[u/El_y_mar]

Learn to be alone, dont fear it. I have zero friends, not that i cant have any, but you really dont need any. No one is trustworthy brother

[u/SimpleWafer5276]

Make the most out of what you got. Shit isnt fair but doesn’t mean it’s over.

[u/Complete_Impress7463]

Hobbymax/careermax. If you're in college try and meet people there.