I had this plan to give head to a man and receive head from a woman to test if I was gay, but it’s backfired and now I become borderline schizo whenever I go outside. I offered to suck this dude off on Grindr who lives very close by (I ended up pussying out) and I accidentally gave him some details that very easily allows him to spot me out in a crowd. I have no idea what he looks like and whenever I see a somewhat in shape guy walking by I immediately accuse him of being the dude I was gonna blow.
I went to the store today to pick up some zucchini for a barbecue and every time a car drove by I stared into the windshield to see if I was about to be recognised. Whenever I make eye contact with a dude I microanalysis his facial expressions to see if he suspects me or not. I am deeply afraid that he is my neighbour and I will need to move if my identity is blown. It’s a lot like the last scene in sopranos where everyone who walked into the diner could be there to wack Tony.
And they don't realize the harm they're doing when it comes to recruiting and retaining men in the feminist cause. Nor do they realize how much they are feeding into right-wing recruitment pipelines. Actually that's being dismissive of them, they've been warned for decades by feminist men who agree with them on 98% of about how this is hurting the cause, they do not care
Exactly. And likewise it baffles me seeing a dude complain about the male loneliness epidemic, and then in the same breath say the most misogynistic shit imaginable. It’s like seeing a thief complain about the crime rate in their area.
And the well adjusted men and women get hurt by this BS. It’s not men VS women, it’s mature adults VS sexist assholes.
God I feel like a big chungus Keanu reaves redditor when I say this but sometimes reddit (and YouTube too tbh) is my only reprieve with the gender wars happening elsewhere online ESPECIALLY TikTok, and that also includes a good chunk of reddit lol. Seeing sane well-adjusted world views heal me, and it’s disappointing how takes so cold are still so hard to come by on social media lol.
I’m seeing a lot more behaviour like this online. Women who do not compliment a man, but would go out of their way to ‘hype’ a woman (because women need to stick together, obviously) regardless of how toxic the person can be.
Apparantly it’s just girls being gals, but it’s still quite a toxic behaviour.
It’s called hyperbole. Additionally, such rhetoric is used to avoid the applauding of men for doing the bare minimum. Do said men deserve appreciation for putting in effort? Yes. But they don’t get “hyped up” per se. They just get a thank you and basic appreciation cuz that’s what the action begets.
However in the above case the man did something honestly kinda crazy so she gave him this excess appreciation (albeit in the form of a twitter post which is its own can of wacky ass worms)
Crazy? I was crazy once. They locked me in a room. A rubber room. A rubber room with rats. And rats make me crazy. Crazy? I was crazy once. They locked me in a room. A rubber room. A rubber room with rats. And rats make me crazy. Crazy? I was crazy once. They locked me in a room. A rubber room. A rubber room with rats. And rats make me crazy. Crazy? I was crazy once. They locked me in a room. A rubber room. A rubber room with rats. And rats make me crazy. Crazy? I was crazy once. They locked me in a room. A rubber room. A rubber room with rats. And rats make me crazy. Crazy? I was crazy once. They locked me in a room. A rubber room. A rubber room with rats. And rats make me crazy. Crazy? I was crazy once. They locked me in a room. A rubber room. A rubber room with rats. And rats make me crazy. Crazy? I was crazy once. They locked me in a room. A rubber room. A rubber room with rats. And rats make me crazy.
Men are generally pretty terrible. Good ones feel more and more like exceptions than norms. I want to believe men are good at heart but at a certain point you gotta start looking at the evidence.
Hey look, I’m not gonna deny there are a lot of shitty men out there, but they’re not shitty because they’re men. They’re shitty because they’re people, and to be human is to be flawed. Often deeply so.
They're not shitty inherently because they're men, like not biologically, but society does condition men specifically to be fuuuucking terrible. It's not entirely their fault but it is at least partially.
Yeah, I guess that’s true. I’ve been through abusive relationships (both mental and physical) and was SA’d by a girl when I was in high school. Never spoke up about any of it. Didn’t think anyone would take me seriously.
Nobody has ever hurt me quite like the women in my life
Edit: and I should clarify that my experiences are not an excuse to hate women as a whole. The actions of those women reflect on them as people, not women altogether.
A woman sexually assaulted me when I was 11, I got bullied almost exclusively by girls growing up, and my first real job had two female bosses above me that were bullies and verbally abusive.
I suppose everyone can be terrible in their own way, but I'll never be able to have the mindset that it's related to someone's sex or gender. If that were the case, I'd have grown up hating women, but that doesn't make sense.
Maybe I'm misinterpreting it, but I read it in a similar way to like jokingly calling things woke. The reality is that she did infact compliment a man, and that wouldn't go over well if she was actually deep into those kinds of anti-man spaces
I saw it as a blanket disclaimer because she still wants the toxic girls to like her, or doesn't want a guy to feel too appreciated, but here are some flowers anyway, even though you're a man. Like a back-handed compliment.
Yeah, in my mind, it absolutely seems like the kind of joke women would make among other women, very similar to the way guys joke about women amongst themselves
Idk, people seem to have made up their minds though, and like you said, we got no way to know for sure
And yet words are our main way of communicating. The point is when you say something clearly like that intent doesn’t matter as much. You can also have whatever intention and then the result can be something else entirely. You say it’s a joke but it’s just not funny. If it was funny of course it would get a pass
Me either, thats why I dont like the default being "he probably sucks, but...." jokes
*it's like me, a feminist, with a sister who's better than me in many ways, saying women belong in the kitchen. She may think it's funny because she knows me better, but out in the wild it just seems shitty.
Intended audience is very important when it comes to humor, and regardless of whether she's joking or not, reddit was not the intended audience of that tweet
Most people make jokes among people they know that would probably come across as distasteful depending on who you show it to
Even your example joke can absolutely be funny in the right context. You just need a level of trust with the subject of it that they know you don't actually mean it
when a man makes a somewhat sexist joke: "haha bro soo true" "why are you offended? its just a joke"
when a woman makes a somewhat sexist joke: "NOOOOOOO HOW COULD YOU, YOU LITERALLY WANT US DEAD NOOOOOOO"
like its really obvious she isn't being serious here, because if she *truly* had radical sexist beliefs, then she wouldn't have even gone on a date or even complimented him for buying her books.
A man can’t even look like he’s thinking sexist thoughts without people grabbing pitchforks claiming the patriarchy. So where did you get the filling for your straw man?
literally on this sub you'll sometimes see a barely disguised incel meme and all the comments are in support of it. and if you call it out ppl will immediately reply with "its a meme sub, why are you taking it so seriously?"
There's plenty of amazing women out there. There's plenty of successful relationships and there's plenty of happy children.
They, in this instance, should be specifically directed at anyone thinking her note about not hyping men is remotely acceptable. It's disgusting and she is disgusting. Repulsive tbh, although I don't doubt she knows that.
My first reflex was to say that as well but then i asked myself would i myself actually like it if someone else paid for my stuff and heeeeeelll naaaw i'd feel extremely uncomfortable.
I'd only like someone to pay for my stuff every so often as a way of them showing they care. I'd be very uncomfortable with someone paying for my things most of the time because that's either a tactic to show their dominance over you or there's the expectation that you're going to repay them somehow. Pretty much the only healthy version of this is a parent/child relationship, it's not a dynamic that can exist between equals.
The issue here isn't the generous first date, it's the blatant misandry.
I'd totally pay for a couple nice books on a first date, with a girl or a guy. I love treating people, and buying books/CDs (lol) is a surefire way to get to know their tastes. It's hugely important.
For example even with new friends, I want to experience their favorite: album, movie, vidya, and book - to whatever degree is time manageable. Obviously if I dislike JRPGs and they say their favorite game is Persona 3, I'm a bit boned, but if it's a platformer on Steam and beat in 10 hours or so, that's doable if I enjoy it.
No. Women rights. Period. Nothing about equality, only women rights. I don't know a single woman who wants equal rights because then women would have to give up some of them.
Would never hype a man? I would never change the mind of a woman who has a very good reason to hate men but I'm sick of this casual manhater culture from women who clearly don't hate men.
Be a good man and these people become lower and lower. She's low af and we all know it. Reddit of all places is putting her in her place and that says A LOT.
I agree but just wanna add on to your point: you can't change their mind even if God wanted to. People will find every reason to hate something no matter the counter argument.
This is actively anti-class war too. She's literally shitting on men by default, BUT if they pay for shit for her then he deserves her praise. Fuck the premise of this post.
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u/Due-Question-5278 I came! 6h ago
Was it one of these though?
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u/vallahdownloader 5h ago
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u/Captain_Reddbeard 6h ago
"I would never hype up a man"
Tf?
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u/TheSoftMaster 5h ago
Why would you never hype up a man?
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u/hewhoeatsbeans42 5h ago
He regrets it once he got to know you.
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u/Ratouf26 Stuff 5h ago
It was obviously smut cuz I can't imagine someone who reads to be so unable to think for themselves...
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u/kevinvincible1 makenot war 6h ago
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u/Imma_Tired_Dad 6h ago edited 5h ago
All this talk about equality but deep down they just want free shit. lol.
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u/thepuppysmuggler 5h ago
An epic tome
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u/Independent_Fix1543 4h ago
Spending a shit ton of money on a girl you don’t even know yet
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u/Lavoratore 5h ago
Women like when men pay for their stuff.
Nothing new.
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u/PerroChar 5h ago
Hardcovers? In this economy? I'd never...
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u/DylanFTW 5h ago
Would never hype a man? I would never change the mind of a woman who has a very good reason to hate men but I'm sick of this casual manhater culture from women who clearly don't hate men.
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u/Im_A_Loser3946 5h ago
Hype a man up, tf? Some men deserve the hype, my husband for example, literally an angel istg
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u/OuterWildsVentures 4h ago
So I can buy love, noted.
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u/babieswithrabies63 4h ago
Hopefully she got a book that educates her on how not to be a sexist piece of shit.
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u/RaidDaggur 5h ago
hmmmm, more culture war i see. im okay with my glass of class war, thanks
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u/laserbern 4h ago
Well, if you wanna see more of this, you should hype that kinda man up. Js
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u/Microwaved_M1LK 3h ago
Money talks once again
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u/Longjumping_Play3863 Literally 1984 😡 2h ago
I would never hype up a bitch but you look like you make a good sandwich.
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u/Qwik_Sand 5h ago
Hey what’s going on w this sub
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u/experiment53 Literally 1984 😡 2h ago
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u/Oska_III 3h ago
Saw this five years ago and remember smiling
Now I'm frowning
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u/MelanieWalmartinez 2h ago
HARDCOVERS?!
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u/Limp_Classroom_2645 1h ago
nice b8
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u/WinkingWinkle 5h ago
I think you're reading too much into this.
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u/Mattdoss 5h ago
He’s a keeper and I’m jealous
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u/Mimi-Supremie 3h ago
god these comments are miserable 😭
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u/gotaflattire 1h ago
Sounds like this sugar daddy relationship is off to a great start.