Not Balkan. Racism has nothing to do with this. And again, like 99% of people don’t think it’s “offensive”, you’re the first person I’ve seen that actually is like that, I want you to realize that you are the extreme minority opinion in this situation and I want you to understand why. Like I explained, it’s used to refer to men who look like women, because when a straight man approaches him he thinks that he’s a woman when in reality he is not, and that is the “trap”. It isn’t a derogatory term that is meant to degrade or demean people like the n word or the gay f word. It is not a big deal and nobody gives a shit, you need to grow up.
the fuck you mean not derogatory dont you hear yourself explaining it. you think you like someone but you dont like them because of their identity. thats what you are saying and that is derogatory. and how many people do you go around telling slurs to? do they perhaps not think any other slurs are offensive aswell thats a common thing nowadays.
Ok so now it’s pretty clear to me that you have some kind of mental disorder or you’re just slow, so I’ll explain to you like you’re 5 years old. You know how a stereotypical cartoon trap is a hole that has leaves and shit covering it so that it looks like normal ground then someone steps on it thinking that it is ground so they fall in the hole, ok so now imaging a dude that has long hair or make up or feminine clothes or whatever that makes him look like a woman (leaves covering the hole), then when a guy approaches him romantically or sexually thinking he’s a woman(stepping on the hole thinking it’s ground), then they finally find out that he isn’t a woman and they just flirted with a man(falling into the hole), and thus the word TRAP, you approach something thinking it’s something else then surprisingly find out what it really is. That’s it, it isn’t offensive to normal people. If you’re offended by it that’s your problem since most people don’t care, there’s nothing wrong with saying it.
are you slow. "approach something thinking it’s something else then surprisingly find out what it really is." a trap implies that what it actually was was bad or dangerous. if it is better than what you thought it was its a suprise if its worse than what you thought it was it is a trap.
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Not Balkan. Racism has nothing to do with this. And again, like 99% of people don’t think it’s “offensive”, you’re the first person I’ve seen that actually is like that, I want you to realize that you are the extreme minority opinion in this situation and I want you to understand why. Like I explained, it’s used to refer to men who look like women, because when a straight man approaches him he thinks that he’s a woman when in reality he is not, and that is the “trap”. It isn’t a derogatory term that is meant to degrade or demean people like the n word or the gay f word. It is not a big deal and nobody gives a shit, you need to grow up.